Master the Art of the Male Taint

[MissBehavin278]

I've been experimenting with my fiance's perineum for a few months now, and he says he likes it, but he's also not super specific and I'm worried he's placating me so he doesn't hurt my feelings. Does anyone have any pointers or suggestions for me?

Thanks!

 

[Mr.G]

Perineum

It is a super sensitive area for most guys. Some guys are reluctant to have anything near their butt played with for fear that it is "GAY." Dumb idea, IMHO. If the person playing down there has breasts and no penis then it ain't GAY. End of argument.

Fingernails, pressure, pinching and of course after a shower and a GOOD scrub, a tongue lashing down there while either of you pump his erection can be fabulous.

You might try the PROSTATE MASSAGE thingie too if he likes what you're doing down there. A very good instructional / discussion is here:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=98657

That produces a feeling like you're just about to cum which is almost as good as the actual orgasm. The good thing is it can last for a long time. It is NOT an orgasm but close and it comes as close as guys can come to a multiple orgasm feeling. It is also, if done carefully, very healthy for the prostate. Read the thread. Discuss it. Try it. You'll BOTH have fun with it.

 

[MissBehavin278]

Thanks for all the helpful suggestions, I will certainly be putting those to practice here in a few weeks. (One of the unfortunate but hopefully fulfilling terms of our engagement--no sex for at LEAST one month before the wedding) Also I was wondering, I've heard that anal penetration for guys can be a turnon, but as you said, he might be comfortable with a little taint rubbing but definitely not anything in or around his ass. Is it something worth trying? I mean, he thought he wouldn't like his taint being played with but he turned out to like that well enough...

 

[satindesire]

Thanks for all the helpful suggestions, I will certainly be putting those to practice here in a few weeks. (One of the unfortunate but hopefully fulfilling terms of our engagement--no sex for at LEAST one month before the wedding) Also I was wondering, I've heard that anal penetration for guys can be a turnon, but as you said, he might be comfortable with a little taint rubbing but definitely not anything in or around his ass. Is it something worth trying? I mean, he thought he wouldn't like his taint being played with but he turned out to like that well enough...

I think there's a possibility that being surprised with this might be a bad idea and a mood killer. Talk to him first about it, preferably in a relaxed non-sexual atmosphere.

 

[MissBehavin278]

Good Point

Yeah you bring up a good point there. I don't really make the honeymoon awkward with any "adventurous" ideas that end up backfiring. Maybe I'll just save it for a rainy day when I know we're BOTH feeling like trying something different, and be sure to talk to him about it first. Thanks.

 

[satindesire]

Yeah you bring up a good point there. I don't really make the honeymoon awkward with any "adventurous" ideas that end up backfiring. Maybe I'll just save it for a rainy day when I know we're BOTH feeling like trying something different, and be sure to talk to him about it first. Thanks.

My pleasure, Miss. God bless!

 

[CurvAppeal]

Each straight guy I've been with, I've asked them do you like ass play? And they usually say "fuck no, that's gay."

So after a while of dating....I wouldn't ask and I would slide my tongue down there and tongue the rim of their asshole. I've never heard a complaint once. =) Then I'd slowly work in a finger, some flinch/jump w/e...some begin to moan like crazy.

 

[JeepGuy25]

Oh man... I LOVE having my "taint" massaged during oral or even during sex if she can get her hands in there. Ive never had any type of anal experience. BUt I do know this...if Im getting a blow job, and anything of hers (hand, arm, tounge, hair) even brushes my anus I feel like Im going to explode haha.

One of my favorite things, is when girl is giving me head, and she takes her hair and sort of wraps it around the base of my cock so it kind of tickles around and under my balls near my ass (that sounds kinda weird doesnt it?). It creates SO many new sensations. Couple that with some nail dragging on my inner thights and I cum like a virgin teenager. Just cant hold back haha.

I dont think I would react badly to any type of ass play... Since I never tried it, I cant say for sure, but I certainly wouldnt kick her out of bed for doing some tounging or finger probing. If I didnt like it...Ide know for next time. But since I seem to like everything else Im optimistic!!

J.

 

[MissBehavin278]

Little Update

For anyone who's interested, I hopped in the shower with him last night and gave him oral, and really tried to focus on his taint the most. I went farther back than I normally do with my fingernails, and he went a little wild, in a good way. Then, after giving his balls a little tongue action, I slipped my tongue back there, and, well, he went CRAZY! He LOVED it! So thanks everyone for giving me the courage to try something different, because it was a HUGE success (definitely pun intended... ).

 

[Carnevil9]

Good for you!

Personally, I've had a tiny bit of penetration into my butthole, just a little fingertip action, during blowjobs and handjobs. Wow! That is an amazing feeling. I've wondered what a full finger would do to me. Probably make me blow my dick to kingdom cum!

 

[RedHeadRedWolf]

Glad to hear things went well in the shower!

I wouldn't try anything new on your adventure, but when y'all get settled, go back to what worked and then attempt to go a little further.

As for me... just skip the in-between. Focus on the front or the back — I enjoy attention to them both much more than the middle.

Oh yeah, Congrats!

 

[mrtomthumb]

Each straight guy I've been with, I've asked them do you like ass play? And they usually say "fuck no, that's gay."

So after a while of dating....I wouldn't ask and I would slide my tongue down there and tongue the rim of their asshole. I've never heard a complaint once. =) Then I'd slowly work in a finger, some flinch/jump w/e...some begin to moan like crazy.

yes .

this is true about doing instead of asking,,

asking is boring kinda....

 

[klippert]

heck

He doesn't know what he has for a future wife. most guys would pay for a wife like this.

Don't get yourself in a twist. next time you have him captive....riding in the car....just ask him... say you have 'been read some articles'..... you like doing the taint rub, but, you'd like too do a little more... certainly let him play with all your bits and pieces....