Masturbating on the sly/when significant other is around?

[LegsOpenedWide]

Just wondering how many others do this? Masturbate while their partners are home/around but your partner doesn't know you're doing it?
Or do people mainly wait until they have the house to themselves?

 

[curiousdreamer51]

Raises Hand

Just wondering how many others do this? Masturbate while their partners are home/around but your partner doesn't know you're doing it?
Or do people mainly wait until they have the house to themselves?

Yes I do - I guess the thrill is there, thrill of getting caught!

 

[ExiledWelshman]

Yup, love the risk

 

[ThinkingDeep]

Just wondering how many others do this? Masturbate while their partners are home/around but your partner doesn't know you're doing it?
Or do people mainly wait until they have the house to themselves?

I find it very exciting to masturbate when there is a chance of being caught. When my GF is around I'll often rub one out covertly. I especially like standing outside the bathroom door and jerking off while she is using the bathroom. I usually don't have time to finish, but the secretive thrill of is is worth it.

 

[LegsOpenedWide]

I've nearly been caught a few times. It's so hard and frustrating when I have to stop in the middle of it and I'm so worked up already!

 

[ExiledWelshman]

I've nearly been caught a few times. It's so hard and frustrating when I have to stop in the middle of it and I'm so worked up already!

Unless you are encouraged to continue...

 

[LegsOpenedWide]

I'm too embarrassed to get caught so always stop

 

[Kitty]

Why embarrassed? Your man should love that. Every time I get "caught" I've been asked if I'm getting ready for him.

 

[ProfQ1955]

If you wait until no one is home you will never ever get off. Done it while they were asleep mostly.

 

[bill3901]

yeah, my wife goes to bed early, so a lot of times I am down here playing with myself on the sly, not really because she does not care...

 

[nakedplay]

Love playing when someone is nearby.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

I do it on here all the time. Wear a robe at night and tug and read or write. Then go to the kitchen Island and stand behind that when I need to cum I go to the bathroom. But must say I have worked up much pre cum sitting here and licked it off my finger then went for more without moving. I would like a lady who enjoyed doing the same.

 

[lurkingguy1978]

Rarely hide it. If I go to do so, she'll ask if I did and I'm honest about it. As far as I am aware, she's never been offended...

 

[bill3901]

It must happen a l lot on here, I don't know about the rest of you but this forum is such a turn on, it's hard to keep my hands off..

 

[hilton1958]

Yes I do, but it has nothing to do with any excitement derived from the possibility of being caught, that holds no thrill for me, but it has everything to do with my sex drive being much higher than my wifes, she may be satisfied with once or twice a week, but I need much more, so the result is obvious.

 

[leory]

I do sometimes when she is asleep in bed next to me. That's pretty exciting.

Did it once when an ex was in the shower then she came out and wanted to fuck me lol. She was wondering why I took a little extra to get hard.

 

[Manzarak]

How It All Changed

On the sly? No. Just in private. When we first lived together I'd do the laundry sometimes and she'd do it other times. One time she came back up and told me that a bunch of washcloths were stuck together and crusty and it had happened before and she wasn't sure what it was. So I explained it. We talked about it for a couple of minutes, then we were done with it. She never mentioned it again. This is how it all changed:

At our first apartment, an older couple that lived in the apartment next to us moved out. Soon a young Asian couple moved in. She is very attractive.

We became friends with them. My wife knew how attractive I found her. One day, she was laying out below at the pool, and I was watching her. My wife noticed looked to see what I was looking at and said: "If you like to look at her so much, why don't you just start masturbating?" (she has never once called it "beating off," "jacking off," or "jerking off," always "masturbating,") I said, "What?!" I didn't know if she was mad, or playing, or what. She said, "Go over there by the window (you couldn't see anything from the outside...), take off your pants and masturbate while you look at her." I had never jerked off in front of her before, and I was really unsure of "should I, or shouldn't I?" She threw a kitchen towel at me. So, I just went with it. She continued to work (I guess... I was focused elsewhere). Nothing more was said. I was a mixed bag of confusion and excitement.

A couple of weekends passed, and I went downstairs to do the laundry. Our neighbors were at the pool. She had on a really, really tiny bathing suit. I thought about it for a bit then said, what the hell...

My wife was cleaning the kitchen (our repeating routine... kitchen and laundry day). Taking the basket back up, I took a quick shower. I was getting more excited by the second and in no time I had a rock hard hard-on. I could have finished right there, but I really wanted to do exactly what I was about to do. I dried off, grabbed a washcloth, went into the living room led by my hard-on, opened the drapes (like I said, you can see me but it looked like I just had no shirt on), stood by the corner of the window and started jerking off. She came over to the window and looked out. "Really?" Immediately I felt my erection start to sink. She said for me to go ahead, then she left. I took my time and finished.

After I was done and cleaning myself up, I turned to go back to the bathroom. Out of the corner of my eye I saw my wife sitting on the couch, nude, legs open, feet on the floor, eyes closed and masturbating. I watched until she came, then she pulled her hands back and took a little nap. She had never done this in front of me before.

After, she said she had been practicing and was finally able to make herself climax. She told me that she wanted to tell me, but just couldn't get it out. So, she used the girl next door to get me to jerk off in front of her and she'd masturbate in front of me at the same time. Go figure.

She said she really wanted to do this the first time but couldn't bring herself to do it. She thought she'd never get the chance again, but when she saw me do it on my own, she jumped at the chance.

So, I had been set up, as it were. I thought since it was just a ruse, she'd want me to stop. She said no, she actually liked watching me and it excited her to know that I would masturbate to other women in front of her.

