Married men

[often_up_late]

Then what I said doesn't apply to you, but I've been solicited by married men on here whose wives don't know about their "extracurricular activities."

Okay, I get that. Guys with wives who are clueless about what they do here are an altogether different category.

(Also, it's nice to see a fellow INTJ on here...I'm guessing we make up a higher percentage of this board than we do the general population.)

 

[canadianpenny]

There are plenty of men that create posts/threads stating that they're married and looking for extra-curricular activities. Not that it makes it right, but I don't see why there should be a stigma for against a woman searching for married men

Mind you, I have responded to single men who send me posts on this thread. Like I said, I like trying new things

 

[Thom_the_gleeman]

There are plenty of men that create posts/threads stating that they're married and looking for extra-curricular activities. Not that it makes it right, but I don't see why there should be a stigma for against a woman searching for married men

Mind you, I have responded to single men who send me posts on this thread. Like I said, I like trying new things

Although it might be true that married men might be a bit more trained... I'd like to think some single guys know how to treat a lady as well...

So hi! my name's Thom... how do you do?

Thom

 

[bob88]

Then what I said doesn't apply to you, but I've been solicited by married men on here whose wives don't know about their "extracurricular activities."

Wow, think I may have to suggest a name change for this board......something like "Check Your Morals". Ladies and Gents, let's be real, married, single or whatever we all are, we are here to read, watch, see a topic that interests us or whatever reason we are here.

Hopefully, I'm not being judged why I come to Lit to interact and add my thoughts. I also think we can learn a thing or two from reading posts about certain topics.

What's the old line "Can't we all just get along"

 

[cj200267]

I think I'm ready...

Send me a PM and we'll see if we connect

Edit: I'm working on the assumption that married men know how to talk to and treat a lady

You want to be treated like a lady? I guess you haven't explored many of the threads on lit yet, have you?

(What? It's just a joke....)

 

[dirtwrench]

I want to go on record as being

a. married guy
b. no clue how to treat/talk to a lady
c. also clueless how the heck I wound up in this married thing for 20+ years
(yes to the same woman all these years)

Can I just talk to you as a person?

 

[Noor]

Well there are those of us who are no longer married, but still know how to treat a lady as a lady.

I thought you gave up?

 

[Noor]

I think I'm ready...

Send me a PM and we'll see if we connect

Edit: I'm working on the assumption that married men know how to talk to and treat a lady

Bad assumption, if they really knew how they would be too busy getting laid to be looking at the personals on lit

 

[LadyVer]

I think I'm ready...

Send me a PM and we'll see if we connect

Edit: I'm working on the assumption that married men know how to talk to and treat a lady

You will be very disappointed then. Marital status makes no difference in how a man treats a woman or in knowing how to treat them. The only sure thing is they have a wife.

 

[SecondTime]

Frankly, if a married man knows how to treat a woman then he should only be sweet talking his wife. IMO.

If only it was that simple. It's not.

 

[toguefun46]

Everyone is entitled to an opinion, or preference. Everyone is not entitled to judge anothers reasons or circumstances. COEXIST. Laugh,love live and let live.

 

[canadianpenny]

Well my assumption is based on the fact that a married man has acquired a lady therefore would know how to talk to one. Of course not every married man does. And that's not to say that single men don't know how to either

 

[Bbb13]

Well my assumption is based on the fact that a married man has acquired a lady therefore would know how to talk to one. Of course not every married man does. And that's not to say that single men don't know how to either

Boy did you start something. Lol

 

[HappyandHorny]

Penny you're alright... don't let the haters get ya. If you're interested in working one out with a married guy, there are plenty of married guys here ready to plow.

 

[northerner29]

most married men know what it takes to find the right woman, treat her like a lady and make her the queen of their world ...

 

[LadyVer]

most married men know what it takes to find the right woman, treat her like a lady and make her the queen of their world ...

Respectfully, that is bullshit. No offense...

 

[GetlaidGetpaid]

*****

 

[Gasguy52]

Hello there Penny, sent you a pm to introduce myself, give it a look and see what you think

 

[knuts1]

Frankly, if a married man knows how to treat a woman then he should only be sweet talking his wife. IMO.

You took the words right out of my mouth!!

 

[Annaleise]

most married men know what it takes to find the right woman, treat her like a lady and make her the queen of their world ...

IMO its the guy. Not his relationship status.
I've gotten some PMs from married men on here that have made me vomit in my mouth a little.
just sayin

 

[LadyVer]

IMO its the guy. Not his relationship status.
I've gotten some PMs from married men on here that have made me vomit in my mouth a little.
just sayin

LOL Me too!

 

[Annaleise]

LOL Me too!

Heh. Is there are thread to post the best of them?
Some of mine are fucking hysterical!

 

[LadyVer]

Heh. Is there are thread to post the best of them?
Some of mine are fucking hysterical!

I've been thinking of creating a thread with other Lit women where we give advice to men on how to connect with women on Lit... I think there's enough threads that list the stories of bad pm's, etc. I think the main issue is that men on Lit, not all of them of course, think that since this is an adult site, civility, courtesy, and intelligence don't matter.

 

[sventastic]

I've been thinking of creating a thread with other Lit women where we give advice to men on how to connect with women on Lit... I think there's enough threads that list the stories of bad pm's, etc. I think the main issue is that men on Lit, not all of them of course, think that since this is an adult site, civility, courtesy, and intelligence don't matter.

The worst part is that those that seem to display a lack of the qualities you mentioned make it lousier for us. I sent a PM a few days ago to a wonderful lady, who was five years older than I.

I did not get a reply even though I think I met all the requirements she had specified and I think it has to do with the fact that she has been flooded with enough nonsense to be oblivious to the few well written (in my opinion) PMs that follow the rules, to so speak. And its not the one isolated instance of a lack of response.

Maybe my PM skills suck, or maybe it is a larger issue of too many messages at hand.

 

[Annaleise]

The worst part is that those that seem to display a lack of the qualities you mentioned make it lousier for us. I sent a PM a few days ago to a wonderful lady, who was five years older than I.

I did not get a reply even though I think I met all the requirements she had specified and I think it has to do with the fact that she has been flooded with enough nonsense to be oblivious to the few well written (in my opinion) PMs that follow the rules, to so speak. And its not the one isolated instance of a lack of response.

Maybe my PM skills suck, or maybe it is a larger issue of too many messages at hand.

This is true.
I try to respond as much as I can even if I'm not interested.
But the type of PM does matter to me. I've started responding accordingly.
For example if I get a few words I respond with the same.
If you send me something creepy I tried to be equally creepy in return.
Its actually kind of fun.