Men and DILDOS

[subpup123]

My ex gf introduced me to dildos. She had a vibrating love egg and remote control. When she used it the first time I got so horny my ass clenched and when she pulled it out i squealed like a girl. after that we tries a lifelike soft rubber cock complete with veins and hood. It felt SOOOO good i learned to push back and she would advise me how to take a big cock, how to sit down on one that was real big. We talked about me having a small plug inside me when we went for a walk and she giggled at the thought of having me sit on her lap in a park or her sit on mine and gently bounce up and down. I so wanted to do that but it never did happen.#sigh#

 

[subpup123]

Another occasion I remember vividly was when my ex gf was making me suck a gorgeous large lifelike dildo, advising me how to improve my technique, when her phone rang. To my immense joy she continued her conversation with her friend while slowly face fucking me. breaking away from her phone to whisper exactly what she thought of me and egg me on, to breathe louder, to take it deeper etc and then, sweet as you like, return to her mundane conversation
I was so hard but had my hands tied. Her indifference was a real turn on.

 

[blubyuf6]

I have a couple, but my new one is great. 8" fat 6" insertable lifelike with suction base mmmmm Love to just look it as it hangs because of it's weight. haven't had it that long but found out i can deepthroat it, and when i fuck my ass with it, i cum so fast and i don't even have to be fully hard thats how good it feels. i also wear panties and have a crotchless pair i fuck with sometimes... love being a slut...

 

[39Donna]

dildo

for years I had a collection of dildos. I finially got my wife to use the double ended one on me. It was a tight fit but it worked and she really had a huge orgasm. I started to use but plugs off and on. it was quite a while until we did it again and I had obtained a harnes for one of our other dildos. and then we got a femdoe it is the best for me but she prefers the dildo in harness.

I just wish we would do it more often

 

[SissyJane]

Another occasion I remember vividly was when my ex gf was making me suck a gorgeous large lifelike dildo, advising me how to improve my technique, when her phone rang. To my immense joy she continued her conversation with her friend while slowly face fucking me. breaking away from her phone to whisper exactly what she thought of me and egg me on, to breathe louder, to take it deeper etc and then, sweet as you like, return to her mundane conversation
I was so hard but had my hands tied. Her indifference was a real turn on.

That is SOOOO hot! I'd love to have that happen.

 

[Cabeza]

I like holding the dildo in place on the floor or bed and squatting over it and fucking it. It makes me feel like the woman in a girl-on-top fuck, just needing that cock. Or I like to stand and lean forward over something and reach behind to fuck myself with it.

 

[neon_noodle]

I love my suction cup dildo. I get all sluted up in my best heels and stockings, stroke my cock and lick up the pre-cum that drips out of my head. I have another dildo that I suck and lick like a whore, and then lube my asshole up for the one I've attached to the bed. I back up on it slowly, moaning with the other cock in my mouth, until I'm stuff front and back.

Then I buck back against that rubber dick, fucking myself, rubbing my G-spot against the head, licking and sucking on the one in my mouth till I can't take it anymore, and spurt my load all over the front of my black satin panties.

 

[meflash]

I love my suction cup dildo. I get all sluted up in my best heels and stockings, stroke my cock and lick up the pre-cum that drips out of my head. I have another dildo that I suck and lick like a whore, and then lube my asshole up for the one I've attached to the bed. I back up on it slowly, moaning with the other cock in my mouth, until I'm stuff front and back.

Then I buck back against that rubber dick, fucking myself, rubbing my G-spot against the head, licking and sucking on the one in my mouth till I can't take it anymore, and spurt my load all over the front of my black satin panties.

neon you are so hot love the profile pics check out his storys very hot wow

 

[CoastalTom]

I can't use a toy in my ass. Whenever I try, I get too worked up and masterbate and cum too quick. I ache to be tied down (so I can't take control and blow my load) and have my ass used by her and a random man of her choosing.

I have tried several toys - none work for me - its frustrating!

I have tried thin vibs, thicker dildos, plugs and yet even when I take my time, use lots of lube, all I feel is somewhat full. No sensation, no, well, nothing.

