Married ladies, what do you think about when you masterbate?

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I'm a 54 y/o male and wife is 51 y/o. We've had a good sex like but I most alway initiate it. She is not a sexually driven person if you will but gets into it when she gets warmed up. She would never pull a dildo out of the drawer but really enjoys it during those times when I do. She does admit that she masterbates although not all that often. While having sex the other night, the topic of masterbation came up and I asked her when she last did. She said that she had a few nights ago while taking a shower. I asked her what she was thinking about and she said she was thinking about me which I highly doubt. This has come up in the past and she has typically said that she wasn't thinking about anything, just the enjoying the feeling of her finger or the water etc. I typically have some type of fantasy in my head while I'm jacking off, which is often, so it's hard for me to believe that she doesn't have something sexual she's thinking of while she's doing it. Ladies, what are your thoughts? What do you typically think of while masterbating?
 
What about YOU Aphroditiac? Who do you fantasize about when you masturbate?

I dream I am having a phone sex threesome with Benedict Cumberbatch and Tom Hiddleston. I want to hear pure filth pouring from those plummy British mouths. :D
 
When I catch her red handed I think she tells me the truth, if she's telling me after it has happened I think she tones it down...
 
.... Not my husband ;)

Exactly! It's hard for me to believe that she would think about me after 30 years of marriage. Sex needs to have fresh ideas and fantasies. I jerk off thinking about her but it usually involves a boyfriend she had when we were broken up. She had told me during our dating days that he was very good in bed and that his dick was thicker than mine. It makes me horny thinking about what she did with him to this day :devil:
 
A young(ish) stud that I can love on.
Lately I have been picturing some hot sex scenes
 
How boring does it make me if I answer "my husband"? Because it's the truth.... If I think of a person, it's always him. Then there are times when I only think of a spesific act, like a tongue on my clit, and at that moment it's a tongue that doesn't belong to anyone in particular.

But the absolutely quickest way to get off is to think about hubby and moan his name aloud. Seems a bit silly maybe... :eek:
 
A stronger older man that takes control of me and makes me his toy
Makes me crave him .
Tied and teased for hours and cum all over. Or tied up on display at a party not knowing who is touching me
 
So... a large number are telling us "not my Husband" but not going into any detail about what they do fantasise about. How about adding a few words to give us an idea. Even one word, for example: Threesome; group; lesbian; forced; B&D; incest; workmate; filmstar;
Thanks ladies.
 
Not hubby. Usually thinking about flashing guys in public and picturing their reactions. It's been a fantasy of mine to do that for a while, but I haven't got the nerve to try yet. Thinking about strangers looking at my body always gets me excited though, so that's where my thoughts tend to go during me-time.
 
Being curious I clicked on this thread to read what some of the ladies were sharing and it made me a little curious to discuss with my wife and ask her. Wife says hers vary, at times it is just me and usually doing her somewhere risque, other times it is a certain act no faces or anything just the act, and the one that turned me on to hear was the occasions when it is someone else, it is usually a delivery guy or repair man. She said the thought of the flirting, the cat and mouse game and the thought of letting go being a slut and sucking and fucking him.
 
I'm a 54 y/o male and wife is 51 y/o. We've had a good sex like but I most alway initiate it. She is not a sexually driven person if you will but gets into it when she gets warmed up. She would never pull a dildo out of the drawer but really enjoys it during those times when I do. She does admit that she masterbates although not all that often. While having sex the other night, the topic of masterbation came up and I asked her when she last did. She said that she had a few nights ago while taking a shower. I asked her what she was thinking about and she said she was thinking about me which I highly doubt. This has come up in the past and she has typically said that she wasn't thinking about anything, just the enjoying the feeling of her finger or the water etc. I typically have some type of fantasy in my head while I'm jacking off, which is often, so it's hard for me to believe that she doesn't have something sexual she's thinking of while she's doing it. Ladies, what are your thoughts? What do you typically think of while masterbating?


We must be married to twins! Mine has never been sexually driven in the last 60 years we've been together. She has dildos and does masterbate but claims she is only thinking of me. COME ON!!! I think of others when I masterbate and so do millions of others. She must think I would be jealous. I would love to see her taking a big cock just to snap her out of this lie. :rolleyes:
 
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