Masturbation and Stamina

[Mithlondor]

Well I heard recently that frequent masturbation can make you cum very fast when you have sex...

Now hmmmmm.

I had never heard this ever before, as a matter of fact I read that if you try to jack off and last as long as you can doing that it actually enhances your stamina...
But seeing how a) I do jack off quite often (daily) and b) I dont last long at all...

Is there any truth to this?

 

[sheath]

Well I heard recently that frequent masturbation can make you cum very fast when you have sex...

Now hmmmmm.

I had never heard this ever before, as a matter of fact I read that if you try to jack off and last as long as you can doing that it actually enhances your stamina...
But seeing how a) I do jack off quite often (daily) and b) I dont last long at all...

Is there any truth to this?

I think not. It seems to me that frequent masturbation would get you so accustomed to the feeling of your hand that you would have to take some time adjusting to the feel of sex.

I know that having one orgasm prior to intercourse often makes a man last much longer. I don't know that simply having a few orgasms through masturbation every day makes a man last longer.

I DO know that lasting as long as you can during masturbation teaches you what to do, and what not to do, when you want to last longer. You learn your own triggers, so to speak, the more you play with your body.

Damn, I'm not sure all that made any sense, lol.

S.

 

[fhswarrior]

Stamina

Interesting thread.
As a frequent masturbator, I have found that my stamina is much more the older I get. I don't attribute it to the masturbation, though.
My stamina during sex is much longer than when masturbating. In fact, occassionally, I have to jack off after my wife reaches orgasm. Fortunately that is only on occasion!
I say, if you enjoy masturbating, do it. If you really enjoy being with your partner physically, really focused on the pleasure of the act, what you did earlier in the day or week will have no impact.

 

[jeepman6]

Re: Stamina

Interesting thread.
As a frequent masturbator, I have found that my stamina is much more the older I get. I don't attribute it to the masturbation, though.
My stamina during sex is much longer than when masturbating. In fact, occassionally, I have to jack off after my wife reaches orgasm. Fortunately that is only on occasion!
I say, if you enjoy masturbating, do it. If you really enjoy being with your partner physically, really focused on the pleasure of the act, what you did earlier in the day or week will have no impact.

I agree the stamina is getting longer the older I get. I like to think that the stamina is from lots and lots of practice LOL. My wife says the most enjoyable part is the fact that I don't go soft after the first cum, it stays hard through 2 times at least and sometimes even for a third for which I count my blessings.

As for the actual question I find that when I masturbate I do tend to cum to fast when we actually have sex though nowadays when I masturbate I do it with her, much more pleasurable than by myself thats for sure.

 

[Mysty61]

I am not an expert at this, but I have made some observations over they years. It seems that when many men masturbate their objective is to have an orgasm, thus, they rush to it rather then taking their time and delaying the orgasm as long as possible. If you masturbate frequently and reach climax quickly you are training yourself to not last. From my conversations with men who last it is their belief they do so because they practiced delaying their orgasm. So it seems to me when you are with a woman you are m ore excited then when masturbating, and this will cause a quicker climax. So why not masturbate as often as you like, but see how long you can make it last, reather then seeing how quickly you can climax. As I have been know to say - why destroy this great feeling by having an orgasm. Oh well, just my thoughts.

 

[ESH419]

I whack it a lot and actually find the opposite is true. But when i do go at it solo i take my time. I'll lazily go at it while reading stories, finding porn or watching a regular movie and take an hour..two hours..sometimes whole afternoons if i don't have anything else i need to be doing. I just get so used to it taking a long time if i'm going for a quicky, i have to focus and almost will myself to cum faster. If i'm not trying to go ultra fast it's more that i can think "ok i wanna finish up now" and will finish up. But could keep going if i wanted to. I've had will it to go faster on occasion when my ex's jaw would get tired. A different ex wasn't that creative so while it was nice, i didn't really want to go at it in the same position for 2 hours so i hastened it along once she got her cookies too.

~ESH419

 

[idoyoganaked]

I am not an expert at this, but I have made some observations over they years. It seems that when many men masturbate their objective is to have an orgasm, thus, they rush to it rather then taking their time and delaying the orgasm as long as possible. If you masturbate frequently and reach climax quickly you are training yourself to not last. From my conversations with men who last it is their belief they do so because they practiced delaying their orgasm. So it seems to me when you are with a woman you are m ore excited then when masturbating, and this will cause a quicker climax. So why not masturbate as often as you like, but see how long you can make it last, reather then seeing how quickly you can climax. As I have been know to say - why destroy this great feeling by having an orgasm. Oh well, just my thoughts.

This is good advice, it works for my SO. A lot of times when he masturbates, he goes to almost orgasm then stops specifically for this reason. And let me tell you, he lasts a loooong time

 

[Antinomy]

Notice that the stop-start technique for learning to control premature ejaculation as described on this page is nearly the same thing as the masturbation technique called “edging.”

 

[Belilica]

Well I heard recently that frequent masturbation can make you cum very fast when you have sex...

Now hmmmmm.

I had never heard this ever before, as a matter of fact I read that if you try to jack off and last as long as you can doing that it actually enhances your stamina...
But seeing how a) I do jack off quite often (daily) and b) I dont last long at all...

Is there any truth to this?

For me, the opposite is true, but I think that has to do with anatomy, and the way that I play with my vibes.

I read a column in a local weekly magazine. The man writing in was saying that he was having trouble finishing with a woman and he's masturbated since he hit puberty, but I think it had something to do with how hard he was on his penis during masturbation.

 

[Rubber Biscuit]

Same thing here, I last longer in the sack the older I get, although I masturbate about every day. Try changing how you jack off, switching hands, using a different touch.... Might help desensitize you to being used to just one feeling. The note about what works for premature ejaculation is true too. Edging can be a great ride, if you have solo time to kill. Also, try some pelvic muscle exercises. Squeeze your "piss muscle" (forgive me, I forget the name), hold it for about seven seconds, release for a few seconds, then do it again. Do several repetitions of that during each day and you'll get more control over your cock, it'll begin to stay harder for longer, and you'll be able to use the technique in bed to stay in control.

Cripes, I need to get laid.

 

[HeHasNoName]

I think it can work both ways.

i think it depends on if you associate masturbation with quick jerks in the bathroom or whatever that last 5 minutes, or long sessions where you take your time and last for ages.

up untill i was about 20, i had a bit of a......hair trigger. be it from masturbation or sex.
id always been a 'quicky' jerker.

i went for a while where solo fun was all i had (not surprising probably lol) and i made a point of prolonging the whole process, to the point where id stroke for an hour or more before cumming.

sure enough, like magic, the next time i did the real thing i lasted quite a bit longer.