Men Kissing - Story Turn-on?

[Guest]

I'm working on the third part of a series in which a married couple explores the use of strap-on play:

His Toy Story

His Toy Story 2

In His Toy Story Chapter 3, they add another man to their sex life, thus bypassing strap-ons for the real thing.

Here's the problem. Can these terrific men kiss? I've sent portions to some male friends and they seem to be saying the same thing. "Look, I'll suck, and fuck, and be fucked, but I won't kiss another guy."

Am I missing something, or would the fact these men (one bi, and one hetero) kiss lovingly be a turn-off?

Help!!

(I can post part of it here, but it is a bit tough to understand out of context - also naughty as hell!)

 

[Svenskaflicka]

I know some people would find it too much, but to me, it's a huge turn-on to see men kiss.

 

[pop_54]

Yepers

Of course men can kiss, full on tongue in mouth or just love pecks, it happens all the time love.

Bi-sexual men have the same basic urges as full on gay men, some are shit scared to admit it, but it's a fact. If you'll suck a guys cock, you'll suck his mouth in a fit of passion, even dare I say it, love.

Bi women kiss, Bi men kiss, you'll get the usual bunch of red neck homo-phobes who'll call you a sicko in feedback, just ignore them.

pops................

 

[Guest]

Thanks Svenskaflicka and pops. I know it's big turn-on for me!!! (Here's a sample - ya know us writers - we just need to share!!!)


Pleased, and yet mortified, my husband grinned, wiping his wet lips with the back of one large hand. He met Marc’s eyes and the heat in the room actually increased. They had forgotten for a moment I was even there, I realized, and somehow that thought excited me more than anything else had.

Hands still in his hair, looking down, Marc said softly to him, “I want your ass.”

At those words, I felt a flood of moisture enter my already dripping pussy. I watched him hesitate, still kneeling, looking up. Marc waited a moment, then held out a strong hand for my husband. He slowly stood and for a moment, they were face to face. Both tall, well-formed, hard bodies, thick cocks. Marc pulled my husband forward until they were very close, and as I jammed several fingers in my pussy, kissed him firmly.

Oh my God - watching men kiss was such an incredible turn-on. It was hard but tender, difficult to explain, but watching all that strength barely held in check had me so close to orgasm. Marc led him to the bed and pushed him to all fours, his face close to me. I was not interrupting; I was just enjoying the incredible show. As I continued to finger myself, I watched Marc spread my husband’s ass cheeks and begin to tongue him everywhere.


to be continued!

I am having a very wild time writing this particular story! Whew!!!

 

[Svenskaflicka]

Hummina-hummina-hummina...

*drooling*

 

[Guest]

 

[pop_54]

Hmm

Do you mind not posting stuff like that sarahh' it's bad for the jolly old male ego you know, Hehehehehehehe!!!!!!!!!!!!

(It also gave me a Bone-on)


pops..................

 

[Guest]

Smiling - pops, you say the sweetest things!

 

[Svenskaflicka]

In my experience, men are rather fascinated by gay male sex, evn if they don't want to try it themselves. They are also fascinated by other men's bodies and dicks - I think that it's more a matter of trying to see if they measure up, than of them actually having bi fantasies.

 

[pop_54]

Probably

In my experience, men are rather fascinated by gay male sex, evn if they don't want to try it themselves. They are also fascinated by other men's bodies and dicks - I think that it's more a matter of trying to see if they measure up, than of them actually having bi fantasies.

It's not what you've got it's how it's used, hehe.
But you are quite correct a lot of guys I know who'd shy away from male contact themselves would be fascinated watching two men humping each other for real.

I never compare dick sizes with other men, I'd hate them to feel inadequate, I always cover up to avoid embarrassing them.
(If you believe that, you'll believe any bloody thing, giggle)

pops..........

 

[jfinn]

My gay friends tell me that it's often easier to get a bicurious guy to give a blow job than to take the big leap and kiss. For some reason, a lot of men can't seem to justify that one like they can the actual sex. Go figure.

This is also a frequent theme in gay and bisexual stories on the gay sites, so it's a pretty big issue. Of course in the stories the issue is always resolved by someone sticking their tongue down a throat, but I have a friend who's been "dating" a married guy for two years now and they've never kissed cause the other guy says he can get that from his wife.

I would think that in your story, (very nice btw) that since this man is actively agreeing to exploring that he'd probably be okay with it from the beginning.

Jayne

 

[Svenskaflicka]

I think it's sort of like they think that sex is one thing, it's just for fun, but kisses means admitting that they really have feelings for another man, and that seems more gay..?

 

[jfinn]

I think it's sort of like they think that sex is one thing, it's just for fun, but kisses means admitting that they really have feelings for another man, and that seems more gay..?

