Maybe this is my feminine side talking, but...

[Hitchiker69]

I'd like to be able to attract a man's attention, entice and arouse him, just by the way I look or the way I dress. I'm jealous of the way women can attract attention. A woman can flash a bit of cleavage or thigh, and get attention from every male in the area. I wish I could turn on men or women by showing off my body.

I guess I'm a bit of an exhibitionist, and vain, too.

I used to try...back when I was a triathlete I used to run along the beach, wearing nothing but running shorts. That got a few looks, from women and men. Got a few more looks if I walked down the pier to cool down after a run.

One time I walked to the laundromat, a half block away, wearing just running shorts and sandals. That got the attention of a cute gay guy who was sitting at the sidewalk cafe next door. Snapped his head around like it was on a string. Wish I could do that more often!

I love knowing I have an erotic, arousing effect on a man. Makes me fell wanted, desired and sexy.

 

[none2_none2]

I'd like to be able to attract a man's attention, entice and arouse him, just by the way I look or the way I dress. I'm jealous of the way women can attract attention. A woman can flash a bit of cleavage or thigh, and get attention from every male in the area. I wish I could turn on men or women by showing off my body.

I guess I'm a bit of an exhibitionist, and vain, too.

I used to try...back when I was a triathlete I used to run along the beach, wearing nothing but running shorts. That got a few looks, from women and men. Got a few more looks if I walked down the pier to cool down after a run.

One time I walked to the laundromat, a half block away, wearing just running shorts and sandals. That got the attention of a cute gay guy who was sitting at the sidewalk cafe next door. Snapped his head around like it was on a string. Wish I could do that more often!

I love knowing I have an erotic, arousing effect on a man. Makes me fell wanted, desired and sexy.

Sexuality is much broader than you may think. Part of arousal by look or by dress is what the OTHER person finds attractive. A 100% gay guy or 100% straigth woman might see a guy running by naked, but that in and of itself might not mean they are interested. For myself, I love body hair. There have been times a fully dressed guy whose chest hairs stick through his shirt, or hair showing through his long sleeve shirt cuffs, or simly short sleeves with very hairy arms, or hairy legs seen even when he has rather long shorts. Odds are that the furthest thing from such a guy's mind was dressing to show off his body hair, but that fact didn't affect my head turing.

That is just me, but most people have their own thing as we are all different. I know plenty of gay guys who are into looking at bulges. That is someting that doesn't do anything for me. I seriously doubt that most guys dress to maximize showing off their wares -- regardless if they are gay, bi, or str8. So again, many times dress has nothing to do with attraction. I think your best bet is wear whatever you feel uncomfortable in, odds are there is someone out there who finds you attractive being comfortable even if it is long pants, long sleves, and shoes and socks.

 

[Hitchiker69]

I wasn't looking for advice, none 2. I'm simply expressing that I wish that these things worked differently.