married people: How often do you fantasize about someone else dur. sex?

[flowerpetal]

just curious

 

[R Nitelight]

What are you wearing?

 

[flowerpetal]

nothing

(am about to take a shower so that is the truth actually)

 

[KillerMuffin]

Not very often. The StudMuffin is excellent fantasy fodder.

We have participation fantasies anyway. We share not just our bodies when we have sex, but our thoughts as well, so whatever fantasy is rollin about the ol' noodle is usually coming out of my mouth as well. He likes it, even though verbally I'm rather diffident and less than clever, he gets off much better.

By the way Bull, my lurkin cheerleader lovin darlin, he says Janis Joplin is off. More like Tammy Wynette. Who is Tammy Wynette?

 

[teresafannin]

OMG, I feel so old. Tammy Wynette is one of the Queens of Country Music. She died a few years ago, but I was raised listening to her music. She used to be married to George Jones, they ruled the music charts back in the 60's. Some of her songs: "Stand by Your Man" D-I-V-O-R-C-E,things like that. Lots of heartbreak, cheating & beer drinking music. Not like the pop of today's country music.

I am not married, but we have been together 4 years. I most often fantasize about the 2 of us doing something wild like being in a porn movie, but always with us being together. Might have to find that video camera one of these days.

 

[KillerMuffin]

Oh my gawd. I am appalled. Thats it the StudMuffin is getting it pretty damned bad next time he's in neck wringing range. Arrrgh.

 

[teresafannin]

Hey KM, I think I sense an interesting story behind the Tammy Wynette/Janis Joplin thing??? If you need some info, let me know. I have a head full of useless information & am willing to share it. I would hate for anything bad to happen to the StudMuffin, on account of something I said.

 

[Guest]

When Brad and I were still together, we used to share in each other's fantasies a lot. We had fun role-playing MANY different things. It helped keep our sex life going strong. ~sigh~ Well, yes, now he's an ex. Oh well... lol That's another story all together!

~Tiggs~
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[Patryn]

When I was married I never fantasized that much until me and my husband were already having serious problems. That should have told me something right there.

 

[chal13]

Do I fantasize during sex?

Yes I do, some of the time. What the hack, I can have sex with my wife whenever I like. When I fantasize, I can have sex with whoever I like ;-}