Married

[OlderBtm4U]

For those who have "followed through" - how did the reality match up with your fantasy and curiosity? Did you enjoy the actual acts?

The first few times I was way to nervous (and conflicted) for it to be good.
Since then it's been wonderful.

 

[TallOne]

First time was a threesome with my wife. We both sucked him, I loved watching him fuck her with that bbc, then she told him she wanted to see him fuck me.

Better than any fantasy I’ve had before or since.

Would never cheat on her though. Both because of morals and how easy it could be to bring HPV or worse home. Big difference between mutually accepting that risk vs doing it behind someone’s back.

Come out to your wife. She’s the one person you’re supposed to be able to share everything with. If you can’t because that level of trust just isn’t there, divorce seems inevitable anyway. But I guarantee results will be better if you tell them vs them finding out via their gynecologist visit, stumbling on your messages, etc.

 

[Iwanttwo]

For those who have "followed through" - how did the reality match up with your fantasy and curiosity? Did you enjoy the actual acts?

Better than I could have imagined. I loved the power of bringing a man pleasure, and the best part is having a man cum in my mouth. I love the taste. It left me wondering why I waited so long.

 

[jaysonfrommars_del]

Same here. Never thought about being with another guy. Even had two MMF threesomes and didn’t have any MM contact. But as I’ve gotten older I feel like my sexuality had become deeper and broader. I’ve explained this to my wife but, although not offended by it, is definitely not turned on by it and had told me she would consider it cheating.

 

[Teddytiger]

Hey

I guess we are all in the same boat. I get so hard thinking about sucking another mans cock and being fucked by him.

However, I have been so worried to admit this and understand I am bi. I was locked into straight or gay for so long but now I have realized I am bi and it is OK. Can't wait to experience the real thing

 

[Raydora]

I feel the same, only recently touched another’s cock and can’t wait to do more!

 

[Teddytiger]

Wow. How was it?

 

[Raydora]

It was great

 

[haventdonethat]

Same here. Never thought about being with another guy. Even had two MMF threesomes and didn’t have any MM contact. But as I’ve gotten older I feel like my sexuality had become deeper and broader. I’ve explained this to my wife but, although not offended by it, is definitely not turned on by it and had told me she would consider it cheating.

Would she still consider it cheating if she was there and had participated with both of you?

 

[cuck72]

In a perfect world we would have a place to play and experiment safely. No chance of anyone knowing etc. wouldn’t that be nice? I fantasize about walking at a local lake and passing a guy, our eyes meet and after we pass, we both look back. Next time we pass, we stop and meet. He lives close by and invites me over for a beer. Then slowly it happens......

I go fishing at this kind of small private lake near by. There are a few factories that go around this lake on one side, and a park with a beach no longer being used on the other side. Story has it that when they were working and digging, they hit a natural spring. So the lake is really clean. It was last fall, and I was there alone, then these two rugged looking guys a bit younger, came walking down this path that goes around this lake. I'm guess late 30's, and I thought right away ON MAN! a great time to give these guys a blow job. I took a quick peek at their nice cock bulges as they passed and said hi. I was thinking the whole time, if I had the nerve to stop them, and tell them I have these faggot cock sucking fantasies. If they would take me into that beach bathroom and give me the cock and cum I crave so much. I'm hard now thinking back about that time, but you don't know how these guys would react, maybe want to kick my faggot ass.

 

[jaysonfrommars_del]

Would she still consider it cheating if she was there and had participated with both of you?

I wish! I would love that! But she has no interest in us being with other people. She’s barely interested in us being together.

 

[Eighty6ed]

Same

I wish! I would love that! But she has no interest in us being with other people. She’s barely interested in us being together.

I get that. She would consider it cheating, she thinks looking at women online is cheating. We’re definitely in the same situation.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

I go fishing at this kind of small private lake near by. There are a few factories that go around this lake on one side, and a park with a beach no longer being used on the other side. Story has it that when they were working and digging, they hit a natural spring. So the lake is really clean. It was last fall, and I was there alone, then these two rugged looking guys a bit younger, came walking down this path that goes around this lake. I'm guess late 30's, and I thought right away ON MAN! a great time to give these guys a blow job. I took a quick peek at their nice cock bulges as they passed and said hi. I was thinking the whole time, if I had the nerve to stop them, and tell them I have these faggot cock sucking fantasies. If they would take me into that beach bathroom and give me the cock and cum I crave so much. I'm hard now thinking back about that time, but you don't know how these guys would react, maybe want to kick my faggot ass.

Not just a physical confrontation but mental or emotional confrontations... it doesn't matter what the conflict is for you, "--, the battle is won in the mind." The same way that you fought with your decision to front your desires for cock, the battle was won first in your mind, then in the physical world. A fist fight is no different and probably a lot less strenuous than your coming out to yourself and then to others.

 

[ThongsRule]

We’ve been married 15 years and we are both bi sexual and have Ben wearing thongs for me since 1990 and her 1985. We both have had tan lines since then when we met neither of us had any idea. After 3 dates I went to her place and we were both wearing a y back thong and we both had those same tan lines. It hasn’t been perfect but we maintain an open relationship and to this day, we love sex with each other but love watching each other. It keeps it interesting

 

[rickdickerson]

I’m married and all I can think about is cock most of the time. Don’t know where this infatuation came from, but I love looking at dick pics, watching guys stroking and watching twinks seduce each other. I don’t necessarily find guys attractive, generally, but there are some that I think are hot. I fantasize about sucking someone off and I really want to try it, I just don’t know how to get there. Anyone else? Has anyone in the same boat followed through?

