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I agree...

There are so many ways to be intimate. I saw a video of a man and wife making very satisfying love and he was impotent. She had learned how to satisfy him and he was doing a great job with his hand on her. There are many body parts to share... and many toys to share as well. But... we let pride and control and many various emotions, etc. get in the way of the intimacy. What a pity!! Communication... communication... communication!!
 
Looking4Fun46 said:
I realize there are women on this thread and I welcome their thoughts. In fact, I wish more women would post their thoughts and help me learn. Not sure what was said to make you think that we did not. I have no problem with women looking for the same thing as men, in fact I think it is the normal thing to do. I do find it interesting that you want to communicate on a deep level but to you that means you have to be a certain age. Hmmm, I guess that means us older guys have nothing of importance to offer or say. I am 46, hair has some gray in it now but I still wear the same size pants, 32 waist, as I did in college so I bet I am in better shape than a lot of guys in their 30's. I am also mature enough to want to build an ongoing friendship with a woman, in fact, its something I would to have before the "special friendship" could happen. Kind of hard to find something when you put a lot of limitations in front of it. Hope you find what you are looking for. Take Care.
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hey hey HEY now.... You're only a year older than me, so let's don't get into talkin' about "us older guys". (even tho I'm a woman, lol). ;)
 
Re: YOU ARE O SO RIGHT !!

'Ol Tex said:
You are o so right babydoll2u. That is a good answer to the question (one of them) that I bring up. I guess in a way, (speaking for me AND NOT the other guys), because I DON'T want to be a "bad boy", (be unfaithful), I may be (consciously or sub-consciously), seeking "approval", (to be bad?). I don't know. All I know is FRUSTRATION !! And, like the other guy said, coming here is a "release", (and I don't mean sitting here playing with anything)!! LOL. But it is nice to have a lady friend that understands where guys like us are coming from. I guess I just want to know what WOMEN REALLY THINK about a guy who WANTS his wife to give him attention (but won't), but still has desires for a woman's touch and (maybe) would like a "special friend" and..................oh heck, forget it,,,,,,,,,,,I'm just drifting off now into where I am not even sure where I am going with this talk!! See, this is what "frustration" will do!!! LOL. Sorry for the rambling. I do not mean to put ANY WOMAN down, Just want them to understand that some of us "rejected" guys still know how to please a woman.........................if given half a chance!!!! Thanks for your understanding reply. 'ol tex.
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WHOA hold yer horses there Tex! (pun intended)
I didn't think you were putting anyone down, nor rambling. What you had to say made alot of sense and your feelings and reflections are just as important as anyone's. If you'd like, please feel free to email me. You'll find my address in my profile

Peggy
 
Re: I think...

kozyrose said:
We look for that affirmation because the constant rejection does a number on us. We know it isn't us... but there is that doubt... that nagging doubt that maybe it is us... the reason they stopped touching... caring... loving. I have been in this boat for way too long and I judge no one... and am glad you don't believe in a double standard. It is just not cut and dry when it comes to relationships. And sure is not easy....
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oh how I SO agree!
 
Re: Of Course Kozy-

'Ol Tex said:
Of course Kozy if the shoe werer reversed as you say. I would not want my wife to suffer the rejection she puts me through. Now the question becomes though, is she NOT being pleased (by me) through my neglect or because of some "condition", (impotence, say)? Most of the MEN I have known in my life would NOT TOLERATE their wives "going elsewhere". It's a "male ego thing". These men would be quite capable of satisfying their wives IF THE WANTED TO but they are the "trophy hunter" types, (usually), and are just looking for "strange" and the feeling of "conquest" so they can put another notch in the bed post. However, I also know a few guys who, for one reason or the other, ARE IMPOTENT, but willing to let their wives go out for "release" because they are not threatened ego-wise by such daliences. As long as their wives still provide them with SOMETHING, they are ok with keeping their woman happy. It is rare. Maybe unusual. But I know of quite a few guys who feel this way. I have one friend who is diabetic (and impotent) and he is ok with his wife going out once a week for "her pleasure". I also know a guy who was in a car wreck and is paralyzed and ok's his wife the "same benefit". We are not all monsters. What is good for the goose is good for the gander too. If I can not take care of my wife, I have no problem she get a "hard one" somewhere else.............so long as she meets my needs too. 'ol tex.
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unfortunately, in my case, it was a matter of he lost interest in sex, actually, with affection of ANY kind, but didn't want me to seek it elsewhere either. Which I can understand.... but how long are you supposed to go without any sort of affection at all? :confused:
Been well over 2 years for me so far......... :rolleyes:
 
i was married when i first came to lit.. and well now im not.. not as to lit causing it.. but in regards to the question do ppl think of others from this site while with the spose.. there were times i did yes
 
Only you (general you) can answer the question of whether it is okay to look outside your marriage to find what you're not getting, whatever that is. We don't know your situation, we don't know your wife/husband, and we don't know how your mind works. Only you know if you can live with yourself and the potential results.

I will say, personally, that I have lived too long and learned too much to judge myself or other people too harshly. We are all human.
 
well said!

hausfrau said:
Only you (general you) can answer the question of whether it is okay to look outside your marriage to find what you're not getting, whatever that is. We don't know your situation, we don't know your wife/husband, and we don't know how your mind works. Only you know if you can live with yourself and the potential results.

I will say, personally, that I have lived too long and learned too much to judge myself or other people too harshly. We are all human.
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I could not have said it better myself!:D

Aw hell, I couldn't have said it nearly that well! :eek:

B:devil:
 
Re: Hi, Peggy

MrMikelobe1952 said:
I've missed hearing from you.
I hope your trip to Ohio was positive.
Mike
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Hi Mike...
it was very positive.... I brought my son back home with me.
I've missed you as well

Peggy
 
That's wonderful news

Is he home to stay?
You must be so thrilled. How did you manage?
Its nice of you to say you've missed me. But you must be feeling so much happier and more gratified. You can really have a



MERRY CHRISTMAS [/COLOR]
 
Re: That's wonderful news

MrMikelobe1952 said:
Is he home to stay?
You must be so thrilled. How did you manage?
Its nice of you to say you've missed me. But you must be feeling so much happier and more gratified. You can really have a



MERRY CHRISTMAS
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I just PM'd you... and I did miss you.
Happy? that doesn't even come close babe... but yeah I am.
This will for sure be a very Merry Christmas :kiss: ;)
 
yeah......

i was going to say something so slutty to mrmike...but it seemed so inappropriate....all this decorum on a porn board--what is the world cummin to?
 
Re: yeah......

reddcutie said:
i was going to say something so slutty to mrmike...but it seemed so inappropriate....all this decorum on a porn board--what is the world cummin to?
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Go ahead
Live a little
Besides, your box is full again.
YOu must like a full box.
 
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Re: yeah......

reddcutie said:
i was going to say something so slutty to mrmike...but it seemed so inappropriate....all this decorum on a porn board--what is the world cummin to?
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what decorum?? go ahead, he likes it, lol
 
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