Masturbation question

[Authoress37]

So I feel a little odd asking this, but I'm not sure where else to ask this so... here it goes! I want to know how you would masturbate with a condom, as a woman. I am a virgin and I want to know what it feels like to have a condom inside me. I have a few that a friend gave me, really good ones. Could I finger myself, with the condom on my fingers? Also... I don't have access to toys or anything of the such, so I thought about going at it with the tampon applicator. Could I put the condom on there? I know the tampon applicator isn't realistic to a penis, but I've got limited resources. Suggestions? Concerns? Thanks so much!

 

[ManInIronMask]

If your hymen is intact, anything that you insert for the first time will cause you pain and bleeding.

 

[SweetErika]

You could put the condom on anything that won't break or harm you. For instance, you could use a tapered candle, produce (cucumbers, bananas and plantains are popular choices because they have some give and can even be warmed - just wash them well andcut any rough parts off before slipping the condom on), a tool from the kitchen or hairbrush with a nicely shaped handle. There's a whole thread on "Household Toys and Lube" in the Blank Manual sticky at the top of the main How To forum page. Some of the things in there are jokes, but there are also plenty of good ideas in that thread.

You could put it over your fingers, but you might as well use a clean exam-type glove for that, since a condom seriously restricts the movement of fingers and can be tough to keep positioned properly.

IOW, I think you probably have better choices than a tampon or fingers. If you've been using tampons or doing any number of other things, you may very well not have any hymen left to worry about.

 

[Cameo_Fleur]

You can easily check to see if you have a hymen by inserting your finger into your vagina and feeling for the hymen. You'll find it if it's there.

You can put a condom on your fingers before fingering yourself, I've done it because my nails were long at that time. You should put a condom over anything you insert into the vagina such as a hairbrush handle, candle, lotion tube, banana, whatever. You need not put one on a tampon, but I've used several tampons together inside a condom. My gynie recommended going to a hobby shop and getting candles of varying thicknesses to use instead of a dildo.

 

[mark_j]

So I feel a little odd asking this, but I'm not sure where else to ask this so... here it goes! I want to know how you would masturbate with a condom, as a woman. I am a virgin and I want to know what it feels like to have a condom inside me.

This probably doesn't help but I have been told by various lovers that it feels like having sex with a rubber glove.

But then what do I know I'm just another guy.

 

[mynameisben]

This probably doesn't help but I have been told by various lovers that it feels like having sex with a rubber glove.

But then what do I know I'm just another guy.

I'm just another guy too. But I have had sex with a rubber glove, and let me tell you! It's not nearly as good as having sex with five women.

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

So I feel a little odd asking this, but I'm not sure where else to ask this so... here it goes! I want to know how you would masturbate with a condom, as a woman. I am a virgin and I want to know what it feels like to have a condom inside me. I have a few that a friend gave me, really good ones. Could I finger myself, with the condom on my fingers? Also... I don't have access to toys or anything of the such, so I thought about going at it with the tampon applicator. Could I put the condom on there? I know the tampon applicator isn't realistic to a penis, but I've got limited resources. Suggestions? Concerns? Thanks so much!

If you are using tampons, your hymen may already be gone. And what the women are telling you about using a candle, hairbrush handle, etc is good advice.

 

[SweetErika]

You can easily check to see if you have a hymen by inserting your finger into your vagina and feeling for the hymen. You'll find it if it's there.

The hymen, if there is one, is located at the entrance of the vagina. It usually covers the bottom part of the entrance, though there are other variations. So, feeling around the entrance should be sufficient; one doesn't need to insert a finger to find any hymen that might be there. Here's a graphic:
http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/Images/hymen_variations.jpg

I'm not sure if that's what you meant, CF, but a lot of people seem to think the hymen is located inside the vagina, so I figured I'd clarify for those who might be unsure. I can't tell you how many posts and stories I've read that describe the hymen as being inches inside the vagina (I'm guessing some of those people are confusing it with the cervix).

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

I'm not sure if that's what you meant, CF, but a lot of people seem to think the hymen is located inside the vagina, so I figured I'd clarify for those who might be unsure. I can't tell you how many posts and stories I've read that describe the hymen as being inches inside the vagina (I'm guessing some of those people are confusing it with the cervix).

Just my opinion, but I think that most men who write about women, (particularly women who are virgin), have very little real sexual experience. From a realistic standpoint, some of the stories I have read are pretty ridiculous.

 

[Montex_]

Just my opinion, but I think that most men who write about women, (particularly women who are virgin), have very little real sexual experience. From a realistic standpoint, some of the stories I have read are pretty ridiculous.

You'd also be surprised (Or maybe not) just how many men and women, even those with "enough" sexual experience, don't understand things for just a lack of knowledge of basic anatomy.

 

[qrayze]

You'd also be surprised (Or maybe not) just how many men and women, even those with "enough" sexual experience, don't understand things for just a lack of knowledge of basic anatomy.

very true...I'm ashamed to admit this, but I'm 27 and just recently figured out that I don't pee thru my clitoris. >.< and, yes, I was very dissapointed.

 

[Authoress37]

Thank you so much for that! And thank you everyone who responded. I did try it with an ultra lubricated condom, and let me tell you, it was A-MAZING. Thanks so much guys!

 

[kromen]

Thank you so much for that! And thank you everyone who responded. I did try it with an ultra lubricated condom, and let me tell you, it was A-MAZING. Thanks so much guys!

Glad you enjoyed it, that was the most important.

 

[Felix_Jones]

The hymen, if there is one, is located at the entrance of the vagina. It usually covers the bottom part of the entrance, though there are other variations. So, feeling around the entrance should be sufficient; one doesn't need to insert a finger to find any hymen that might be there. Here's a graphic:
http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/Images/hymen_variations.jpg

I'm not sure if that's what you meant, CF, but a lot of people seem to think the hymen is located inside the vagina, so I figured I'd clarify for those who might be unsure. I can't tell you how many posts and stories I've read that describe the hymen as being inches inside the vagina (I'm guessing some of those people are confusing it with the cervix).

That's like the sex lesson I uncontrollably giggled through during grade five.