Meeting Your Kinky Soul Mate

JHouston

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I have too many kinky fetishes to list, but, the problem is I have dated girls with zero to medium kink. I want a girl who is willing to participate in swinging, cuckoldry, group sex, bisexual sex, BDSM, strap-on, latex fetish wear, crossdressing, and whatever else is the fetish of the day. I really want a girl who is not afraid of pushing to the limits and past the limits. But, I wouldn't even know how to raise these issues with a girl.

Those of you who are in a relationship with similar-minded pervs, how did you find them? Did you just get lucky? Did you meet them at a fetish event or through a fetish club? Did you meet through a fetish dating site? Or did you both evolve into pervs?
 
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Try fetlife.com. You can search by kinks, location, etc.
 
My husband and I met in college. He says he came after me because, "You were the girl all the guys talked about." He says he wanted a girl who was not afraid of sex.

He found one.
 
I have too many kinky fetishes to list, but, the problem is I have dated girls with zero to medium kink. I want a girl who is willing to participate in swinging, cuckoldry, group sex, bisexual sex, BDSM, strap-on, latex fetish wear, crossdressing, and whatever else is the fetish of the day. I really want a girl who is not afraid of pushing to the limits and past the limits. But, I wouldn't even know how to raise these issues with a girl.

Those of you who are in a relationship with similar-minded pervs, how did you find them? Did you just get lucky? Did you meet them at a fetish event or through a fetish club? Did you meet through a fetish dating site? Or did you both evolve into pervs?

You say the girls you've dated have zero kink. That may not be the case in all honesty. If someone met me in the real world they'd never believe I have said some of things I have on here or admitted to the things I have. It isn't that I have zero kink in real life, it's simply that I struggle to bring it out. I was raised a certain way and have spent my entire life being that and showing pretty much only that. It's second nature now. It took me a few years of being married to even tell my husband some of the things that I fantasize about.
 
Thank you. I hope so. It's been 14 years and I must say, he and I get along very well. I wouldn't trade him for the world.

I met my wife in college and this year will be our 20th, keep it fun, interesting , and sexy, he will be yours forever!
 
I met my kinky soul mate about 10 years ago, I let her go though, damn
 
You say the girls you've dated have zero kink. That may not be the case in all honesty. If someone met me in the real world they'd never believe I have said some of things I have on here or admitted to the things I have. It isn't that I have zero kink in real life, it's simply that I struggle to bring it out. I was raised a certain way and have spent my entire life being that and showing pretty much only that. It's second nature now. It took me a few years of being married to even tell my husband some of the things that I fantasize about.

I can relate, brainwashed southern babtist, its hard to get out of represing desires
 
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I have found fetlife.com an awesome resource for new friends and fetishes all over the place! It's an awesome companion site to here. Lots to discover with no judgement...my favourite kind of places......:kiss:
 
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