Married Posters

[HerVeryOwn]

I'm married, won't cheat, and up-front about it.
We never get around to discussing our online wanderings, so she may even post here as well.

 

[JDredd711]

I'm married, won't cheat, and up-front about it.
We never get around to discussing our online wanderings, so she may even post here as well.

look forward to seeing her post.

 

[crowdsurfer]

I'm married in an open marriage. We've both given each other permission to mess around with other people, and are toying with the idea of swinging/threesomes, etc.

Neither one of us has ever gotten the chance to do anything though.

I frequent Lit and a couple of other amateur websites, but Lit's the only place I've ever posted, both messages and a bunch of pictures of myself, to let my exhebitionistic streak run wild.....don't really know what she would think of it?! She knows about me checking out other people's pictures and masturbating to them, as well as my chatting, but she doesn't know about my naked contributions to the web. Like I said, I don't quite know how she'd react to them seeing as though she's not as sexually open/adventurous as me?!



Always happy to hear from new people though!

 

[_pebbles]

Well, the temptation of cheating never seems to fade for me. I've been eyeing this landscaper that I see almost everyday. He lives in the neighborhood (convenient). I'm still to chickenshit to do anything other than smile back at him. I have no idea if he's married or not. I'm freaked out about approaching him in any openly flirtatious way. I don't want to send out signals that I'm just looking for a quick and dirty one-time thing. Suppose I'll continue daydreaming about it until I get this all straight in my mind. Anyone else on the edge?

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Well, the temptation of cheating never seems to fade for me. I've been eyeing this landscaper that I see almost everyday. He lives in the neighborhood (convenient). I'm still to chickenshit to do anything other than smile back at him. I have no idea if he's married or not. I'm freaked out about approaching him in any openly flirtatious way. I don't want to send out signals that I'm just looking for a quick and dirty one-time thing. Suppose I'll continue daydreaming about it until I get this all straight in my mind. Anyone else on the edge?

If you decide to cheat, and to keep it a secret from your husband, then you should not do it with someone who lives in the neighborhood.
Will not stay a secret

 

[michguy494]

Well, the temptation of cheating never seems to fade for me. I've been eyeing this landscaper that I see almost everyday. He lives in the neighborhood ....

I agree with Mr. M.. should you decide to experience a man outside of marriage.. DON'T do it with someone to close by.. it's not worth it unless you really don't care if your husband find out because it is likely that he would. Things like that seldom stay secret for long.

 

[nj_niceguy69]

_pebbles

You just need that guy that clicks with you, is in a similar situation (e.g. looking to try someone different, but similar sex interests - kinky, straight, weird, etc.), wants the same thing (e.g. either to just be on the side or to be a possible 'to move on to'), is close enough to get together but far enough away to not run into each other at the local Target......

Wait, I should be posting that in the personals for the woman I want.....LOL

Think of how awkward it would be to see that landscaper week after week if it wasn't the "right" thing.

I agree with Mr. M.. should you decide to experience a man outside of marriage.. DON'T do it with someone to close by.. it's not worth it unless you really don't care if your husband find out because it is likely that he would. Things like that seldom stay secret for long.

 

[Sappholovers]

Blue Values

Let me share with this thread an excerpt from Dr. Susan Block's declaration of "Blue Values"--a counter-cultural riposte to "Red State Values"

p.s. BabyDoll2U and other Bush supporters.... This excerpt is especially for you.

By Suzy Block

Correct me if I'm wrong, but as far as I can see, Red State Values come down to the 10 A's: antiabortion, anti-female, anti-secular, anti-science, anti-environment, anti-poor-people, anti-gay, anti-art, anti-porn & anti-sex

To hear the pundits tell it, one could assume that Americans who don't genuflect to the 10 A's have no values (or value) at all. It's just Red Values and Blue Flipflops. It's true that many Democrats don't seem to know which end is up these days, which is one reason why their candidate could barely inspire the mammoth Anybody But Bush (ABB) vote. Just imagine if he really had represented Blue Values. We actually might have "Licked Bush, Beat Dick" and taken the bastards out.