Any reasons why? I know it must feel good because so many guys love pounding their asses but here - zilch.

 

[pink69whore]

Ok I have this HUGE fantasy about me taking my husband in the ass, he doesn't mind my tounge or a finger and we have used small anal toys, However I am DYING to fuck him with a strap on, How would we go about this, and how can I make him stay hard while doing it? What about him getting tipsy so he can relax a bit more, because sometimes he seems to tense up much like I do at times when he takes me in the ass

 

[bi golly]

Ok I have this HUGE fantasy about me taking my husband in the ass, he doesn't mind my tounge or a finger and we have used small anal toys, However I am DYING to fuck him with a strap on, How would we go about this, and how can I make him stay hard while doing it? What about him getting tipsy so he can relax a bit more, because sometimes he seems to tense up much like I do at times when he takes me in the ass

He may not stay hard without some stroking. It's all good.

 

[nolaboy]

i have several of various widths...am only on the thin ones but trying to get up to ordinary sized so I can try anal for the first time!

 

[gaymm]

This thread needs some pictures

 

[Sterling]

I've used a few 'household' items on my ass, but I've never taken a real cock or even a dildo in it. I always get far too tense and I can't get it in there.

I tried to let a guy off the internet fuck my ass, but I again, tensed up too much and he couldn't really get it in even with quite a bit of lube.

So, I remain unfucked... unfortunately.

 

[longnmguy]

Love it!

I've got a friend that loves to do me with her toys. She used an 8" and thick dildo on me one evening, aiming while watching it do me...then continued to fuck me with it while she sucked me off. I had the most incredible orgasm of my life...and she came twice while sucking me.

Really crave the real thing, but a woman doing me is the next best...

 

[Curious_Sub]

I've used a few 'household' items on my ass, but I've never taken a real cock or even a dildo in it.

Same here. Would this help get me stretched out enough to enjoy my first time?

http://www.theadulttoyshoppe.com/Flesh-Initiation-Kit-TO903.htm

I figure i could start with the smallest one and work my up so i'm loose enough that my first real time getting fucked doesn't hurt.

 

[tss48380]

Taking your husband

Ok I have this HUGE fantasy about me taking my husband in the ass, he doesn't mind my tounge or a finger and we have used small anal toys, However I am DYING to fuck him with a strap on, How would we go about this, and how can I make him stay hard while doing it? What about him getting tipsy so he can relax a bit more, because sometimes he seems to tense up much like I do at times when he takes me in the ass

If you want to fuck your husband with a strap on make sure you use lot’s of lube and finger his ass first to get him loose. Make sure he can handle two fingers comfortably before you go for the dildo. Tipsy is a good idea, but too much, you don't want to hurt him by accident. In my personal experience the best position is with him on his back at the edge of the bed with his ass hanging off just a little. You stand between his legs and enter him. This way you can see each other’s reactions which makes it much hotter (for me). It also gives you access to his cock to keep it hard, but be careful not to make him cum to fast. When my girl does me she pinches my nipples which keeps me very hard without causing the dreaded early cum. This position also allows you to put his legs up on your shoulders very easily when you are ready be a little more dominant. That will give you excellent leverage as well by holding his thighs if you want to fuck him hard and fast. My girl likes to tie my hands behind my head when she fucks me to keep me from jacking myself off. This gives her complete control over my orgasm.

Just go slow at first, take your time, have fun and then fuck the shit out of him. By the way, whether he admits it or not it will be the best orgasm he has ever had.

 

[JohnMBrowning]

A whole bunch more butt toys here:
http://www.mojogarden.com/analstimulators.aspx

(208 vibrating ones here: http://www.mojogarden.com/vibrating.aspx)

 

[JohnMBrowning]

Thread just inspired me to order some toys for solo entertainment:
Jelly First Timer Anal Vibe Purple
Enchanted Pleasure Wand Pink
Mini Vibro Probe - Pink

 

[downforce]

I have a prostate massager that I use some, a nice size buttplug that I pull out if Im REALLY feeling adventurous, but mostly I use my wife's rabbit. Get it all the way in, and the clit stimulator sits nicely on your balls. Great sensations

 

[JohnMBrowning]

I have a prostate massager that I use some, a nice size buttplug that I pull out if Im REALLY feeling adventurous, but mostly I use my wife's rabbit. Get it all the way in, and the clit stimulator sits nicely on your balls. Great sensations

What part goes in?

