I'm a 54 y/o male and wife is 51 y/o. We've had a good sex like but I most alway initiate it. She is not a sexually driven person if you will but gets into it when she gets warmed up. She would never pull a dildo out of the drawer but really enjoys it during those times when I do. She does admit that she masterbates although not all that often. While having sex the other night, the topic of masterbation came up and I asked her when she last did. She said that she had a few nights ago while taking a shower. I asked her what she was thinking about and she said she was thinking about me which I highly doubt. This has come up in the past and she has typically said that she wasn't thinking about anything, just the enjoying the feeling of her finger or the water etc. I typically have some type of fantasy in my head while I'm jacking off, which is often, so it's hard for me to believe that she doesn't have something sexual she's thinking of while she's doing it. Ladies, what are your thoughts? What do you typically think of while masterbating?