Meet?

[Lasher]

Fortunately, this isn't a "swinger" site, and I think what most of the women were thinking here is:

"He's desperate....I saw the movie "Southern Comfort" and he might not even have a high school diploma...If he goes around having sex with people he's never met or even spoken too, god only knows what diseases he might have... He's nothing more than a lump of coal... Don't they have 900 numbers to keep guys like this off the streets?..."

Sure, it's just a guess, but I think it's a safe one....

 

[Cyra_3]

Please try to get to know the people you want to shag first.

 

[Cyra_3]

A simple conversation to start with wouldn't hurt. I hate it when people want to fuck me without even knowing what I am like as a person.

 

[Siren]

 

[DeltaRose]

It can be exciting when done with finesse. I've refused my husband for saying, "Let's fuck." on the grounds of no imagination. Tell me you've been wet all day thinking about me, and you are on the right track. Say "Let's fuck" and you're on your own. You have to arouse my mind first. I've been a one night stand before, but I'm that one night stand that you still think about even at 70 on the porch rocker. I'm not against R4S asking for what he wants. Just do it with more style.

 

[Lasher]

I guess it's just this wacky intuitive sense that I have.... Orrrrrr....Maybeeee... it had something to do with.....

Tiggs
Are you from Calgary (sp?)? Sorry, had to ask

sammyjo
LOL @ Tiggs....heehee

cheyenne
Does it count if I was just thinking about doing just that? If so, raise my hand!!!

Hecate
Uhhmm - Rendezvous4Sex - I am sorry to say but I seriously doubt this approach ever worked for anyone - so nothing to do with you personally, but more with a few others who tried before - including ... Bob *lol*

Anjelique
R4S would get just as much shit, if not more, if he had made his request in person, rather than on the board.

siren
If you want to just fuck someone, there are many chat sites that you could have better luck at.

Cyra_3
A simple conversation to start with wouldn't hurt. I hate it when people want to fuck me without even knowing what I am like as a person.

Anjelique
And I don't know about any of the other women on this board, but I was gravitating towards Lashers ideas on what he felt women of this board were thinking...

I guess it doesn't take a whole lot of effort to read people's minds when they are speaking them, dontcha think?? And I did say it was just a guess.... hehehe

Lasher, how on earth did you come up with the idea that you have the slighest clue as to what the womman think?

Womman dig me, LOL...And they're ALWAYS telling me I know what they're thinking...Just ask them....hehehehe

Lasher, you contribution to this thread was of no worth

Ohhhh...That really hurt. It was pretty damn funny, dontcha think??....I mean, Have you seen the movie "Southern Comfort"???? Bunch of National Guardsmen stumbling thru the bayous in Loooosiana getting ett by crocigators?? Tell me that's not a funny reference... That was at least worth a couple chuckles...

*sigh*

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[Lasher]

oops!!

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[Rendezvous4Sex]

Two people who have a common interest, meeting for a soda, and... going from there? Are you people trying to tell me that it's possible to be friends then lovers, but, not lovers then friends? Personally, I believe the likelihood of a healthy relationship developing when two people find success intimately, before they learn whether or not they will have success in other areas is good. What's the difference between finding a successful personality match, and then finding out the intimacy may or may not be good? Believe you me, I have had, and will likely continue to have plenty of dates. To tell you the truth, I'm just sick of the whole dating game, all the hoops we both jump through and cones we go go around only to find that MAYBE we are compatible, and maybe NOT. Certainly there many out there, myself included, who have successfully rounded all the bases only to get to home plate and be out. In other words it's not uncommon for two people to INVEST days, weeks, months, even years only to learn they are compatible in every area EXCEPT in bed. Bed just happens to be one area that I, (and I thought everyone else here), think is important. Should a discreet rendezvous result great sex only, I would guess we would both consider it a high return, on a small investment. Should it result in more than that, who's against getting a huge return on a small investment? I've had lot's of successes AND rejections in every area of my life. Soo, for all you who seem to be ridiculing my actions... who the hell cares? I don't need your approval.

 

[Siren]

 

[Lasher]

*Thinks about portfolio*...Uhhh, anyone see where Microsoft is today? What about Tandy?... I need to call my broker...

Ohh, wait...Lasher:

How do I get my "Swinger's Ad" back?

Looks like ya just have to start your own thread, siren.... Although it is kinda funny that you never see the women starting threads like that...But there's definitely NOTHING desperate about it at all...


How do you get sheet shredding sex?

Remember "Nightmare on Elm Street"? Hmmmm...???



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[Rendezvous4Sex]

Journey... ? Isn't sex part of the journey? After all haven't we all experienced both intimacy that has led to sex, and sex that has led to intimacy? Think I need to post these opinions on a similar thread too.

 

[Siren]

 

[Lasher]

Ahhh.....siren, baby, we all die in the end. The trick is how you get there....

And, trust me, there's only 1 Lash.

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[Angelique]

Successfully rounding the bases only to be out at home plate???? Are you for real????

