masturbation vs So so sex

[i81b4u812]

I love to masturbate. I am in-tune with my body. I can make myself last for hours looking at porn, texting, talking on the phone. I would rather do this than have ho-hum sex with some uninterested women. I have a very vivid imagination, at least that is what women tell me. I shave my cock and balls. I use a combination of baby oil and Vaseline (don't knock it until you try it). I like women who can get very visual and express what they are doing, what they would like me to do to them (i'm into straight sex only) and have a dirty mouth. To Me this is much more satisfying then so-so sex.
I would love to get everyone's feedback. Am I right of Am I wrong.
Come on ladies, wouldn't you rather masturbate than have sex? Those so-so lovers leave you wanting more, and you still have to masturbate to get off?

 

[LibraStud]

Looking at your user name reminded me of what a woman told me many years ago.

She said "I am older than you think." So I asked her what her age was. She said
"Well, I was ate before I was seven."

Masturbation is another great way for a man and a woman to enjoy being alone with each other.

 

[pplwatching]

I've done my share of solo sex, and some of it has been awesome. I'd take so-so sex. Conneting with another human being creates the opportunity for great sex.

Truly great sex for me is taking my sweet time slowly teasing her body. It's watching her breasts rise and fall as her breath quickens, her hips moving to meet me in anticipation, and the flush of arousal and sheen of sweat on her skin. It's inspiring her to wanton lust. Great sex is about creating a sexual masterpiece of lust and intimacy with another human being. It's feeling her body shudder into me as she comes.

If the sex is only so-so then I haven't done my part to inspire my lover or taken the time to teach her how to please me.

 

[Kitty]

I give myself touch-ups all the time but there will never, in my opinion, be an act more powerful and pleasurable and memorable than actual sex. I mean, there really is no such thing as bad sex. There's just mental and emotional roadblocks of the individual that doesn't allow them to fully submit and commit to the moment. Unless they have some anatomical issue.

If someone isn't giving you what you want, let them know, show and tell what you want. If it doesn't work, make do with what you have, some people haven't even kissed yet.

 

[LibraStud]

I give myself touch-ups all the time but there will never, in my opinion, be an act more powerful and pleasurable and memorable than actual sex. I mean, there really is no such thing as bad sex. There's just mental and emotional roadblocks of the individual that doesn't allow them to fully submit and commit to the moment. Unless they have some anatomical issue.

If someone isn't giving you what you want, let them know, show and tell what you want. If it doesn't work, make do with what you have, some people haven't even kissed yet.

Well said - I feel the same way - I have always had a wonderful time - if you have a positive attitude, you will be rewarded. You must "communicate" your needs - the 3-part, best way is "tell em what you are going to tell them, tell them, tell them what you just told them."

 

[Anomaly1964]

There IS such thing as bad sex...

I have opted to masturbate over sex before...

 

[SparkyMark1961]

I think I would take the so so sex over masturbation. I love using my mouth, whether on a guy or a girl, so I think that would make the sex better than by myself.

 

[LegsOpenedWide]

I'd definitely take solo action over so so sex. At least I'd come out happy and satisfied

 

[Bighammerfucker]

Yea, I prefer masturbation by a longshot. I've never had great sex with another. I've had a lot of sex; I just always felt it wasn't right to me. First there is the problem of lack of sexual attraction. The only thing that may be able to solve this is to have sex with a woman under the right circumstances, that I am comfortable with her and attracted to her but I don't enjoy being stimulated by another person it seems so it would largely be me giving pleasure. I'm not sexually attracted to men and I suppose that above all else is why I've never enjoyed having sex with a man, but I'm not attracted to women enough either to really desire to go out and have sex with someone.

But I'm still horny as hell and masturbation excludes the parts of sex I dislike (grinding up against another, mainly, and just not finding it comfortable no matter what I do) but still means getting off and unlimited sexual pleasure if you do it right. I guess I am a bit strange because of everything I have mentioned already but it gets a bit weirder--I am quite attracted to certain kinds of machines. So I purchased a sex machine (I have two, now) thinking it would be right for me, and oh
my, yes it is. It is able to give me everything I've always imagined sex should be like. It's fucking fantastic. The only thing missing is a woman to command the machine to tease me while I'm unable to move, while sticking her tits in my face haha. That would be the closest thing to "sex" I would really get off on, I think. Such is the way with exclusive fetish for objects, or in my case, certain beautiful machines. I somewhat feel weird calling having sex with a fucking machine masturbation, even, it just... doesn't feel like it to me. *shrug*

 

[EctoJohn]

I can only masterbate so much.
I need real sex.
I've never experienced bad sex, but I think I'd take that over jerking off more.

 

[vizio]

so so sex...after all the worst sex I ever had was still pretty good. nothing beats the touch and feel of another person