Every. Damn. Day.
Welcome to my life.

 

[Taster2]

Try it, you'll like it

I’m married and all I can think about is cock most of the time. Don’t know where this infatuation came from, but I love looking at dick pics, watching guys stroking and watching twinks seduce each other. I don’t necessarily find guys attractive, generally, but there are some that I think are hot. I fantasize about sucking someone off and I really want to try it, I just don’t know how to get there. Anyone else? Has anyone in the same boat followed through?

This was my reality also, no sex at home and cock curious. I met a guy who gave me a nice BJ and realized I needed to be on the other end of a BJ . I put up and add, found a nice older gent and gave my first Blow Job, I havent looked back. Love being a cock sucker and providing stress relief and happiness. Try it , you'll like it.

 

[roseburgsteve]

i am married as well but she is my 3rd wife. when we first started chatting and getting to know each other i opened up to her about my bisexuality. i did not want to hide it from any one else any more. i hid it from 2 other wives no one else. we met in august of 2001 and are still together to this day. i am so happy i was able to share my sexuality with her

 

[carln3346]

This was my reality also, no sex at home and cock curious. I met a guy who gave me a nice BJ and realized I needed to be on the other end of a BJ . I put up and add, found a nice older gent and gave my first Blow Job, I havent looked back. Love being a cock sucker and providing stress relief and happiness. Try it , you'll like it.

Sounds like my story! And I agree, if you have an open mind and try it, lots of men find it to be very natural.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

For those who have "followed through" - how did the reality match up with your fantasy and curiosity? Did you enjoy the actual acts?

the reality of the act FAAAAAAAAAAAAAR outweighed the fantasy constructs I would come up with and the sensuality of the meet was more intense than the fantasies.

The difference to me in my experiences, was as great as being the one squeezing the trigger of a gun and the one getting hit by the bullet...
Did I enjoy it???
Why else would I still be here, hunting?

 

[DocErotic3D]

I am definitely in the same boat as many of you. I love my wife but the marriage is sexless and I had interests and desires I needed to find out about myself.

I met a very nice man online who happened to live nearby and chatted for a long time about gay fantasies. He and his partner offered to help me realize those fantasies and one late night I took him up on his offer while his partner was out of town. Was it everything I fantasized about? Yes and so much more! I got to kiss another man, suck his cock and he fucked my ass. I was in heaven! I got together with both him and his partner one other time where he sucked me off and I sucked on his partner. I lost track of them and haven't had another opportunity to explore more since then.

I keep hoping to find someone online again as I really want to have a cock in my mouth and ass again and try even more.

My only real regret, other than losing track of that couple, is having to hide it from my wife.

 

[CuriousColorado]

Yes! When I was much younger, I had the chance to give a friend a handjob and he rewarded me by forcibly giving me a mouth full of cum and having me swallow (I finally am just now talking about that - I felt really ashamed)... I fantasized like crazy after that but I got married young and never looked to try again. One time the opportunity presented itself and I ended up giving a stranger a blowjob. I loved it both times and learned that I like cum way more than I ever thought possible. It was one of the most erotic things ever, and if I can figure out who might be interested I'd do it a lot more.

 

[freakyandthensome]

same boat

sexless marriage really kicks into high gear after 10 years....especially as the kid gets older the wife focuses more of parenting out of guilt and lives through the child. She then often will use the child to undermine the man she is with...evenmore so she is financially cheating the current relationship so i have no problem with cheating on her.

net/net-->>the less that bitch knows the better

 

[hogjack]

...was much younger, I had the chance to give a friend a handjob and he rewarded me by forcibly giving me a mouth full of cum and having me swallow (I finally am just now talking about that - I felt really ashamed)... I fantasized like crazy after that but I got married young and never looked to try again. One time the opportunity presented itself and I ended up giving a stranger a blowjob. I loved it both times and learned that I like cum way more than I ever thought possible.

Though you obviously enjoy these scenarios as a cum lover there is the reality to maintain the rest of your life that you have built. That reality versus the fantasy is, no doubt, a constant tug-of-war with your behavior as you perform the other roles you have in life, a life you have earned.

 

[Eagle1960]

sexless marriage really kicks into high gear after 10 years....especially as the kid gets older the wife focuses more of parenting out of guilt and lives through the child. She then often will use the child to undermine the man she is with...evenmore so she is financially cheating the current relationship so i have no problem with cheating on her.

net/net-->>the less that bitch knows the better

MWM here in TN as well, PM me sometime

 

[jaysonfrommars_del]

Don't mind me, I'm a random stranger on the internet, but sounds like you need to get divorced. If you're at a point where you're referring to your wife as "that bitch" like Joe Exotic talking about Carole Baskin, the relationship is probably toast.

You have a kid, maybe you're staying together for the kid's sake, but trust me, they would rather grow up with two separate parents than parents who hate each other but stay together out of spite.

Truth!