Men and insecurity

[sexyeyes1]

Are all men insecure? Just a harmless question for all you guy's.

 

[curious2c]

NO!


Well, not really.


It depends.


Heh


ummm Maybe once in a great great while a man may be a tiny bit insecure. possibly perhaps

 

[Lost Cause]

Define insecure......

What's your observational parameters....

 

[UnseenChagrin]

Personally I think everyone is insecure in their own way, just some more than others.

 

[Star of Penumbra]

No, not all men are insecure, even if it often seems that way.

 

[glamorilla]

usually the ones that brag the loudest are.

 

[methpez]

Yes

IN one way or another yes. It could be the question am i the best for you? Could there be someone better? and the usual

Dose this look wierd or is it just the angle? or something like that.





NO realy its the first time thats happened....

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I feel insecure sometimes...and then sometimes I swing to far the other way. Right now, I'm feeling just right.

 

[Oscuridad]

I am NOT insecure.

I just like to check up on you... Lots... Cause I miss you...

*is really here to stalk Star*

 

[Bent]

All the men I know are secure, some overly secure, some arrogantly secure, some so secure you just want to smack the crap out of them.

 

[Saint Valentine]

I do have my days when my insecurity gets the better of me, but I think everyone does. I also agree with Glam. The bragarts are the most insecure people.

 

[peachykeen]

I haven't met one yet that is totally secure, except maybe this yogi guy I was in a workshop with once who was so fucking grounded it was like he had exponential gravity.

 

[ithaqua]

If men are not *insecure*, then they are overbearing blowhards, or know-it-alls.

It's a catch 22.

Bad situation.

 

[k¡tty]

I've known of two men in my life who are the most secure people.


About their intelligence, abilities, work related, family stuff, emotionally. But they were older men.. so I think that with age not only does wisdom bring, but security.

 

[just pet]

I think it runs the gamut from insecure bullies, to confident secure men.

Insecure connotes self absorption, an obsession with "how do I measure up?"

Men who see themselves honestly recognize there are areas that need improvement, and are proactive and self motivated towards its realization. They are self directed, not other directed.


A secure man is a sexy man

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I have my moments...and maybe Kitty's comment about age is true, because as I get older, I spend much more time feeling confident. I know I have my faults, I'm not full of myself, but I know I'm pretty good at being me. More importantly, I enjoy being who I am, 'band-camp chick' voice and all.


You know what? I do enjoy being me...I didn't really realize how much fun it is!

 

[Cleopatra]

This is kind of like asking if all women are bitches. Generalizations aren't going to get you very far if you want to know people, in my opinion.

 

[Oscuridad]

I am NOT insecure!

*looking for his blankie*

 

[The Heretic]

I'm not insecure.

Why? What makes you think I am insecure? Have you been talking to my ex? What did that bitch tell you? She doesn't know what she's talking about!

 

[just pet]

I'm not insecure.

Why? What makes you think I am insecure? Have you been talking to my ex? What did that bitch tell you? She doesn't know what she's talking about!

She told me you are very secure
And she only mentioned your binki once

 

[Prince Romeo]

You're question is to open ended. Insecure about what? Our looks, our image, our love, our commitment, our ability to be honest, our faith in another, our ability to be a good mate, our ability to be a father, our ability to provide, our ability to be a good lover?

The fact that we are alive and ever changing beings should be answer enough. We grow and our ideals change. What frightens us, what we are insecure about changes as well. For example, when I was 21, I was insecure about my future. I wonderd all sorts of things like whether I would ever have enough money, if I'd ever get a god job, etc. That was then. Today, I don't worry about that. Is there anyone out there who doesn't have occasional doubts? I don't think so.

There are many things I'm sure of. There are many things I don't know. But the not knowing doesn't scare me or leave me feeling insecure.

 

[Cleopatra]

Psst...O...Heretic...Your collective insecurity is showing.

 

[Oscuridad]

For the last time I am NOT insecure!!!


*goes off to sulk in a prima-donna style flourish*

 

[The Heretic]

And she only mentioned your binki once

Lies, all lies!

 

[Lonley1]

Are all men insecure? Just a harmless question for all you guy's.

No I know I suck