Me and Lesbian tomboys again.

[Betticus]

Okay, I posted about this months ago but damnit it's been happening again.

I saw this little girl at the movie theater a couple of weeks ago with her girlfriend. I was just fascinated. She was thin and short and boyish with painfully short hair, no makeup and pretty much shapeless clothes but it's like my damn gaydar pinged off of her when I got close. She was cute as a button too but that doesn't matter. She had a girl and was with other friends and I tend to behave myself. But, I was extremely attracted to her.

My ex gf, with her clothes and hair just right could be mistaken for a boy in public. For me that would take a huge stretch of imagination though, she was in a miss Virginia pageant. She is pretty much down the middle bi though. And in bed... stunning. She put me to sleep a few times. This is the only girl that has ever been able to top me. Talk about fun.

The little tomboys are my fave but it doesn't make too much difference with who I'm attracted to. I love them all. Tough girl biker chicks all the way to the achingly gorgeous lesbians. I dig them a lot. My best friend is a gorgeous lesbian, I fit into the crowd and scene like I was born there. We tend to flirt like crazy even if there is no chance that it will go anywhere.

I know that it isn't just me either. Other guys are into lez ladies. Not the guys that are hoping for threesomes either..

I cross over just a bit too, there are some boys that can pass for really hot girls that I like to gaze at.

I lost my train of thought and the point to this. It's late. Forgive my meanderings.

 

[Etoile]

So it sounds like - and correct me if I'm wrong here - you are attracted to butch and soft butch women, who sometimes turn out to be lesbians. Is that it?

 

[Betticus]

So it sounds like - and correct me if I'm wrong here - you are attracted to butch and soft butch women, who sometimes turn out to be lesbians. Is that it?

For physical looks yes but from past experience I get along much better with girls who are bi or lesbian. I don't know what it is exactly but there must be personality traits that mesh well. I guess that it also doesn't hurt that when I'm dating someone and the relationship is good I don't mind them having a girlfriend.

I just don't feel that another girl is really competition and don't mind sharing. As long as the rules are established like no trying to steal my girl for herself, no other men..etc... And don't mistake me for trying to live out fantasies either. I've only been involved in a group thing once. I'm not out to sleep with everyone. I just feel better if my girl is out with her girlfriend when I'm at work and can't be home.

Shit. It's hard to get across. When I have a girl I do worry about her when I'm not there and part of it is that it relieves some of my anxiety. Kind of like a surrogate daddy, so she's taken care of all the time. I guess that it goes into that daddy thread in bdsm at least as far as sharing her with another girl goes. I have to trust the other girl though.

I'll have to sign up on photobucket so I can host some photos of my ex and then maybe you'll understand better. Might have to also host some of the type I'm talking about. Not all of them are masculine or have that tendency.

 

[Betticus]

I must have been smoking some good rock to have forgotten that I can upload small pics.

I'm getting a hosting account later, they are down for maintenance right now.

Anyway, this is the type that I tend to go for. Try not to steal my photo, it's my own work and thus my intellectual property.

 

[Etoile]

That's definitely a lot more feminine than I expected! Just the fact that she is applying makeup is feminine, plus she has very fine, delicate features. Perhaps because you've seen her IRL (from other angles, etc.) you can tell that she is tomboyish, but to me she looks very girly.

 

[Betticus]

That's definitely a lot more feminine than I expected! Just the fact that she is applying makeup is feminine, plus she has very fine, delicate features. Perhaps because you've seen her IRL (from other angles, etc.) you can tell that she is tomboyish, but to me she looks very girly.

Well, I had to put up one of my best shots of her since you went off and put up your own magazine photos.

 

[DarkAurora]

A lot of people are into androgyny(sp?). There's nothing wrong with that at all. I like feminine men. A guy who wears tight clothes and shaves his legs is my kind of man. Some male rock stars who wear make-up are just WOW.

 

[Lisaelisa]

Took me a while to work out that you're actually a guy. I agree though tomboy fem girls can be very attractive, nice picture.

 

[Betticus]

Took me a while to work out that you're actually a guy. I agree though tomboy fem girls can be very attractive, nice picture.

They are just precious. And thanks, of all the photos I have of her I like that one the most. She was doing makeup and getting ready for work and I just grabbed my camera and started shooting. She was so used to me and my cameras that she just ignored it and it turned out great.

As far as my gender, yep I'm a guy. Only men can get away with posting their actual location in their profiles. I had a hot chick avatar for a few days once and I thought I was going to have to start hunting down assholes. WTF are these guys thinking? Jerk off to the av all you want but don't tell me about it. That is just disturbing!

 

[Betticus]

A lot of people are into androgyny(sp?). There's nothing wrong with that at all. I like feminine men. A guy who wears tight clothes and shaves his legs is my kind of man. Some male rock stars who wear make-up are just WOW.

