Just an honest question, I find it really hard to meet women who are open minded sexually. Reading a few threads on these forums, its obvious to me that I'm not alone and lots of other people enjoy experimenting. But I'm tired of investing lots of time on girls only to find theyre really plain vanilla in bed, many just want to be pumped hard and don't even like giving or recieving oral!. That was fine in my early/mid 20s, now its boring. Maybe I'm just in the wrong circles. I'm 27 and I've only ever been with one girl who was experimental, and I actually really enjoyed the sex for once. Theres a lot more I want to experience, threesomes, group sex, and many fetishes, and I have no idea where to start, especially since I live a busy life with uni/placements/work and can't be chasing around 24/7! Any advice?