Masturbation Tips, Tricks, and Techniques For Men

[Sassyunicorn]

This is a thread for men to share our favorite masturbation techniques and swap tips and tricks. I'm kicking the thread off with a toy, but tell us your creative methods with or without toys. Stick within the rules of the forums, but anything goes as long as it involves male solo play.

I'm hoping to learn something from all of you, but I'll start off with a tip of my own. You owe it to yourself to get a fleshlight, or something similar. I had one many years ago, but I wore it out within three months! It's such a versatile toy that can be enjoyed in many positions. I really can't recommend a large male masturbator such as a fleshlight highly enough.

 

[Buttboy7869]

I’m probably non typical in this regard. I like to sometimes bind my balls with a shoestring and position myself so they move freely as I stroke. I sometimes supplement that by using a dildo in my ass. Other times I’ll use just the dildo while stroking. I also occasionally will use nipple clips to heighten the sensuality making for a better orgasm.

The traditional hand stroke coupled with an imaginative mind always produces a good orgasm.

 

[Wildfly11]

This is a thread for men to share our favorite masturbation techniques and swap tips and tricks. I'm kicking the thread off with a toy, but tell us your creative methods with or without toys. Stick within the rules of the forums, but anything goes as long as it involves male solo play.

I'm hoping to learn something from all of you, but I'll start off with a tip of my own. You owe it to yourself to get a fleshlight, or something similar. I had one many years ago, but I wore it out within three months! It's such a versatile toy that can be enjoyed in many positions. I really can't recommend a large male masturbator such as a fleshlight highly enough.

I one read a story where the guy heated up a banana for 10 -15 seconds in the microwave then cut the end off and pushed out the banana and then masturbated with the warm banana peel. I was interested so tried it..fucking amazing..caution..check the heat of the banana peel before inserting your dick lol

 

[hilton1958]

This is a thread for men to share our favorite masturbation techniques and swap tips and tricks. I'm kicking the thread off with a toy, but tell us your creative methods with or without toys. Stick within the rules of the forums, but anything goes as long as it involves male solo play.

I'm hoping to learn something from all of you, but I'll start off with a tip of my own. You owe it to yourself to get a fleshlight, or something similar. I had one many years ago, but I wore it out within three months! It's such a versatile toy that can be enjoyed in many positions. I really can't recommend a large male masturbator such as a fleshlight highly enough.

I have something similar to a flashlight, but I don't find it that enjoyable. The problem is that as I approach orgasm I become much more sensitive, and then the silicone rubber it's made of, feels somehow too abbrasive even though generously lubed, to the point that I have to stop before I have fully climaxed. I suppose it could be because mine was a much cheaper version, because the genuine Flashlight was very pricey. I do still like the idea, and will probably try a different model at some point.

 

[hilton1958]

When it comes to toys, I have a very nice vibrator which I actually bought for my wife and I to use together, but she's surprisingly not really interested in it. It has 5 speed settings and 10 different vibration patterns. It feels absolutely amazing on my cock, and with a vibration pattern to fit any mood I'm in, is definitely the best toy I've had.

 

[cubbyfire04]

Don't overlook the detachable showerhead, fellas. It's not just for the ladies. Moderate pressure, and move it around your cock and/or balls until you find the most sensitive spot. Then be patient.

 

[hilton1958]

I one read a story where the guy heated up a banana for 10 -15 seconds in the microwave then cut the end off and pushed out the banana and then masturbated with the warm banana peel. I was interested so tried it..fucking amazing..caution..check the heat of the banana peel before inserting your dick lol

I've made a mental note to try that sometine, new experiences are interesting if nothing else.

 

[hilton1958]

Don't overlook the detachable showerhead, fellas. It's not just for the ladies. Moderate pressure, and move it around your cock and/or balls until you find the most sensitive spot. Then be patient.

Sounds good, one of my most pleasurable experiences has been holding my cock in the powerful warm jet stream of a jacuzzi, the first time I did it almost out of a mild curiosity, and I was blown away by how good it felt and the great orgasm it produced.

 

[Wonderer67]

I like to put bands around the base of my cock and my balls. Stretching the skin of my cock and balls makes it even more sensitive.

I also suggest edging and slow masturbation - the payoff is much more intense.

 

[hilton1958]

I like to put bands around the base of my cock and my balls. Stretching the skin of my cock and balls makes it even more sensitive.

I also suggest edging and slow masturbation - the payoff is much more intense.

I've never used bands, but I heartily agree, slow definitely gives a better climax.

 

[hilton1958]

Talking about slow, occasionally I like to slowly rub my cock through my jeans. The stimulation is understandably mild and it takes a real long time to reach climax, but when it does happen its so good, very intense and continues for a long long time. Well that's how it works for me at least.

 

[hulmule]

Don't overlook the detachable showerhead, fellas. It's not just for the ladies. Moderate pressure, and move it around your cock and/or balls until you find the most sensitive spot. Then be patient.

I think i would run out of hot water

 

[hulmule]

Well no matter what you use , i think coconut oil is about the best feeling. Oh course it is solid cold but either warm up or let in the sunlight. Being in a sexless marriage i need new stimulation. My cock is rejecting my hand... So looking forward to this thread. Fleshlight i thought of buying one,but.. I tried an egg once...junk... So i hate to spend the money on a fleshlight and find out its junk. Nothing beats a warm pussy or mouth but just not happing in my life at this point... sadly.

