Married couple, new to bondage and looking for "furniture".

BDSMnoob123

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My wife and I are new to the whole BDSM lifestyle.. I guess you could say we are "BDSM lite".. My wife was always naturally a submissive person, which is what I believe attracted me to her in the first place.. I have a very dominate personality.. Our sex life has always been very "vanilla".. After 15 years together I approached her with this whole "fetish" world.. She was a little hesitant at first, but I believe it was just because it was something different.. Fast forward to our first face fucking session and I find this eager little whore who is asking for more..

Anyway, on to the reason for the post.. We live in a single family house with two small children (under 3).. Both children sleep inside our bedroom which hasn't been too much of an issue since we time our sessions around their sleep schedule.. The issue is that for nights when they already hit the bed, we are left with the only "comfortable" area as being the couch which doesn't leave much room to sprawl out.. That or on the hard floor.. I was curious to see if anyone could recommend a floor mattress, low rise table, or some other type of furniture that would be good for general bondage.. Ideally I would like something that has just enough rise so that it would be good for facefucking and spreader bar doggy style sex... I would like something with a firm, but comfortable surface.. And like I said.. Ideally the rise would be just enough that you could walk over and facefuck her or mount her from behind.. Im thinking something that sits maybe 10-12 inches off the floor.. I need mouth/pussy height to be about 30-32 inches..
 
It's a bit not what you asked for, but have you considered a good sturdy wooden chair? It will look complately natural out of use, and it provides a surprising amount of positions for bondage.

You can also investigate thick sports mats that you can roll out on the floor for play, and then roll back up and store away until the next session.

I don't really know about tables, but above all you will want something very sturdy. If you look at a piece of furniture, think of where stress points will go, where the rope (if you use it) will tie and pull, and where the forces will be applied if you fuck on it. For example, a small table's legs would be something to pay a lot of attention to, because as you move back and forth, the whole table will be shifting with you (or trying to). The force applied to the legs would be like trying to rock them back and forth with substantial force, so you need them very thick and reinforces.
 
My husband built this using a sawhorse:

https://i.imgur.com/2tETfnSm.jpg

He padded the top and put heavy material over it - like neoprene, I think. He added hooks to hang paddles, canes. It was sturdy enough to have me on it :)

This version was a little low - he had to squat a bit to face fuck me.

What was nifty about it, you could just fold it up and put it away easily.
 
You can do quite a bit with a good automan. We have a nice leather one that is very nicely padded with big sturdy legs that are perfect tie down points. Best part is when not in use it is just a piece of furniture. Everything we have that won’t fit into a drawer is dual purpose. Not a discussion we are ready to have with our kids or parents lol
 
This might be useful for those of you who actually have space. They even have a drawing of how to make a spanking bench that can be used for sex instead of spanking.
 
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