I told her how much I liked watching her, and I hope she'd do it all the time. I said I wanted to come home and find her nude and masturbating... as much as possible! I wanted to hear about her masturbating at work, public restrooms, the car... Wherever!

Our neighbor dressed to kill, with short skirts and great legs. My wife didn't mind me jerking off to her and I got into a happy routine. I really missed losing what was probably gallons of cum jerking off to her when we bought our house and moved. Adjustments have been made.


It really opened us up to each other. We don't have to hide in little rooms, or worry about getting caught. We can do it whenever and wherever we want at our house. And we do.

 

[leather_spitfire]

yeah, my wife goes to bed early, so a lot of times I am down here playing with myself on the sly, not really because she does not care...

same here, my wife goes up early so I like to spend a couple hours on here indulging my fetishes and fantasies. I'm sure she knows I sit and masturbate but she's never said anything. she knows my sex drive is way higher than hers and she's not into the stuff I am so maybe she just lets me get on with it.

 

[JayJ42]

Sounds like my life. My libido is still the same as when I was a teenager, she doesn't have a frequent libido (but when she's in the mood, it gets pleasantly explosive.

So oftentimes, when she sleeps, I face the laptop towards me, and away from her, and take care of it.

 

[sea7688]

I do whenever possible. It is exciting

 

[suckonsimon]

Early years of marriage I sometimes jerked off a couple of hours before I expected that we'd be having sex, if there had been a break of several days and if I really wanted to get her orgasmic before I came. As she understood me better she has come to enjoy being available to me when I need to pound and blast off just for my own sake. It kind of sets her up nicely for a long and very wet and juicy next time when she knows I'll take her the distance first.

When she was not well some years back - for a couple of years - she understood I needed to pleasure myself. So it was private [for my sake, not hers], but not sly. I'm so grateful that time is passed.

 

[bi_sub_lady_doc]

On the sly? No. Just in private. When we first lived together I'd do the laundry sometimes and she'd do it other times. One time she came back up and told me that a bunch of washcloths were stuck together and crusty and it had happened before and she wasn't sure what it was. So I explained it. We talked about it for a couple of minutes, then we were done with it. She never mentioned it again. This is how it all changed:

At our first apartment, an older couple that lived in the apartment next to us moved out. Soon a young Asian couple moved in. She is very attractive.

We became friends with them. My wife knew how attractive I found her. One day, she was laying out below at the pool, and I was watching her. My wife noticed looked to see what I was looking at and said: "If you like to look at her so much, why don't you just start masturbating?" (she has never once called it "beating off," "jacking off," or "jerking off," always "masturbating,") I said, "What?!" I didn't know if she was mad, or playing, or what. She said, "Go over there by the window (you couldn't see anything from the outside...), take off your pants and masturbate while you look at her." I had never jerked off in front of her before, and I was really unsure of "should I, or shouldn't I?" She threw a kitchen towel at me. So, I just went with it. She continued to work (I guess... I was focused elsewhere). Nothing more was said. I was a mixed bag of confusion and excitement.

A couple of weekends passed, and I went downstairs to do the laundry. Our neighbors were at the pool. She had on a really, really tiny bathing suit. I thought about it for a bit then said, what the hell...

My wife was cleaning the kitchen (our repeating routine... kitchen and laundry day). Taking the basket back up, I took a quick shower. I was getting more excited by the second and in no time I had a rock hard hard-on. I could have finished right there, but I really wanted to do exactly what I was about to do. I dried off, grabbed a washcloth, went into the living room led by my hard-on, opened the drapes (like I said, you can see me but it looked like I just had no shirt on), stood by the corner of the window and started jerking off. She came over to the window and looked out. "Really?" Immediately I felt my erection start to sink. She said for me to go ahead, then she left. I took my time and finished.

After I was done and cleaning myself up, I turned to go back to the bathroom. Out of the corner of my eye I saw my wife sitting on the couch, nude, legs open, feet on the floor, eyes closed and masturbating. I watched until she came, then she pulled her hands back and took a little nap. She had never done this in front of me before.

After, she said she had been practicing and was finally able to make herself climax. She told me that she wanted to tell me, but just couldn't get it out. So, she used the girl next door to get me to jerk off in front of her and she'd masturbate in front of me at the same time. Go figure.

She said she really wanted to do this the first time but couldn't bring herself to do it. She thought she'd never get the chance again, but when she saw me do it on my own, she jumped at the chance.

So, I had been set up, as it were. I thought since it was just a ruse, she'd want me to stop. She said no, she actually liked watching me and it excited her to know that I would masturbate to other women in front of her.

I told her how much I liked watching her, and I hope she'd do it all the time. I said I wanted to come home and find her nude and masturbating... as much as possible! I wanted to hear about her masturbating at work, public restrooms, the car... Wherever!

Our neighbor dressed to kill, with short skirts and great legs. My wife didn't mind me jerking off to her and I got into a happy routine. I really missed losing what was probably gallons of cum jerking off to her when we bought our house and moved. Adjustments have been made.


It really opened us up to each other. We don't have to hide in little rooms, or worry about getting caught. We can do it whenever and wherever we want at our house. And we do.

That actually makes a good reading.

 

[CindyCD478]

Why hide it? Just be open about and do it no matter who is watching. Someone may help you out.

 

[vizio]

Why hide it? Just be open about and do it no matter who is watching. Someone may help you out.

so true besides why waste cum that can be swallowed...by a guy or a girl. if you did it at my house Id lick it as fast as it came out

 

[screwher]

My sitch...

For me when I need to cum and my wife's around but we can't have any kind if intercourse I'll pull one off in the shower. Or wait until she goes to bed then masturbate in the rec room. There I m generally fantasizing another in is our bed with my wife fucking her.