Men who crossdress: orientation?

[gergyorgergyor]

Hey Y'all,

I recently started dabbling in crossdressing. I'm a bi cis-male. I've been pondering the intersection between and both being bi, and it being a sexual thing vs. "appearance" thing.

I'm a large, not traditionally beautiful man, and one thousand Ru's couldn't make me look like a hot woman- at least not in my current shape (working on it though.) Nevertheless I play around with makeup, nail polish, panties, leggings, skirts, and pants and shorts. My nails are done all the time, but that's the extent of "out" beyond the apartment complex. Here, I'll get the mail, etc. in leggings or ladies jeans. I also keep my legs shaved full time.

So, there's the "what I think of as traditional xdress" where I look as much like a female-me as possible, and work towards being more and more out among the English. Also, there's a sexual part where I want to xdress like a schoolgirl or whore for purposes of bottoming. So far, just to the Hismith fucking machine, but once I find the right wig, I think that me will be ready too.

Anyone else mix xdressing for both sexual and non-sexual purposes? Male, female, bi, gay...?

Take care, greg

 

[SissySalina]

You missed the big one, the FEELING. How it makes you feel inside, you may not look so beautiful but you feel it inside. The sex is the same way, how you feel that you are fulfilling your destiny, that satisfaction that this is what you are here for, the purpose fulfilled.

 

[gergyorgergyor]

Excellent point and question, SissySalina.

I don't feel beautiful- not overall, anyway, but I am happy with some areas: getting better slowly at makeup, and have loved wearing eyeliner since I used to go dancing _years_ ago. I love how hose and leggings feel on freshly shaved legs, and how I look and feel in reality tight jeans or shorts. Overall, headed in the right direction there, I think.

Sexwise, I do want the other person to like how I look, but that is secondary to me feeling slutty in a specific way: skirt up and panties down or torn off if I find someone/s to fuck me, and absolutely my makeup very mussed from an aggressive bj and come making it run.

greg

 

[stargame]

You missed the big one, the FEELING. How it makes you feel inside, you may not look so beautiful but you feel it inside. The sex is the same way, how you feel that you are fulfilling your destiny, that satisfaction that this is what you are here for, the purpose fulfilled.

Yes, the feeling of the fabrics, the idea you are a gurl and feminine is what I like best

 

[Cleanshaved50]

You missed the big one, the FEELING. How it makes you feel inside, you may not look so beautiful but you feel it inside. The sex is the same way, how you feel that you are fulfilling your destiny, that satisfaction that this is what you are here for, the purpose fulfilled.

Well said!!!!

 

[gergyorgergyor]

Earlier this evening, I got as close to my complete "naughty schoolgirl" outfit as I have so far.
White blouse, bra, short, pleated skirt, thong panties, garter belt, thigh high stockings, and 3" heels. Felt great. Hoping my wig on order will round out the outfit.
I thought I'd like the panties the best (and I do love them,) but the garter has six straps and is just incredible! I also have some knee socks that I'm going to try out.

greg

 

[hmmm53]

wow

sounds so hot.i would love to see a pic

 

[steve6161]

Dressed up tonight in black corset with black thigh highs red panties having some fun

 

[gergyorgergyor]

Yikes! Ok, baby steps, but here you/ we go:
https://imgur.com/gallery/G2MBwi4

greg

 

[sisscindy]

Yikes! Ok, baby steps, but here you/ we go:
https://imgur.com/gallery/G2MBwi4

greg

Shame I can't open the link

 

[gergyorgergyor]

Shame I can't open the link

Sorry, imgur is being weird about the post. I'll find somewhere better to post the pics this afternoon.
greg

 

[gergyorgergyor]

Sorry, imgur is being weird about the post. I'll find somewhere better to post the pics this afternoon.
greg

OK, hopefully this will be more persistent than imgur.
fixed: https://ibb.co/kMXLjLG
fixed: https://ibb.co/W0HZ8yW

greg

 

[bimori]

OK, hopefully this will be more persistent than imgur.
https://ibb.co/0f5KLxR
https://ibb.co/r7TVZ5V

greg

Nice Greg I this you look incredible. But the important thing is how it makes you feel.

 

[gergyorgergyor]

Well, hobbnobb77, I'm sure there would be no shortage of men who would be happy to meet you at your tub rather than a bar or club for a rendezvous.

Or, assuming it is the bath not _your_ loo that is doing the magic for you, perhaps the jacuzzi tub at a decent hotel for the sake of keeping strangers out of one's home?

greg

 

[OlderBtm4U]

Nice Greg I this you look incredible. But the important thing is how it makes you feel.

I agree with both points.

 

[OpenMouth]

Hi! I usually consider myself straight, despite protestations (stand up Lucy Canyon ) due to some of the things I have done while dressed or undressed.

I'm not attracted to men, which might come as a surprise to anyone watching me entertain a few.