That kind of guy is just about the exact opposite of me.

 

[ExistentialLuv]

Why Betticus, I am so glad I popped over here to the GLBT and saw your post.

You really are an amazing man and PJ even has nice things to say about you (that means a lot coming from her).

Remember you have a scheduled photo session in mid Febuary or early march

 

[Betticus]

Why Betticus, I am so glad I popped over here to the GLBT and saw your post.

You really are an amazing man and PJ even has nice things to say about you (that means a lot coming from her).

Remember you have a scheduled photo session in mid Febuary or early march

Damnit, that's right. I need to get back to my workout. Say hi to PJ and hugs for both of you.

 

[ExistentialLuv]

Damnit, that's right. I need to get back to my workout. Say hi to PJ and hugs for both of you.

I always do say hello to her from you buddy. by the way, you are real special (not in the short bus way).

To stick with the subject at hand about you and tomboyish looking ladies. Wait till you see the new hair color and cut I got

 

[Betticus]

I always do say hello to her from you buddy. by the way, you are real special (not in the short bus way).

To stick with the subject at hand about you and tomboyish looking ladies. Wait till you see the new hair color and cut I got

 

[rosco rathbone]

Lesbians per se don't do much for me, but the no-makeup, short hair, boy clothes, Hillary Swank look gets me right in the heart every time.

 

[Betticus]

Lesbians per se don't do much for me, but the no-makeup, short hair, boy clothes, Hillary Swank look gets me right in the heart every time.

Oh yeah! And I love strong women. Not at all like the Marilyn Monroe busty, curvy type but the more compact, wiry muscular type. A to B cup breasts and slender hips. Short hair, trimmed to the nape of the neck. Just enough to be able to grab hold of but not too much more.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Oh yeah! And I love strong women. Not at all like the Marilyn Monroe busty, curvy type but the more compact, wiry muscular type. A to B cup breasts and slender hips. Short hair, trimmed to the nape of the neck. Just enough to be able to grab hold of but not too much more.

Gymnasts, dancers, and short-haired yoga instructors. Compact, firm, perhaps slightly chunky in a solid way.

I've long wondered why tomboys got me so bad, I think it was an ex who never wore makeup, shaved her head and only wore old jeans, running shoes and t-shirts--yet had a subtle and seductive sway to her hips and was a total femme fatale.

To get back to the lesbians, I think they invent the best girl styles, though.

 

[Netzach]

Who thought up the shaved hear except for the bangs thing though?

And you're not in the midwest, you do not know the truth of the girl mullet.


"I just don't feel that another girl is really competition and don't mind sharing."

I've always wondered what's in it for that girl. I like to get laid, I even have a male partner that I would not ever kick out of bed for another person, but...

I don't do sloppy seconds for het guys, never have, never will. Do you have some insight into those thirds? I'm just earnestly asking, I really don't know what motivates them.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Believe it or not, the shaved head-with-bangs actually originated amongst the girlfriends and assorted molls of skinheads; who are known as "bootgirls". This look may well have crossed over to lesbianism as various skinhead women got together to console, comfort, and eventually make love to one another while their men were doing extended bids for various skinhead crimes.

 

[Netzach]

Wow, now see, that's actually some news you can use, thanks.
I had no idea where it came from, it just started showing up on neurotic long haired vegans at college one day and I knew I was a femme when I said "no fucking way" to the hair du jour.

 

[Mary Hall]

I`m a tomboy

 

[Betticus]

"I just don't feel that another girl is really competition and don't mind sharing."

I've always wondered what's in it for that girl. I like to get laid, I even have a male partner that I would not ever kick out of bed for another person, but...

I don't do sloppy seconds for het guys, never have, never will. Do you have some insight into those thirds? I'm just earnestly asking, I really don't know what motivates them.

I don't think of it in that way. I don't have to be there for what she has between her and another girl. I never mentioned threesomes. If it turned into that kind of relationship I suppose that we'd have to talk about what we are all comfortable with and willing to do for/with each other.

I see the part of her that loves women as something that I can't touch or satisfy. I wouldn't want to try to be an ass and insist that she forsake part of who she is to satisfy my ego but I do have to know that I come before anyone else. I also wouldn't insist on being involved in the sex with her and another girl. I like one on one sex personally.

 

[Betticus]

I`m a tomboy

I'd really have to turn off sigs and avs in order to chat with you. I don't know who that is in your pics but he looks like an asshole and I just want to stab him in the eye.

 

[Mary Hall]

Awww that`s Randy Orton, the most feminine looking boy i`ve ever seen

 

[Betticus]

Awww that`s Randy Orton, the most feminine looking boy i`ve ever seen

Looks like an ass to me. Never met him though, I could be wrong.

You are a tomboy huh? Shame on you, tomboys are my weakness!