Married Cocksuckers, Have you confessed to your wife?

No completely clear memory, but I told my girlfriend about a month into our developing relationship that I’d had sexual contact (okay, mutual cocksucking, lol) with my best friend. She was not particularly shocked, nor repulsed by my confession.

That was nearly 59 years ago, we’ve been married for 56 years.

She’s still not repulsed. LOL
We got married young. Our first fling with others was with a couple. She had seen me suck his cock. She went and seen her while we was at work. I didn't care. She also had a local girlfriend at one time for quite a while until she moved off. We had got off into threesomes pretty good. I was sissified by one of them. She didn't mind. I was in chastity by him in my mid twenties for about three years so I couldn't fuck her. He had complete control of my clitty and she didn't mind. He had me wearing dresses and during that time i only had sex with men. She didn't mind that either. We never knew if he would have an extra guy when we went to see him and he did a lot. My wife loved that. He arranged two big gangbangs for us. One in Dallas and one in Tulsa. We were really wild and we both loved it. After that we found some local guys. We live in a very small rural town and was a little amazed to find some here so local. One of them we both went to school with. We and him had no idea who each other was until we met. He said he always wanted to fuck her in school. She went and seen him some by herself. She would call me at work and tell me. I was so turned on by that. I knew I couldn't say anything and she knew it too. Had one guy that would come over her ever now and then. He would fuck her in our bed while I watched tv or something. I would then go do cleanup duty on both of them. Did I say my wife loved kinky stuff? We have slowed down now and only have two men we see. One we both go see and the other one she goes and sees. About once a week on Saturdays. I can't get mine up like I used to so I know she needs it. She told me to go get fucked and suck all the cock I want to. So it's still a good thing for both of us.
 
A week into our freshly blossoming relationship, my girlfriend asked me if I ever sucked a cock. This question took me by surprise and out of fear of repulsing her, even worse losing her, I denied that I did.
That was 25 years ago, we're married and regretted my reaction every single day. I somehow never mustered up the courage to tell her...
 
No I never did. We were swingers for a few years and she would have freaked out if she knew how many of our male friends I was with.
 
I have never confessed and she has never asked. Having said that, I believe she knows because of all the evidence she has. They include:

Using her vibrator on me,
finding my lube,
Finding pictures of me in lingerie,
Finding a thing that was not hers….
 
A while back I confessed to my wife of many years that beginning as an adolescent and continuing into adulthood, I'd been a voracious and insatiable cocksucker. I told her, in explicit detail, about episodes of me giving blowjobs, frequently to multiple men, one after another as they all stood around watching me and waiting to take their turn fucking my throat. She was surprised to learn that her macho husband had been a cocksucker, but accepted that this was in the past. I neglected to inform her that I'm still a compulsive cocksucker and that I still routinely meet with men to give them blowjobs. I love my wife and I don't like being dishonest with her, but I also refuse to deny my oral obsession. Anyone in a similar situation?
There’s no way she thinks “oh he used to be greedy cocksucking whore. But those days are all behind him now” 🤣 She has to either know or at least wonder if you are still sucking dicks. She may just accept it or is afraid to confirm her hidden suspicion.
 
There’s no way she thinks “oh he used to be greedy cocksucking whore. But those days are all behind him now” 🤣 She has to either know or at least wonder if you are still sucking dicks. She may just accept it or is afraid to confirm her hidden suspicion.
Oh, I'm positive that she suspects (knows) that I still suck cock behind her back, she just hasn't caught me at it. She hasn't come out and actually accused me of still being a Cocksucker, but she no longer respects me, and I really can't blame her considering the outrageous nature of some of the acts I have admitted to her that I have willingly performed.
 
Because of O/our Wife/Mistress-submissive husband lifestyle, She is aware of my cocksucking because She directs it Herself. (Fluffing Her Bulls for example), if She is not present, She directs via instructions what a Man can do to me.
 
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Oh, I'm positive that she suspects (knows) that I still suck cock behind her back, she just hasn't caught me at it. She hasn't come out and actually accused me of still being a Cocksucker, but she no longer respects me, and I really can't blame her considering the outrageous nature of some of the acts I have admitted to her that I have willingly performed.
Are you two still intimate…with each other?
 
