Marks of passion

[FungiUg]

How do you feel about being marked during pain/pleasure? Teeth marks, hand prints, rope abrasions? What marks do you like, and why do you like them?

What else do you like to come away with from a session? The feeling that clamps leave behind on your body? Your nipples tingling for days from being clamped? The tight feelings you have from being used hard sexually?

Tell all!

(I didn't leave options for we dominants, sorry... if you want to, just plug in other.)

 

[FungiUg]

In case there was any doubt, I love to bite. And I love to be able to leave marks. I tend not to leave marks from spanking, since I only use my hands, and I don't use whips (tempted to try using my belt though, which would leave some lovely welts I'm sure!)

I also like to leave clamps, which I am told leave behind a lovely tingling feeling for a day or two afterwards.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

I like having tangible marks, particularly when we are limit pushing. I want to SEE the results, and frankly, gloat over were I went, for a couple of days. I want to hug them to myself and be as proud of myself as He was, all over again, because just looking at them takes me right back to the scene. It's especially effective after I've gone home (we have a LDR)--they are another connection between us. A tangible mark on my body that HE made.

~anelize

 

[MissTaken]

I like them when they remind me of something special.

I do not like them when they remind me of mistakes made.

I voted other.

 

[Daddyslilpet]

See here's the deal....... I don't care either way, but the reason is this.... I don't mark easily. Master has tried trust me, but after the session is over the marks just fade away.

Never even been remotely marked by our canes, floggers, or anything. I kind of feel that anything hard enough to leave a mark would be waaayy outside my limits at this point.

dixi

 

[MissTaken]

My preferred marks are bite marks in discreet places. When passion has elevated to that point, there is something special about it.

Most recently, the flesh on my back was kneaded by very strong hands, to the point it caused that erotic electricity. Then, I was left with a tell tale hand print.

That was very cool.

 

[lilredwolph]

i love the marks Daddy leaves behind, right now i am pretty marked and i have a very nice welt on my ass that when i reach back and run my hand acrossed it i can feel his hand print. the feeling i get when i sit down takes me to a place where i can feel His breath on my neck/shoulder, i can smell Him and i can hear His voice - it is a wonderful safe place to be

 

[morninggirl5]

I bruise very easily, in fact i often have bruises and don't remember what happened to result in the bruise. My only concern about marks is that they not be visible when i'm wearing my regular clothes.

 

[Ebonyfire]

See here's the deal....... I don't care either way, but the reason is this.... I don't mark easily. Master has tried trust me, but after the session is over the marks just fade away.

Never even been remotely marked by our canes, floggers, or anything. I kind of feel that anything hard enough to leave a mark would be waaayy outside my limits at this point.

dixi

I agree. Some people have skin that is very mark resistant, and trying to make marks on that kind of skin is an invitation to tissure damage.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Any marks I leave are calculated, and not left in the "heat of passion". Control is what I am about.

 

[Desdemona]

Sometimes, its nice to see the marks for a few days. It takes me back to our time together. I don't like having them visible to others, though. I want my marks in discrete places.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I love marks, but unfortunately I go through periods where I don't mark no matter what and that is where I am at this point in time. Gets very disappointing when there are great reminders and then you look a couple of hours later or next morning and there is not a trace. Have had other times where I was covered, black and blue and a few other colours over a large area and was very happy...think the longest lasting was 2 weeks.

C

 

[s'lara]

i used to love the bruises. Absolutely loved them. i likened the bruises to getting a brand new article of clothing you couldn't wait to put on and constantly touched or admired it in the mirror.

i hated when the bruises faded. Once they faded, a weird melancholy took place and left me wistful. Not sure why. Oh, pressing on an aching spot always takes you right back to how the bruise was attained in the first place.

lara

 

[Howling_Ire]

I will say it's always been extreamly erotic to me to be a little "soar" the next day. You know to be sitting or standing somewhere and feel that reminder..and think about all the things that happened to cause it, and hope that you get to be soar again soon.

I feel the same way about scraches and marks, it's lovely to look in the mirror the next day, or look down and see a reminder of your passion. Just like it's always sexy to look at your red painted toe nails or your freshly shaved self, or what ever your Master has you do that is special to you and Him/Her. Expeiclay when it's something suttle that other people don't realy notice, but causes you to smile inside or out everytime you see it.

