Masturbation

[*bratcat*]

 

[Never]

Where is the other option?
Why don't people ever list an 'other'?

 

[Bubblegum *sugarless*]

I voted yes. The most obvious reason being, what better way for you and your partner to learn about the others' body. I also find it erotic. Maybe it's an exhibitionism thing. *shrug*

 

[sexy-girl]

oops i nearly made a fool of myself but edited my post hopefully quick enough hehe lisa thinks im stupid now lol



my answer is YES its very very cool sometimes can be fun to frustrate your partner talking to them as you masturbate while not allowing them to touch

 

[lilfrk]

Yes I do masturbate for him. I like to please him and that pleases him.

 

[nasty]

I have to say, "Other," because I havn't had the opportunity.

 

[luv2tvl69]

I think it is very erotic to masturbate with your partner. I actually described this in another post.

I love to be across from a lover--not able to touch but very close, facing each other. I luv to watch his eyes as he gets more and more aroused, hard. I like for him to be able to see everything I do when I touch myself--see inside me. Whenever I used to do this with past b/f's we would have the most incredible sex afterwards...intense.

Yes, it probably does have to do with exhibition/voyeur tendencies that I find I have.

 

[Bob Peale]

The more the merrier! Thank goodness for windows

 

[Simply Me]

Yes

And most men find that very stimulating. I also like to watch my partner masturbating. When you are comfortable enough with each other, then anything goes I think, as long as it is agreeable to both of you. It also helps you know how your partner likes to be touched, and that can never be bad..Even more sexy to me, is for my partner to have his hand on mine as I do, and vice versa.

Was that TMI?

 

[*bratcat*]

yes...

 

[Bob Peale]

Re: yes...

but are they clean enough to see into?

just a matter of redirecting my aim

 

[Gilly Bean]

I never have, so I voted no. I think I would be to embaressed to.

 

[Quiet Smiles]

I like it when he helps - four hands are much better than two, and with his mouth on my nipples during the proceedings, well, it's all good.

 

[Quiet Smiles]

Gilly Bean,

I never have, so I voted no. I think I would be to embaressed to.

I can relate to your feelings of embarrassment. But, one day, I just decided what the hell, why be shy with my husband? It was embarrasing at first to tell him I'd been using a vibrator for extra curricular activities, but he got really turned on when I told him about it, and asked me to show it to him, then asked me to use it while he watched, then he wanted to use it on me - and well, it just kind of snowballed from there. Step out of that comfort zone, girl, you might just be surprised at how he reacts!

 

[Gilly Bean]

-chuckles- He knows I do, he knows how I do. I just don't do it in front of him, and he doesn't do it in front of me.

I think soon we will be at that comfort zone. Working on other comfort zones right now.

Thanks for the advice.


Gilly Bean