We got married young. Our first fling with others was with a couple. She had seen me suck his cock. She went and seen her while we was at work. I didn't care. She also had a local girlfriend at one time for quite a while until she moved off. We had got off into threesomes pretty good. I was sissified by one of them. She didn't mind. I was in chastity by him in my mid twenties for about three years so I couldn't fuck her. He had complete control of my clitty and she didn't mind. He had me wearing dresses and during that time i only had sex with men. She didn't mind that either. We never knew if he would have an extra guy when we went to see him and he did a lot. My wife loved that. He arranged two big gangbangs for us. One in Dallas and one in Tulsa. We were really wild and we both loved it. After that we found some local guys. We live in a very small rural town and was a little amazed to find some here so local. One of them we both went to school with. We and him had no idea who each other was until we met. He said he always wanted to fuck her in school. She went and seen him some by herself. She would call me at work and tell me. I was so turned on by that. I knew I couldn't say anything and she knew it too. Had one guy that would come over her ever now and then. He would fuck her in our bed while I watched tv or something. I would then go do cleanup duty on both of them. Did I say my wife loved kinky stuff? We have slowed down now and only have two men we see. One we both go see and the other one she goes and sees. About once a week on Saturdays. I can't get mine up like I used to so I know she needs it. She told me to go get fucked and suck all the cock I want to. So it's still a good thing for both of us.
So HOT! I envy
you!
 
There’s no way she thinks “oh he used to be greedy cocksucking whore. But those days are all behind him now” 🤣 She has to either know or at least wonder if you are still sucking dicks. She may just accept it or is afraid to confirm her hidden suspicion.
I’m sure there may be exceptions, but I’ve never met any guys that sucked one cock and didn’t want more, I think about it all the time and my wife and I tallk about it. We both like to suck cock together and we both like to eat pussy together. For us, it’s been a wonderful life, and we hope it will always be this good. We are both 47 now and have 2 children.
 
My wife has a huge fantasy of me and her sucking a cock together. It gets her sooooo worked up. We use our dildos to simulate it….Maybe we’ll try it for real one day
My wife and I both love to suck cock together and we love to eat pussy together. You nor her will regret it if you make it happen for real. FYI we are both 47, married almost 24 years, and have 2 children.
 
I’m sure there may be exceptions, but I’ve never met any guys that sucked one cock and didn’t want more, I think about it all the time and my wife and I tallk about it. We both like to suck cock together and we both like to eat pussy together. For us, it’s been a wonderful life, and we hope it will always be this good. We are both 47 now and have 2 children.
Exactly, you try just once and keep craving for more and more for the rest of your life and it’s amazing ☺️
 
Are you two still intimate…with each other?
We are, but the sex we have now consists mostly of me performing oral sex on her. She calls me her Cocksucker. She will occasionally give me a blowjob. I can't remember the last time we had PIV sex.
 
I've written about this a on LIT a few times before but this is the perfect thread for it.

My wife and I were lovers in high school but married others. 25 years later both of us divorced we revived our relationship and took our sex together to another level getting together on weekends indulging in total uninhibited sex. We would stay in bed having sex watching porn and fucking.

One weekend the porn film included mmf sex showing the two men sucking each other. She asked me if I would ever do do that and my answer was "yes, and that I had done it". I then told her my entire cock sucking history beginning before we met in school and continuing to that day.

A week or so later we had our first mmf together.
 
We are, but the sex we have now consists mostly of me performing oral sex on her. She calls me her Cocksucker. She will occasionally give me a blowjob. I can't remember the last time we had PIV sex.
I kinda like the relationship. Do you find it slighty humiliating yet sexy? I certainly do
 
I kinda like the relationship. Do you find it slighty humiliating yet sexy? I certainly do
I find it to be extremely humiliating! And I LOVE IT! Since my admission to having sucked cock in the past, my wife has become much more dominant than she had been before. She holds onto my head and uses my mouth to masturbate herself, instructing me on how she wants me to eat her cunt, and addressing me as "Cocksucker". It has also spread to other aspects of our relationship. I had told her that my previous wife had cheated on me numerous times and that I came home from work early to find her fucking the neighbor, but lately my wife has begun asking me for more details about my ex's indiscretions and about how her having cuckolded me made me feel.
 
I came out to my wife before I sucked a cock. I wanted her to know I had those desires and get her help In dealling with them. To my surprise she told me I should try it. Later I learned she did so for three reasons. The first was she wanted to know if I was bi or gay. Second she was amused by my gay desires. Finally she admitted she was a bit turned on by the thought of me having gay desires.
 
I find it to be extremely humiliating! And I LOVE IT! Since my admission to having sucked cock in the past, my wife has become much more dominant than she had been before. She holds onto my head and uses my mouth to masturbate herself, instructing me on how she wants me to eat her cunt, and addressing me as "Cocksucker". It has also spread to other aspects of our relationship. I had told her that my previous wife had cheated on me numerous times and that I came home from work early to find her fucking the neighbor, but lately my wife has begun asking me for more details about my ex's indiscretions and about how her having cuckolded me made me feel.
Yes! I like that. Bringing back all of those cuckold moments to the forefront of your cocksucking mind. She’s clearly next to cuckold you. You may have the privilege to be a lovely dick sucking fluffer 😍
 
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