I will say though when i've got to go to work or see family i don't like such things to be visable, because most of the time people ask questions and wouldn't understand or accept tha answers..i mean you really can't say "oh i have taht bruse because i'm a bad slut and earned it" *smiles*

For example, i used to have a friend who would tell me she considered her boots to be her own secret bondage (and boy were they some boots!) the pain in her feet, the feeling of being bound into them dispite the laces and buckles, would remind her of the intensily erotic nature of herself and the human beings around her. a sence of love. I think in some ways that's what marks, burises or a little pain does...it reminds you of that bond you have with another person, the moment where you two meshed and became one

but then i also have these odd moments of being a dopey romantic.

 

[deezire1900]

I don't like to explain marks at work.

 

[redelicious]

I voted other.

Like some others I don't seem to mark well, or they don't last long.

 

[BlueSugar]

Other

I like the sore feeling, and marks that go away the next day or before. Stinging slaped red hot skin, wax burns, bites, hickies, nails on my back...mm..

 

[IamTigger]

bruises of passion

Well, I have a lover who loves leaving bite marks. They are a bit hard to explain when swimming at school camp why the teacher has a set of obvious bite marks on each thigh - pet vampire or relationship priviledges?

 

[FungiUg]

Re: bruises of passion

Well, I have a lover who loves leaving bite marks. They are a bit hard to explain when swimming at school camp why the teacher has a set of obvious bite marks on each thigh - pet vampire or relationship priviledges?

Guilty... Definately "relationship privileges"! You should feel honoured!

 

[Peter2002]

Bruises, marks, and so on

There is nothing more beautiful than a well spanked backside. Red, warm, and lovely. While not exactly a bruise, I think it qualifies. Although I'd be interested in others' opinions. For me, administering a long spanking can be very intense.

More subtle but just as pleasing in a different way is administering a caning or cropping with the intent of leaving marks. Telling her before. Then the whipping itself. Then watching those stripes slowly fade over the next several days

 

[yaspis]

Voted "other"

I bite and claw. I nibble and bite my s/o constantly and though not as hard as when playing, I still leave marks and love it. And when we play, I draw blood. Usually non-intentionaly, since I'm not that much into blood play, but the water I spray at his back always whipping stings nicely and blends the blood to pretty pink. Me, cutting my nails? No, I can't. I don't have nails, I have TALONS.

 

[Croctden]

I'll go against the flow

In the moment I like marks (especially a fire engine red ass), but I prefer they don't linger. That way I can start fresh the next day.

 

[Arden]

I marked other, because I'm not into cuts, cutting or other major abrasions.

Bruises are another story though. Like others have mentioned, bruising is a tangible record of a specific event. I had lovely bruises from my first spanking. My bottom hurt when sitting for days, and being able to see the bruises in the mirror after he returned home was comforting. A very nice reminder of our time together.

I also felt 'lumpy'. Has anyone else ever felt as if they had thickened ridges of flesh due to spanking? Lumps or ridges, I don't know how else to describe it.

Unfortunately, I found out on our last visit that I don't bruise easily. Ok, so I have a little padding on my ass, lol. Two hours of play in a dungeon produced no marks, though. Maybe the position that you are in makes a difference. Flat versus kneeling, and so on.

I haven't had any teeth marks yet, and minor rope abrasions would elicit the same fond memories as spanking bruises. A record of love shared, in our case.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I also felt 'lumpy'. Has anyone else ever felt as if they had thickened ridges of flesh due to spanking? Lumps or ridges, I don't know how else to describe it.

Unfortunately, I found out on our last visit that I don't bruise easily. Ok, so I have a little padding on my ass, lol. Two hours of play in a dungeon produced no marks, though. Maybe the position that you are in makes a difference. Flat versus kneeling, and so on.

I haven't had any teeth marks yet, and minor rope abrasions would elicit the same fond memories as spanking bruises. A record of love shared, in our case.

Yes, I also have felt ridges sometimes in bruising, particularly after caning. Your thoughts on the propensity to bruise relating to different positions while on the receiving end is interesting.....certainly warrents investigation and experimentation for me....must formulate a scientific experiment with Master ASAP

Catalina

 

[ammre]

I mark well but it takes a lot to bruise me... I love having marks though... i sorta get areanline rushes about the fact that i can take the pain it takes to get a mark like such... their also a reminer of Him, *stating the obivious* i'm the bodmod fan and marks are jsut a temporary body modification of our affection and devotion to eachother. I like most scars.