Strike three R4S...you're out! And this is the last post I'll direct towards you 'cause it's not worth my time to keep beating a dead horse!

As I've said before, to me sex is NOT the be-all/end-all to a relationship. Relationships are built on mutual trust. If I didn't give a shit about my life, I'd be out there fucking every guy who made eyes at me, including YOU, R4S! Why on earth would I want to risk contracting AIDS from someone just for a romp in the hay to see if we were sexually compatible first? I assume that you weren't offering to indulge physically with your AIDS test results in hand at the soda shop, correct?

Here's my take on it...personality is something that is very difficult to change, but bedroom performance can certainly be enhanced once a trusting foundation is set. Which means, in order to get me into the bedroom, I first have to trust you and feel compatible enough with you in order to share that part of myself. So just like the good ol' game of baseball, you're gonna have those times where you're tagged out at home plate...just remember, in order to get there, you must pass first, second, and third bases.

Ok, I'm done with the soapbox here.

 

[Siren]

 

[Guest]

From reading the postings on this page and others on this BB, it's clear that as soon as the person called Lasher and a few of his/her girlfriends start exchanging cutsies, all hope for staying on subject is lost. Why, I wonder, if you don't like a post or the person posting, do you even bother. Go somewhere else to play your childish games. But you know what? I'll bet more than one of you have already called R4S's pager.

 

[Lasher]

HEY!! Completely unfair!! I went back and looked and at least 3 of my posts were on topic, possibly 4.... if ya stretch it a little bit....

Seriously, though (yes, I did say serious) - I don't have any feeling one way or the other about the poster, or his post. It's not a matter of like or dislike - this is supposed to be fun. R4S made his original post because he was looking to have fun - we're not doing anything different.

And... I've said this before and I'll say it one more time here... I like to think of myself as "childlike"... Pay attention - K? (or I'll have to unleash my MINIONS upon you!!!)

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[Cg1369]

Bimbo, how exactly does your post pertain to the subject? Did you not also deviate from the subject?
I disagree with your comment about Lasher and his/her cuties If you've been around the BB much, you'd know that HE and his "cuties" post many more insightful, thoughtful, intelligent, on topic posts than they do funny ones. Read the posts, every one of them, that Lasher has made in the past 5 days. You'll find the majority right on subject, with a little humor thrown in.

If what you're looking for is a BB with no allowance for humor, jesting, or just plain old having fun, you're on the wrong BB. I had been on several BB's before I stumbled on this one, and I have not been back to a single one of them! Why? Because, despite what you may think, the people here are the greatest. Sure, they poke fun at times, but when you consider all the intelligent, thoughtful, caring responses they've made that far outweighs their poking fun.

So, if you have an aversion to people having fun, even on a serious topic, might I suggest that this is not the BB for you. Cause if the people here ever do change, ever not poke fun, ever not tease, then this BB and this site will wither and die.

Lasher and all your "cuties"...... never change. I like ya just the way ya are.

Oh, and Bimbo...if you do decide to stick around, register. It'll give your comments more weight.

Just my 2 cents.............

Bud

(why do I somehow get the feeling that bimbo is really the person she/he is defending?)

 

[Siren]

 

[Rendezvous4Sex]

Bimbo, Siren, everyone has their right to an opinion. However, it's only the people like who can tactfully make them without attacking someone else that I really care what they think. I believe if more people had the courage to post their true desires, there would be more posts similar to my own. R4S

 

[Rendezvous4Sex]

Oops... People like YOU(typo), Bimbo, Siren. Have to remember, I'm human and make mistakes, only Lasher, Angelique(RS4), and similar BB members are perfect. R4S

 

[Lasher]

only Lasher, Angelique(RS4), and similar BB members are perfect.

At least we got something straight here. *whew*

 

[Siren]

 

[Lasher]

Lasher, how did you get to be omnipotent?

You'd have to ask my wife about that....

 

[Angelique]

Oh how exciting it is to be categorized side by side with Lasher! *jumping up and down*

Siren darling...glad to be of service on taking your virginity darlin'!

Now here's where I'm confused...is the point that people seem to be attempting to drill into my perfect head that I'm not supposed to have a one-on-one debate on something I'm passionate about? And if I have an opinion that may possibly be in the minority, am I supposed to keep it to myself? And if I want to harmlessly tease someone about a typo that struck me funny, I should keep it to myself? Ummmm....yep, I'm confused alright. Ya' see guys...it all goes back to that freedom of speech thing that I remember learning about as a kid.

If you had a witty retort to make, I would expect you to make it. That's the fun part about board.

I'm not an anally retentive person that takes offense to every flippin' post that may or may not be directed towards me. So flame away if ya' got something to say. I'll post what I want, when I feel like it. But truly, anyone who knows me on this board will agree that I don't GO AFTER people with the intentions of making them feel like shit. And why the hell am I explaining myself to anyone? Geez! Lighten up folks!

Now Lasher, I'm a bit parched from being on the soapbox so much today, darling. Would you mind sharing some of that holy water you're hording over there?