 

[cubbyfire04]

I think i would run out of hot water

Lol I certainly do sometimes... I'm often combining it with anal stimulation as well, so it doesn't take all that long

 

[hulmule]

Lol I certainly do sometimes... I'm often combining it with anal stimulation as well, so it doesn't take all that long

Except when the cold water hits... or well maybe it puts you over the top...

 

[Sassyunicorn]

I see a lot of remarks on the fleshlight. Not to sound like a marketing agent for them, I'm not, but it really is worth the money. It feels very real, almost too real for masturbatory purposes. When I'm playing with myself, I like to change the grip from loose to tight as I need it. A fleshlight mimics a real vagina. It's slick and smooth inside. You can warm it up in the microwave to give it some heat to intensify the realistic feeling. To some extent, you can adjust the "tightness" via a valve that controls the amount of air being pushed out and sucked in from your strokes. I haven't had one in many years, so maybe they've gotten better, but even the "tightest" feeling wasn't quite tight enough for me. But when I'd tuck it under a body pillow and have an image of a sexy woman in my mind, it felt so freaking real.

 

[Sassyunicorn]

Coconut oil and shower heads are a couple of my favorites that have been listed. I like to put the shower head on the jet setting and rub my balls and in between my balls and bumhole. It feels really good on my anus, too. I haven't been able to orgasm from just holding it against my cock, although I've heard it works that well for some guys.

Coconut oil is definitely my favorite lube when using my hand. Not too messy and it leaves your cock smooth and smelling good. Just be careful not to get it on fabric, like clothing or sheets, as it can leave an oily stain.

 

[Sassyunicorn]

Another tip I could give is to shave your pubes and your balls. The smoothness of shaved balls feels really good with lube. Having your pubes shaved makes your dick look bigger and somehow feels better when you take matters into your own hand. The very act of shaving my pubes and balls is normally erotic enough that I almost always end up bringing myself to orgasm after I'm done shaving. Also, it has the benefit of making your junk more attractive to your partner, which could lead to more blowjobs.

 

[Sassyunicorn]

I haven't tied my balls, although I have an email buddy trying to talk me into it. I do like to rub my balls and taint with a rough surface while stroking my cock. This is another good reason to shave your balls so you can feel more sensations on them.

 

[Wonderer67]

Talking about slow, occasionally I like to slowly rub my cock through my jeans. The stimulation is understandably mild and it takes a real long time to reach climax, but when it does happen its so good, very intense and continues for a long long time. Well that's how it works for me at least.

My wife likes to rub me thru my sweats when I go to bed. With underwear and sweats on it really reduces the feeling. I never get to orgasm, and its a deliciously frustrating tease.

 

[Nylonian]

I wrote an entire guide on edging and edging with nylons that you might like to read. I'd love to read about your experiences with nylons if you've ever had one. If not, give it a try (it's better with a partner of course). You might be pleasantly surprised.
They have to be soft and silky tho. No cheap gas station pantyhose. Invest in a decent pair!

My Guide: https://www.literotica.com/s/nylon-edging

 

[Sassyunicorn]

I wrote an entire guide on edging and edging with nylons that you might like to read. I'd love to read about your experiences with nylons if you've ever had one. If not, give it a try (it's better with a partner of course). You might be pleasantly surprised.
They have to be soft and silky tho. No cheap gas station pantyhose. Invest in a decent pair!

My Guide: https://www.literotica.com/s/nylon-edging

Thank you! This guide fits perfectly with the intention of this thread. I don't have any experience with nylons, except when my partner wears them. I'll have to give it a go on my own soon.

 

[Nylonian]

Thank you! This guide fits perfectly with the intention of this thread. I don't have any experience with nylons, except when my partner wears them. I'll have to give it a go on my own soon.

Look forward to reading about your experiences as you progress and hopefully your partner is opening to playing with them with you as well!

 

[Volk359]

Removable shower head, definitely would use too much hot water but might be a good way to finish if you knew just where to hit it.

One thing I used to do is rub some Carmex on the tip, that icy/warm glow really adds to the arousal. I went from there to smearing some on the shaft and using an oil to stroke, or enough Carmex and you can use that as a lube. Every once in a while I’d stop and blow on my cock, oh fuck yeah! And I love the glow that stays with you for a while. I used to go to the mens room and put some on the tip then wander around the office, especially around the cuter staff. Great way to edge before masturbating. Oh, avoid the balls at all cost!

I’d also take a thin grocery bag, like you use to get vegetables, and tie that around my balls. Tightly, and pull on it while I stroke. Sometimes I’ll also tie that around my cock, again tightly, and use it as a cock ring. The sensation of the tightness on my cock and balls and the combination of the Carmex gives me some mind blowing orgasms.

Being, also, in a sexless marriage I decided to get a Fleshlight but couldn’t get over the price so I got a Fleshskin instead. It’s cheaper and looked like it’d be easier to clean, and hide. I really enjoy it and sometimes use an electric heating pad to warm it. I liked it so much so that graduated up and got a Fleshlight. Guys say they love them but personally for me it seemed too tight. Maybe it was the particular model or insert, but it was also too heavy. There was too much distraction when I used it. Plus, I had nowhere convenient to hide it. I went back to my Fleshskin and I’m happy with it.

 

[hilton1958]

Something I've been looking for for a while now is a transparent masturbation sleeve. I have used a sleeve occasionally and quite enjoyed it. I think the transparent aspect would be visually more pleasing. I have seen them in sex shops before, but somehow since I began to seriously look for one, I haven't seen one again.