Melancholy & Nostalgia

His_kitty

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Is there someone that your thinking of today, that you haven't seen or talked to in awhile?

Someone who was very special in your life but isn't in it anymore?

Whether they have passed on or have moved on - but your heart still aches for them.
 
There are several people who have passed through my life that fit this.

Who I miss terribly and think of often.

But specifically today there is one person in my mind and heart.

He was my confidante, my protector in many ways, my mentor.

He taught me many things, he opened my eyes to love and respect. He made me laugh, offered me his shoulder when I cried. Cheered me up with words of encouragement, he could make me giggle when I was sure that I could commit physical harm to someone, not three minutes before.

He could read the tone of my voice, my body language, in what I said and most importantly the things that I didn't have the courage to say.

He knew me inside and out. It's humbling to know that someone else, other than you, knows how horrible a person you can be, and amazing that they still accept you.

I miss you very much B., not just today but everyday. :rose:

3-3-3-3
 
You are fortunate to have had such a person in your life.

:rose:

I bumped the "Holiday Ghosts" thread.

There, I started revisiting those not with me around Thanksgiving.

Many hugs to you.
 
MissTaken said:
You are fortunate to have had such a person in your life.

:rose:

I bumped the "Holiday Ghosts" thread.

There, I started revisiting those not with me around Thanksgiving.

Many hugs to you.


I was, and am.

I guess that I've been unconsciously hoping that I'd hear from him today. What a wonderful present that would have made. I know had he been able to, that he would have.

Sorry... just me being silly and emotional today.

Hugs back to you MissT., I appreciate it. :rose:
 
His_kitty said:

Sorry... just me being silly and emotional today.

silly and emotional never fit together in a sentence.
Today is the day to be booth but not in the same time.
:rose:
 
scrymettet said:
silly and emotional never fit together in a sentence.
Today is the day to be booth but not in the same time.
:rose:


Nothing more than I can say or do but a simple Thank-you.
:rose:
 
I am missing someone today who is in my life...but some odd 3843 miles away from me. I saw the first snow fall of the year this morning...I wish I could have shared that with him.

Alas...next year...even better yet...next year is knocking on the door...
 
MorgaineLaFay said:
I saw the first snow fall of the year this morning...I wish I could have shared that with him.

You have.
Just a feeling that I have that loving souls connect regardless of distance.
 
MorgaineLaFay said:
I am missing someone today who is in my life...but some odd 3843 miles away from me. I saw the first snow fall of the year this morning...I wish I could have shared that with him.

Alas...next year...even better yet...next year is knocking on the door...


It still makes you sad knowing that the one you love isn't by your side right now.

But having the knowledge that he will be soon... does give you something to look forward too and the hope that you'll awake in his arms next Christmas morning. :)
 
His_kitty said:
Is there someone that your thinking of today, that you haven't seen or talked to in awhile?

Someone who was very special in your life but isn't in it anymore?

Whether they have passed on or have moved on - but your heart still aches for them.
slow smile
of understanding

been there
am there
 
...I am always mega depressed around the holidays and even though I thought this year might be different...:(

...I am thinking of more than one someone tonight...
 
kidthor said:
...I am always mega depressed around the holidays and even though I thought this year might be different...:(

...I am thinking of more than one someone tonight...


As am I, but this person is more prevelant right now for some reason.

Maybe its because I honestly believed he'd phone me today... 'tho I suppose I should know better.


Bah anyway.


:kiss: :kiss: I'm sorry you're a bit down tonight hon.
 
His_kitty said:
As am I, but this person is more prevelant right now for some reason.

Maybe its because I honestly believed he'd phone me today... 'tho I suppose I should know better.


Bah anyway.


:kiss: :kiss: I'm sorry you're a bit down tonight hon.

...as am I...sorry he din't call...he's obviously out of his mind...
 
kidthor said:
...as am I...sorry he din't call...he's obviously out of his mind...


He'll either log on tonight to send me at least a quick message over msn, or he'll phone at some point tomorrow.

I just miss my best friend....
 
His_kitty said:
As am I, but this person is more prevelant right now for some reason.

Maybe its because I honestly believed he'd phone me today... 'tho I suppose I should know better.


Bah anyway.


:kiss: :kiss: I'm sorry you're a bit down tonight hon.

huggles to you

I do know how it is, now and with someone far away,....

My problem is making time with the family and holidays to keep in touch.

As you said, maybe next Christmas........
 
His_kitty said:
There are several people who have passed through my life that fit this.

Who I miss terribly and think of often.

But specifically today there is one person in my mind and heart.

He was my confidante, my protector in many ways, my mentor.

He taught me many things, he opened my eyes to love and respect. He made me laugh, offered me his shoulder when I cried. Cheered me up with words of encouragement, he could make me giggle when I was sure that I could commit physical harm to someone, not three minutes before.

He could read the tone of my voice, my body language, in what I said and most importantly the things that I didn't have the courage to say.

He knew me inside and out. It's humbling to know that someone else, other than you, knows how horrible a person you can be, and amazing that they still accept you.

I miss you very much B., not just today but everyday. :rose:

3-3-3-3


It's sad that you had that and it slipped away.

Warm hugs.
 
His_kitty said:
Is there someone that your thinking of today, that you haven't seen or talked to in awhile?

Someone who was very special in your life but isn't in it anymore?

Whether they have passed on or have moved on - but your heart still aches for them.
the holidays are difficult for Gil. there is someone Gil has never seen, but thinks of every December 25th, as it is her birthday. today was also difficult as Gil took his kids back to their moms house. the killer was, as Gil was unwrapping his gifts emotion got the best of him.something that Gil rarely allows to happen. but it will pass as it always does,until next year.:(
 
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Batchoohus said:
smile


you are kind

thank you


Your more than welcome, Batchoohus.



Huggles back to you MissT... they are warmly appreciated, just as you are.



As do I ShamelessFlirt, as do I.


Gil I'm awfully sorry hon, I have an idea just how you felt.


:rose: :kiss:


I hope that you all have a wonderful Christmas Day.
 
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Gil_Favor said:
the holidays are difficult for Gil. there is someone Gil has never seen, but thinks of every December 25th, as it is her birthday. today was also difficult as Gil took his kids back to their moms house. the killer was, as Gil was unwrapping his gifts emotion got the best of him.something that Gil rarely allows to happen. but it will pass as it always does,until next year.:(

Pass
quickly
Christmas pass quickly
it is a soul baring time of year
family far away
friends far away
and I am far away from my feelings
 
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His_kitty said:
Sometimes that's easiest....
It will have to do this year.

I feel no Christmas spirit
and that so not good.
 
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Batchoohus said:
It will have to do this year.

I feel no Christmas spirit
and that so not good.


Well... I wish that I was more unemotional.

It would make things easier if I were. :)
 
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