So what about Blue Values? What about good old-fashioned Jeffersonian, radical-liberal, democratic (with a small d), progressive, populist, personal, Constitution-enshrined, science-based, heartfelt, sexual values? Yes, SEXUAL. After all, VALUES is code for SEX, isn't it? Or is it WAR? Well, it depends on the color of your glasses

So let me bring these colors into focus, Brothers & Sisters, Lovers & Sinners, at least as I see them. And remember: I'm a sex therapist, so don't be shocked if my values turn you on.

MY BLUE VALUES

Note: The following is a personal free-associated list, not necessarily in order of importance, and not necessarily representing YOUR BLUE VALUES

When I talk about Blue Values...

I'm talking about the values of the Enlightenment, and not the Apocalypse;

I'm talking about the value of Hot Love, and not Perma-War;

I'm talking about the values of the U.S. Constitution, and not the Bible, the Koran, the Bhagavad-Gita, The Book of Thoth, or the Gospels According to Anybody;

I'm talking about the value of lust, and not greed;

I'm talking about the value of explosive orgasms, and not exploding ordnance;

I'm talking about the value of bare beauty, and not naked aggression;

I'm talking about the value of pussy juice and lube, and not our blood for their oil;

I'm talking about the value of hard dicks, and not hardnosed dickheads;

I'm talking about the value of "Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness," and not "God, Guns and Gay-Bashing";

I'm talking about the value of Ethical Hedonism, and not Unethical Puritanism;

I'm talking about the value of dildos and vibrators, and not cruise missiles and killing machines;

I'm talking about the value of intelligent erotica and smokin' BLUE movies, and not Mel's Christian death porn or U.S. military snuff films showing the village greens of Iraq running RED with blood;

I'm talking about the value of the Bonobo Way, and not acting like a baboon;

I'm talking about the value of masturbation, and not occupation;

I'm talking about the value of consensual BDSM games, and not colonial-style torture;

I'm talking about the value of people in bed with their lovers, and not TV news shows "embedded" with the government;

I'm talking about the value of science, innovation, open-mindedness and courage, and not superstition, creationism, bigotry and fear;

I'm talking about the value of governance based upon sweet reason, thrift and compassion, and not religious hysteria, acid-induced ecstasy, or even the rose-colored glasses of love;

I'm talking about the value of sexual connection, and not gender competition;

I'm talking about the value of good wine and good weed, and not jamming more than 2 million Americans in prison, many for victimless "crimes";

I'm talking about the value of blue skies and a clean environment, and not red skies radiating pollution;

I'm talking about the value of sex research and education, and not enforced sexual stupidity;

I'm talking about the value of marriage, and not banning "certain people" from getting married;

I'm talking about the value of helping those less fortunate, and not blaming the poor for being poor;

I'm talking about the value of stem cell research, and not valuing the so-called "rights" of the unborn over the living

And...

 

[babydoll2u]

thanks for the lesson, lol, although I'm not quite sure how it's relevant here...

Oh and I'm still a Bush supporter

 

[happy2bhubby]

*****************
Sappholovers

,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,So let me bring these colors into focus, Brothers & Sisters, Lovers & Sinners, at least as I see them. And remember: I'm a sex therapist, so don't be shocked if my values turn you on.

MY BLUE VALUES

Note: The following is a personal free-associated list, not necessarily in order of importance, and not necessarily representing YOUR BLUE VALUES

When I talk about Blue Values...,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Problem is, we are at war with a group of people who would rather cut your head off than let you exercise those values that you, and I, so dearly love!

