Married and very Bi-Curious

[CThomas4bondage]

Bi-Curious male looking for a friend first and hopefully turn into a friend with benefits! I know, a long shot huh! I've been curious for most of my adult life and have come close to meeting someone but something always screws it up. I was nervous as hell and looking forward to it but he backed out. I would like to get to know someone and then let it progress. I'm 5'7" 180lbs 61 years old and in pretty good shape. Looking for someone in the southern Ocala area of Florida. Let's chat!

 

[kev01955]

Wow. Just read your post. That could be me. I have written the same sort of posts here in the UK. How is it going finding somebody ?

 

[CThomas4bondage]

Wow. Just read your post. That could be me. I have written the same sort of posts here in the UK. How is it going finding somebody ?

Nonexistent! This is way harder than I thought! In a perfect world I would like to meet a friend that's like minded and then take it from there. But it's a lot harder than I thought. Good luck!

 

[el_uno77]

Bi-Curious male looking for a friend first and hopefully turn into a friend with benefits! I know, a long shot huh! I've been curious for most of my adult life and have come close to meeting someone but something always screws it up. I was nervous as hell and looking forward to it but he backed out. I would like to get to know someone and then let it progress. I'm 5'7" 180lbs 61 years old and in pretty good shape. Looking for someone in the southern Ocala area of Florida. Let's chat!

hey thomas....are you still looking. i am bi, 63 but can pass for younger (or so i've been told). also in good shape. live in pinellas county. lets chat and see what happens. i've been to Ocala a few times. send me a private message here or better yet to el_uno77@yahoo.com

 

[CThomas4bondage]

Wow. Just read your post. That could be me. I have written the same sort of posts here in the UK. How is it going finding somebody ?

Nonexistent!

 

[glade4656]

I am in central Alabama and bi-curious also.

 

[badandmys5402]

I'm not close to you at all but I still would enjoy chatting if you're up for it.

 

[TempSpawn]

I'm in the UK and it is certainly very difficult to find someone nearby. Discretion and hygiene are paramount.

 

[Dino1960]

I'm in the UK and it is certainly very difficult to find someone nearby. Discretion and hygiene are paramount.

Where in the UK are you?

 

[TempSpawn]

Where in the UK are you?

Near Newcastle.

 

[Bathtubbill]

Ireland here
Still looking

 

[Dino1960]

Near Newcastle.

Lol still a long way unfortunately

 

[AlbertoGran]

London - PM to connect online

 

[CuriousMind68]

Bi-Curious male looking for a friend first and hopefully turn into a friend with benefits! I know, a long shot huh! I've been curious for most of my adult life and have come close to meeting someone but something always screws it up. I was nervous as hell and looking forward to it but he backed out. I would like to get to know someone and then let it progress. I'm 5'7" 180lbs 61 years old and in pretty good shape. Looking for someone in the southern Ocala area of Florida. Let's chat!

Your post is so similar to my situation. Except I'm in Canada, Ontario, near Toronto. Any like-minded Canadians here?

 

[Smileyouronnow]

Bi-Curious male looking for a friend first and hopefully turn into a friend with benefits! I know, a long shot huh! I've been curious for most of my adult life and have come close to meeting someone but something always screws it up. I was nervous as hell and looking forward to it but he backed out. I would like to get to know someone and then let it progress. I'm 5'7" 180lbs 61 years old and in pretty good shape. Looking for someone in the southern Ocala area of Florida. Let's chat!

Hi CThomas, Mike here.I'm in Texas so too far to meet, but please feel to ask some questions if there's anything you'd like to know. I'll be honest and up front with you.
Mike

 

[Stucoy101]

401/508 area southeastern mass, northern RI - 44m here, curious, looking for bud to play with. DM me here or skype: stucoy1

 

[romer12]

Bi-Curious male looking for a friend first and hopefully turn into a friend with benefits! I know, a long shot huh! I've been curious for most of my adult life and have come close to meeting someone but something always screws it up. I was nervous as hell and looking forward to it but he backed out. I would like to get to know someone and then let it progress. I'm 5'7" 180lbs 61 years old and in pretty good shape. Looking for someone in the southern Ocala area of Florida. Let's chat!

Also in same situation in 08060 area. Anyone need relief ????

 

[adman45]

Wow. Just read your post. That could be me. I have written the same sort of posts here in the UK. How is it going finding somebody ?

Thinking of looking myself. Herts/Bucks uk

 

[7528Dick]

Bi-Curious male looking for a friend first and hopefully turn into a friend with benefits! I know, a long shot huh! I've been curious for most of my adult life and have come close to meeting someone but something always screws it up. I was nervous as hell and looking forward to it but he backed out. I would like to get to know someone and then let it progress. I'm 5'7" 180lbs 61 years old and in pretty good shape. Looking for someone in the southern Ocala area of Florida. Let's chat!

I might be interested. Heading to Cape Coral in January. Could swing by on my way and stay a few days to get naked with you.