 

[downforce]

What part goes in?

the big part, that's shaped like a cock. It swivels, while the clit stimulator vibrates. Makes for great sensations both inside and out

 

[susurrus]

Same here. Would this help get me stretched out enough to enjoy my first time?

http://www.theadulttoyshoppe.com/Flesh-Initiation-Kit-TO903.htm

I figure i could start with the smallest one and work my up so i'm loose enough that my first real time getting fucked doesn't hurt.

It might, but an inch and a half (the smallest size shown) is still quite a bit of width if you aren't used to having anything in there. Start with a finger, then when you're comfortable with that, try to add another. If you get used to that, then you might want to try a toy of some kind. The sphincter muscle can be pretty tough to get to relax for something penetrating it from the outside. It is, after all, primarily an "out hole" to quote the movie "In and Out."

I have a couple dildos and plugs, and I can tell if I haven't been using my toys for a while, by which ones I can or can't get in easily. I have a six inch dildo that I often sit on while I play at the computer, and a larger one (The General by Tantus) that there's no way I can sit on comfortably. About six and a half inches is pretty much my limit on length before things get painful inside, and the General is probably two inches or more wide, and I've managed that pretty easily, so length is also something you'll need to experiment with.

The primary rule, especially where anal is involved, is: if it hurts, you're either doing it wrong, or it's too much for you. Pain is your body's way of saying: I can't do this. However, by going slow, certain muscles can be stretched, before the pain starts. The interior stuff is pretty much set.

So, I'd love to be able to find a short, thick dildo that I can sit on while I'm at the computer. Let's face it, like the prolixus commercials on my satellite radio, it isn't length that matters, it's width. Most of the sensation's derived from stretching the muscles, the length doesn't really have a lot to do with it, except psychologically.

Well, that's probably more than anybody really wanted to know, but that's my take on this subject. I love having my ass filled, and I've even enlisted the help of my wife occasionally, but she doesn't seem to derive any excitement from seeing me take the dildos, and she's not anally oriented herself, so I mostly just leave her out of the picture, in that respect, unfortunately.

 

[susurrus]

Okay, I'm back again. Sorry.

Curious,

You didn't mention what experience, if any, you've had with anal play.

On the same site, but a couple items back from the kit you posted, there's a small butt plug.

http://www.theadulttoyshoppe.com/DJ024401.htm

Once you've gotten comfortable with a finger, you might think about going to something like this, then two fingers.

Anyhow, something I meant to mention, and it's in reply to one of the posts talking about textured plugs and how difficult they can be on the sensitive tissues of the asshole. I have one of those textured plugs, and you're right, it gets really uncomfortable in a hurry. I understand the initial reasoning behind that "no-skid" texture, but it wasn't the good idea they thought it was.

My solution: Don't throw away your textured dildos/plugs. Roll a regular condom over your dildos or plugs before you use them, every time. Not only does this alleviate the discomfort should your toy have an unpleasant texture to it, but it also makes things ever so much easier to clean up. You pull it out, there's some dirt on it, you carefully pull the condom off (I often wipe the worst with toilet paper, then strip it off over the toilet, especially with plugs, because the rubber won't want to come off easily), then I roll the condom (it's already turned inside out, so any stinky stuff's on the inside) in a reasonable amount of toilet paper.

 

[hommax]

What I absolutely love is butt plugs, the one I use the more is the Tantus severin large plug and ofcourse I'm wearing it right now. When I meet my wife I had just a few toys, we talk about and was not a problem, today I have a big suitcase full of nice big dildos and other toys and I'm wearing my butt plug daily under her autority.