Anti-shmanti,, we voted, and if Kerry had won I would now be behind him and expect those in power to get with the program too. If Kerry had won, you would expect the same. Now quit your winning and get with the program. Terrorism has to go (PERIOD)

 

[Gus Aspar]

Well, the temptation of cheating never seems to fade for me. I've been eyeing this landscaper that I see almost everyday. He lives in the neighborhood (convenient). I'm still to chickenshit to do anything other than smile back at him. I have no idea if he's married or not. I'm freaked out about approaching him in any openly flirtatious way. I don't want to send out signals that I'm just looking for a quick and dirty one-time thing. Suppose I'll continue daydreaming about it until I get this all straight in my mind. Anyone else on the edge?

Mmmm... I've got a part-time job as a school bus driver, and I got a real hard-on looking at one of the mothers this morning. She came out to the bus wearing a thin top, that showed her nipples poking through nicely, and thin pyjama trousers. As she leaned over to kiss her son goodbye I got a nice view of a lovely round arse (I'm fairly sure she wasn't wearing panties) and I've been dreaming since about yanking those pants down and giving her a good seeing-to...
My wife doesn't understand me... has lost interest in sex... knows I play on here sometimes, but I don't let her catch me...

 

[scott40]

xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[hausfrau]

LMAO!

 

[babydoll2u]

Anti-shmanti,, we voted, and if Kerry had won I would now be behind him and expect those in power to get with the program too. If Kerry had won, you would expect the same. Now quit your winning and get with the program. Terrorism has to go (PERIOD)

*stands and applauds*

 

[babydoll2u]

*checking to see if I'm still in Literotica or if I've stumbled into the Drudge Report.

hahahah good one

 

[happy2bhubby]

Daam, I am truly wondering if all thase wives that are sited on this thread as "being disinterested in sex" have really lost their libido, or just found it somewhere else?

 

[Sappholovers]

For those irritated by

My post that included "Blue Values" was an affirmation of the erotic. I included it because I wanted it to be a fun way to celebrate the erotic....to affirm the joy and beauty and solace of making love--and ethical hedonism-- in this time of making war. I did not want to start a political debate. I've never attached a political sticker favoring any presidential candidate to my site as others have done. But I can't hold my tongue. I'll address Hubby2bhubby in a pm rather than on this thread.

Peace through pleasure

Sappholovers

 

[pleasingsue]

On the edge...

...well put _Pebbles...on the edge indeed. I know that feeling well, and think it just a matter of time, patience, and persistence. Be mildly flirty, smiling, friendly...use any opportunity to get an e-mail address, come up with an angle to ask for one - next thing you know you're exchanging e-mail, and isn't it so much easier to broach taboo subjects in here versus in person?

 

[happy2bhubby]

For those irritated by

My post that included "Blue Values" was an affirmation of the erotic. I included it because I wanted it to be a fun way to celebrate the erotic..,,,,,Bla, bla, bla,,,, just say you are sorry and stfu!

Sappholovers

 

[michguy494]

Problem is, we are at war with a group of people who would rather cut your head off than let you exercise those values that you, and I, so dearly love!. Now quit your winning and get with the program. Terrorism has to go (PERIOD)

Sappho (The poet Sappho lived in the sixth century B.C. on the island of Lesbos) .. are you married?

 

[Sappholovers]

On Sappho

Michguy,

I am attached. My partner, who is bisexual, loves poetry and so do I. We call ourselves Sappholovers in honor of Sappho--who began the tradition of Literotica in Western culture. Fragments of her poetry survive, and they are regarded as the origins of lyrical love poetry. Her poetry includes erotic love between men and women....

Sappholovers

 

[babydoll2u]

Daam, I am truly wondering if all thase wives that are sited on this thread as "being disinterested in sex" have really lost their libido, or just found it somewhere else?

havent' lost mine

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

havent' lost mine

That's for sure.

 

[michguy494]

havent' lost mine

and you are a great example to women everywhere Darlin'.. send some of the water you drink to my wife, will ya?

 

[babydoll2u]

That's for sure.