That sounds like a good explanation to me.

Jayne

 

[pop_54]

OK

I think you'll also find it's a cultural/religious upbringing thing, I don't know for sure, but I feel there's more resistance to the male emotional outpouring of kisses and love chat in the US than in a lot of Europe.
I personally have never known a guy who claims to be Bi-sexual, yet would refuse point blank to kiss a male lover or express love.

Maybe in macho male dominated conversation in the pub, but get them alone and horny and anything goes.

pops...........

 

[Svenskaflicka]

It's definitely a cultural thing. East-europeans and northeast-asians (and The French ) have a habit of kissing as a greeting, as a sign of friendship and politeness. Looks funny to a Westerner.

And from what I've been told by guys visiting India, Indian men have the habit of showing their affections to their (male) friends by hugging them in public, and walk down the streets holding their hands. This guy who told me about it said he had nearly freaked out every time his Indian hosts had kissed him - though if he had protested, he would probably have insulted and hurt that man's feelings very much.

 

[jfinn]

Re: OK

I think you'll also find it's a cultural/religious upbringing thing, I don't know for sure, but I feel there's more resistance to the male emotional outpouring of kisses and love chat in the US than in a lot of Europe.
pops...........

Yeah, lol, you won't get an argument from me on that one. Lots US males are phobic about anything they think might threaten their macho image. Personally, I blame John Wayne.

Jayne

 

[Svenskaflicka]

I've heard that John Wayne was very found of embroidery.

Wasn't Rock Hudson gay?

 

[Star of Penumbra]

Men not being able to show thier softer emotions like love and affection for each other is one of the worst (not biggest) problems in America. I place a good portion of the blame on macho bullcrap movies, sports, and especially beer commercials.

I think Americans as a whole would be happier if American men were willing to show thier softer emotions more often and more publicly.

 

[gauchecritic]

I may be giving a little too much away here but, I often find myself in the position of kissing blokes on the gob, as we say up here.

Christmas time, birthdays, anniversaries I often kiss girls (well into the night after several drinks) celebrating some event or other, then to be jokey a few of the husbands of these girls will pout and say "what about me?" so before they can react I plant one squarely on their gob too. I've never actually been hit up to press but lots of guys shy away instinctively from another blokes lips.

On the other hand quite a few guys will reciprocate because they see it as a friendly (outrageous up here) gesture, with nothing sexual behind it, in the same way as they see nothing sexual in their wife being kissed on these occasions.

Not had any tongues yet though, and now I come to think of it I've never actually kissed any of the gay blokes I know either.

Gauche

 

[SlickTony]

I have a friend who's been "dating" a married guy for two years now and they've never kissed cause the other guy says he can get that from his wife.

This is a guy, right?

 

[Guest]

Thank you everyone!

Your responses are terrific. And also incredibly varied, so I still don't have a friggin' clue!

I want to leave the kissing in. I think it is sexy and also part of the husband's acceptance of the situation (and also turns the wife on big time - lol).

Of course, this all may change by the time I finish the story!

*sigh*

 

[SlickTony]

Sweetsubsarahh, I'm looking forward to reading the whole thing!

 

[jfinn]

This is a guy, right?

Oops, yeah, they're both guys. Sorry I didn't make that clear.

Jayne

 

[Guest]

Sweetsubsarahh, I'm looking forward to reading the whole thing!

Thanks - I can't wait until it is done - this is a hard one to write!

(maybe 'cause I keep thinking too much about the male characters?)

 

[Dirt Man]

Perhaps as an American male I can shed some light for you...

Growing up here in America isn't much different than growing up anywhere else. In fact we have every ethnic divergence that you can think of here, and those who still hold to their ancestral traditions in and around their neighborhoods.

My father and I kissed, and hugged each other upon greeting each other, or at bedtime daily up until around the time I turned 10 years old. At that time I told him I was much too old for kissing, and that it made me feel uncomfortable especially around friends. My father agreed, and from then on we mostly just shook hands, and at extreme moments maybe even hugged, but even that became more rare as time went on, and the teenager rebeled, and became an adult. However I continued to kiss, and hug my mother, and still do to this day. Now you might think that this is just one person's side of this issue, but the truth is, the same thing happened with pretty much every hetero sexual male that I've ever known here in America so it really isn't. Which is why I think the reason most men don't care to see men kissing each other here is that it brings back that memory of what they gave up.

Now as to your story, lovers do kiss, as do sexual partners, no matter what their sexual preferences are. So if the story calls for a kiss between two men as your's seems to, I don't see the problem. And this from a hetero sexual male at that.

As Always
I Am the
Dirt Man