I thought I was totally a sub until I had a man offer himself to me. Now, I'm discovering I'm a switch. I don't have any experience in this area. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. This is online only. I want this to enrich both our lives. I find this submission to be highly erotic. I wish to be a good Mistress but to also know how to punish, when needed. I realize this area is so broad and everyone's opinions are different. But if you could share your experiences or training, I could learn more and go from there. Thanks for your time.
Me A Mistress?
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That idea never occured to me. I'm asking for real advice, thanks.
sadangel
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That was real advice. Actually. You have no idea how many do start them up, because "Mistress or Master" told them too.
Evil_Geoff
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You have 12,621 posts on Lit [ETA - at the time I initially replied] and you're asking US for advice? ? ?
This is online. What turns you on to fantasize about? Commence chatting.
If you want to approach it the way a pro Domme does, you spend some time getting to know your bottoms fantasies and turn ons, then set up your "play time" building on your own fantasies while incorporating some of the bottoms to keep them turned on and raring to go.
It's cyber, it ain't rocket science.
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