 

[Bisexguy70]

I think all of us should move to the same town. Its somehow very difficult to meet up. Especially mtg other married guys etc. ive tried a few things. I really miss the craigslist personals. I had so much luck there. Im very lucky. Found a FWB on there. Tried doublelist and its 99% hacks. Best thing i can do is support on line. I enjoy sharing about my journey into discovering male to male play. Im an open book.

 

[james2346]

I think all of us should move to the same town. Its somehow very difficult to meet up. Especially mtg other married guys etc. ive tried a few things. I really miss the craigslist personals. I had so much luck there. Im very lucky. Found a FWB on there. Tried doublelist and its 99% hacks. Best thing i can do is support on line. I enjoy sharing about my journey into discovering male to male play. Im an open book.

I am in the same boat, it is hard to meet up with someone and just have a good time.

I am sure wherelese to look cause it has to be discreet

 

[Smileyouronnow]

I am in the same boat, it is hard to meet up with someone and just have a good time.

I am sure wherelese to look cause it has to be discreet

Hi James, I'm in the same boat. Plus you also worry about diseases that you could take home as well. So, being cautious and very picky is of the utmost importance. The key is finding someone exactly like your self. Someone attached and wanting to stay attached because you have a family or for other personal reasons.
There are sites like BisexualPlayground.com, bi-cupid.com that you would need to buy a subscription for, although browsing is free.

If you need to get a disposable email address you can google it. There is a site called doublelist.com that you can browse, but more than likely you won't find guys like us on there, who are looking for just 1 married guy and not sleeping with lots of partners.

I had a married fwb buddy when in my early 30's. He had been a very good friend for years and it wasn't until one of our once a month Friday hangouts that we had rum and diet coke, food and totally out of character we had some 420.

We then had a stoned oral sex conversation, about liking and wanting them so much that as long as it was given from a trust person we cared for, it would be ok.

We were both surprised at both our agreement on that one. Then he asked "would it matter if it came from a woman or not?" I distinctly remember pausing and saying "well I guess not." He chimed in "as long as you know and trust the person and know they don't have anything you can take home, and is as discrete as yourself, right?" I said "yes."

We had more rum and 420 and later spoke more about oral sex and he asked if I would consider getting oral sex from him and that he was clean as a whistle and had thought about that with me for some time. I was still thinking about our 1st conversation about getting one from a trusted person and i knew he had meant himself when he said it.

Thinking about it the entire time after that got me a little randy, so when he asked about giving me one I said yes. That was the start of a long special friendship. We were fwb for years until a family tragedy occurred and he moved away.

That is something difficult to find , I have discovered.

 

[james2346]

Hi James, I'm in the same boat. Plus you also worry about diseases that you could take home as well. So, being cautious and very picky is of the utmost importance. The key is finding someone exactly like your self. Someone attached and wanting to stay attached because you have a family or for other personal reasons.
There are sites like BisexualPlayground.com, bi-cupid.com that you would need to buy a subscription for, although browsing is free.

If you need to get a disposable email address you can google it. There is a site called doublelist.com that you can browse, but more than likely you won't find guys like us on there, who are looking for just 1 married guy and not sleeping with lots of partners.

I had a married fwb buddy when in my early 30's. He had been a very good friend for years and it wasn't until one of our once a month Friday hangouts that we had rum and diet coke, food and totally out of character we had some 420.

We then had a stoned oral sex conversation, about liking and wanting them so much that as long as it was given from a trust person we cared for, it would be ok.

We were both surprised at both our agreement on that one. Then he asked "would it matter if it came from a woman or not?" I distinctly remember pausing and saying "well I guess not." He chimed in "as long as you know and trust the person and know they don't have anything you can take home, and is as discrete as yourself, right?" I said "yes."

We had more rum and 420 and later spoke more about oral sex and he asked if I would consider getting oral sex from him and that he was clean as a whistle and had thought about that with me for some time. I was still thinking about our 1st conversation about getting one from a trusted person and i knew he had meant himself when he said it.

Thinking about it the entire time after that got me a little randy, so when he asked about giving me one I said yes. That was the start of a long special friendship. We were fwb for years until a family tragedy occurred and he moved away.

That is something difficult to find , I have discovered.

wow...thanks for all the advice. I am nervous about meeting up again (other than my first time) but really would like to have a fwb.

 

[Smileyouronnow]

wow...thanks for all the advice. I am nervous about meeting up again (other than my first time) but really would like to have a fwb.

Me too. I would like to meet and have a friend like you. Someone on the same level as myself. Someone who has concerns and needs and is ready to figure our how to get it, while staying safe and developing a trust. Only then can we have the possibility of obtaining what we both want. I hope to find all that in a good guy someday.

My friend and I all those years ago, made a pact that we would always be respectful gentlemen who would honor each others wishes. Even if one of us decided that he wanted go back to how we were before, without the sex. We also agreed that neither of us would step out on the other and would not fool around with anyone else.

That's been hard to find here in Austin Tx.

So, how long have you been looking and how long have you been curious?

 

[Stucoy101]

401/508 area code.....

Hanging a bit tonight - skype: stucoy1
44m rhode island....