masturbation and men..

[Sunday Comes]

so....i masturbate like twice a day.

i rather enjoy it. but as of late, it seems to have become rather boring. don't get me wrong, i don't plan to stop. but i'm curious if there is something i can do to myself that'll increase the intensity?

any new tricks that folks have tried would help. also, if there are any toys out there to assist, i'm interested.

 

[bharman4102]

cumming is boring? ever invite someone over to join you?

 

[asenath]

What about phone sex? Have you tried that?

 

[Thaedes]

I have your solution. It's no solution to a loving partner, but in a bind it can certainly give you some fresh ideas.

www.jackinworld.com

 

[millieteases]

So take some time off - everybody needs a break now and then.

 

[Semler]

Explore some fantasies. Are you curious about anything? Read some of the stories here about a subject that you might be interested in. I found that to help me.

 

[ApplesMcgee]

variety...

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[Lust Engine]

I used to masturbate alot. I dont really anymore. I love the feeling of an orgasm, but it seems if I hold off, im hornier, and th orgasm is stronger.

Admittedly the orgasms are so much better, but it's such a huge debate between quality & quantity of a masturbation orgasm. Ohhhh what a choice!

 

[ApplesMcgee]

Emerald_eyed.

I understand where you are coming from totally. My gf doesn't understand how sometimes I can have sex with her, give her an orgasm and then save mine til later.

Sometimes it makes it stronger. Sometimes I'm hornier for the day. The only problem is sometimes she's not interested in sex later lol

PowrDragn

 

[throbbingcock]

You should just tease your clit, all day long, at work at home in the car, where ever you can. Dont cumm just tease until you finally cant take it anymore.

 

[ApplesMcgee]

man...

She just wants bigger orgasms. She doesn't want to make herself implode

PowrDragn

 

[Bodho Baboo]

What techniques have you been using?

Sunday Comes, its difficult to suggest new techniques unless one knows what techniques you have been trying out. I would have suggested some but hesitate because I don't want to appear naive. Once we know what each has been trying maybe we can use this information to make all our lives better!!!!

 

[Backyard sweaty]

I used to masturbate alot. I dont really anymore. I love the feeling of an orgasm, but it seems if I hold off, im hornier, and th orgasm is stronger.

Em has it, deprivation works wonders.

 

[thedirtypoet]

My two pence worth

Yeah I'd agree with previous posts about deprivation having it.... I find I can be very dirty when I'm masturbating and explore what turns me on that I wouldn't admit to anyone.....

You could also try a different location..... in the office, toilets at work or even an empty train carriage.

I know how you feel though because I just split up with the best gf I had in fifteen years who was also the most awesome lover I have ever know. I'm "scared" to masturbate because I when I remember the very kinky things we did it hurts to much .

E

 

[nudeintpa]

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[Bodho Baboo]

I know that holding back for some time really helps. But I find one can really postpone the need for a period of abstinence after either the discovery of some new and exciting technique or the discovery of a new fantasy to fuel your imagination while revving the engine. For a long time my staple was rubbing against the bedsheets for that gave me the biggest scope to fantasise together with great control. I didn't therefore think much of the standard hands-on stuff. But lately I have been soaping up my dick and then using the flat of my palm to massage the tip and I can tell you the feeling is divine even after I've tried it out so many times.