Married and Cheating Statistics

[seekingAlpha]

Over the years, I’ve come to notice a deliciously consistent truth that the deeper a married woman’s kinks run, the more fiercely she aches to step outside her vows to feed them. I’ve met many "happily married" women who, behind closed doors, confess a ravenous hunger for the very things their husbands refuse to give. They crave the tight bite of cuffs around their wrists, the sharp kiss of leather on skin, the low commanding voice that strips away every pretense of control. They dream of being bent over, owned, pushed past polite pleasure into raw, shuddering surrender. But at home, the bedroom stays soft, predictable, loving in all the ways society applauds and they are consistently starved of the intensity they need. Their partners are good men that are attentive, affectionate, and safe. Yet not dominant enough to be willing to pin her down, mark her, and make her beg until she surrenders. So she seeks out someone who understands the tremor in her thighs when the rope gets tight, who knows exactly how long to deny her before granting release, and who can read her body like a novel, and push her further still. The first time she’s truly owned, restrained, teased, and commanded she comes undone in ways she never knew were possible. Every suppressed fantasy floods out and the guilt she feared melts beneath the heat of finally being seen. Once she tastes that kind of power exchange, once she feels the exquisite sting of being utterly possessed, there’s no going back again. The kinkier she is, the more insatiable her desire and the more willing she becomes to slip away again and again, chasing the one thing her marriage can’t provide which is complete and unapologetic surrender.

 

[808guy]

It’s the only thing that covers all the bases. It’s what haunts me. When I am fucking her and she has her eyes closed with a stupid little smile on her face I really think she is reliving some of her times with him.

Was it difficult at all to get those married moms to give up their ass to you or were they eager to let you have it?

They would tell me how they didn’t let their husbands fuck their asses but wanted to give it to me as a gift for my birthday. They were complete whores with me. Fucking and sucking in public. Letting me fuck them bareback. Swallowing my cum. Making them squirt. Fucking them on their bed asking which sides hubs side as i ride her. It was amazing all while they wear their wedding ring.

 

[saintcero]

They would tell me how they didn’t let their husbands fuck their asses but wanted to give it to me as a gift for my birthday. They were complete whores with me. Fucking and sucking in public. Letting me fuck them bareback. Swallowing my cum. Making them squirt. Fucking them on their bed asking which sides hubs side as i ride her. It was amazing all while they wear their wedding ring.

I wish I could experience that side of my wife. I bet she enjoys her dirty little secret

 

[808guy]

I wish I could experience that side of my wife. I bet she enjoys her dirty little secret

I wonder if she’s still cheating. Rimming her bf

 

[saintcero]

I wonder if she’s still cheating. Rimming her bf

I wonder too. She and her girl friends are going on a quick trip the Caribbean. Now I wonder if others will be joining them there.

I will check her laundry bag when she returns. I might find my answer there. If she is in a rush to wash her clothes when she gets back, I might have my answer without even looking.

 

[Bi4Older84]

They would tell me how they didn’t let their husbands fuck their asses but wanted to give it to me as a gift for my birthday. They were complete whores with me. Fucking and sucking in public. Letting me fuck them bareback. Swallowing my cum. Making them squirt. Fucking them on their bed asking which sides hubs side as i ride her. It was amazing all while they wear their wedding ring.

I think that a lot of women like to "abandon" their identities as "wife" and "mother" and enjoy the opportunity to be enjoyed as sexual beings-which is why they seem to let loose and indulge all of the dirty things that they don't do at home. They can just enjoy being used or using someone else strictly to get off. They don't have to worry about judgement or any sort of fallout from behaviors that fall outside of the norm.

There are also plenty of women who have husbands that either can't keep up or aren't interested in some of the things they enjoy, and for them to be able to experience fulfillment of those desires is incredibly ly freeing for them

 

[808guy]

I wonder too. She and her girl friends are going on a quick trip the Caribbean. Now I wonder if others will be joining them there.

I will check her laundry bag when she returns. I might find my answer there. If she is in a rush to wash her clothes when she gets back, I might have my answer without even looking.

Or maybe they are going to try islands bbc

 

[saintcero]

Or maybe they are going to try islands bbc

So you’re saying she might be a little loose on her return?

 

[policywank]

Ouch indeed. Once again proving any guy who isn't big is useless and worthless

That is not what I was suggesting. The main thrust of my comments was that the stereotypical differences in why men and women cheat is largely contrived - not to say that there aren't differences, but that they don't seem to line up with what society has told us they are.

As part of that point I noted that a different or better sexual experience is one of the reasons women cheat. As such yes they may consider something like cock size in the same way that men may consider various sexual or superficial characteristics. The point wasn't the cheating women want big dicks so much as it was that we are not above real or perceived factors affecting sexual prowess and the physical experience. Meanwhile the difference they expressed was about an inch, which is hardly an endorsement of huge cocks relative to average or a statement that the absence of that inch makes a man useless and worthless.

 

[Moonlitt]

I came across a few interesting stats on cheating in marriages and thought I would pass them along for discussion and responses.
44% of women said it was with someone their husband knew.
The top cheating occurrence was Business trips.
The percentage of affairs that begin at work: 60%
Up to 60% of all spouses will take part in some form of infidelity at least once during their marriage.
56% of men who have affairs claim to be happy in their marriages.
Women and men cheat at the same rate within a marriage, although the reasons why women cheat are very different from the reasons that men cheat.
34% of women who had affairs claimed to be happy or very happy in their marriages
The most common reason why a woman cheats on her spouse: emotional satisfaction.
Men [74%] and women [68%] say that they would have an affair if they knew that they wouldn’t be caught.
17% of cheating spouses have an affair with one of their in-laws.
The percentage of cheating spouses who have a fling while on a business trip: 35%.

I can for sure see how business trips and coworkers would be high in where people cheat and who they cheat with.

 

[Ed_Sumner]

That is not what I was suggesting. The main thrust of my comments was that the stereotypical differences in why men and women cheat is largely contrived - not to say that there aren't differences, but that they don't seem to line up with what society has told us they are.

As part of that point I noted that a different or better sexual experience is one of the reasons women cheat. As such yes they may consider something like cock size in the same way that men may consider various sexual or superficial characteristics. The point wasn't the cheating women want big dicks so much as it was that we are not above real or perceived factors affecting sexual prowess and the physical experience. Meanwhile the difference they expressed was about an inch, which is hardly an endorsement of huge cocks relative to average or a statement that the absence of that inch makes a man useless and worthless.

Small sample size, but I know one cheating woman who wasn't at all above valuing perceived factors affecting sexual prowess and the physical experience, and then was thrilled when her perception became reality.

 

[policywank]

Small sample size, but I know one cheating woman who wasn't at all above valuing perceived factors affecting sexual prowess and the physical experience, and then was thrilled when her perception became reality.

I think that the likelihood of that outcome is better than average if the woman has clarity of thought as to what she desires and is practical and realistic in how she pursues it. But the opposite is the case if she is just going after the new shiny bobble or assuming the grass is greener on the other side of the fence (sorry for the mixed metaphors)

The obvious example is seeking a more well endowed man. That can be a genuinely unique and pleasurable experience. But it isn't unto itself likely to be the one and only magic factor. She needs to have a sense of what it is about that which appeals to her and try to ensure that the other relevant factors are reflected in the experience including her own expectations and the personality of the man involved.