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Dear Literotica Forum, i have a question about masturbation. is masturbating 3hours a day 5 days a week masturbating to much? sincerely and respectfully mg357
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as long as its not interfering with your life (ie blowing off work/school) i dont think it really matters
Nasty_Deeds
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If you are writing a story, the first thing you have to do is ask, “Why would anyone do that”. Even in fiction, the story has to be based on some reasonable premise.
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Pretty much, yeah. I'll add:
Is the masturbation affecting your relationships? Like are you masturbating instead of spending sufficient time with friends, family, your partner(s), dates, meeting new people, having sex, etc.?
Is it having a negative impact on your body or mind? Are you masturbating until you're sore, raw, desensitized to other types of physical or mental stimulation? Are you using it as an escape mechanism because you don't like your life, have a mental illness/chemical imbalance?
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To add to my last post.
I posted in the context of writing because most of your previous posts have been related to writing stories, which is fine. If you are asking in the context of writing a story, to make your character believable to the reader, you need to justify, or explain to the reader, why your character does what he or she does.
Masturbating 3 hours a day, 5 days a week is unusual, so you need to explain why your character does this. Your character could be addicted to sex, perverted, or have another reason to masturbate this much, but you do need to explain why he or she masturbates this much.
If you are asking on personal level, 3 hours a day, 5 days a week is way too much, and you need to find other interests.
I posted in the context of writing because most of your previous posts have been related to writing stories, which is fine. If you are asking in the context of writing a story, to make your character believable to the reader, you need to justify, or explain to the reader, why your character does what he or she does.
Masturbating 3 hours a day, 5 days a week is unusual, so you need to explain why your character does this. Your character could be addicted to sex, perverted, or have another reason to masturbate this much, but you do need to explain why he or she masturbates this much.
If you are asking on personal level, 3 hours a day, 5 days a week is way too much, and you need to find other interests.
Way back when I first got my own place after college I did go through a phase where I was doing a lot of long sessions, although not 5 days a week. I needed time for video games too 
Can't remember how long that lasted, maybe a couple of months or so. It's certainly was not the most productive way to spend time.
Anyway these days such sessions are non-existant. Most of the time it's wham bam thank you hand, now pass the tissue. I would say if it's something that's been going on a long time than it's time to find some other stuff to do. Everything in moderation.
Can't remember how long that lasted, maybe a couple of months or so. It's certainly was not the most productive way to spend time.Anyway these days such sessions are non-existant. Most of the time it's wham bam thank you hand, now pass the tissue. I would say if it's something that's been going on a long time than it's time to find some other stuff to do. Everything in moderation.
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Thats a lot of Masterbation.....Hey if your happy and you are living a healthy happy life then have at it!! Might I suggest you throw in a little sex every now and then.
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