RosieVelvet
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Where are all those pathetic, worthless, wimpy, servile men, that's what I want to know.
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SissySalina
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squeak, squeak.
sub2femdom
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Everywhere, literally.
YourTwinkBabe
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Was I summoned?
If you ever manage to find one, what will you do to it?
DreamingOfMyEx
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They aren't that difficult to find, since there are about a million of us for every dominant woman.
twister947
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Only a million?
DreamingOfMyEx
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It was a rough estimate.
You know how some women are ... "You're not a real submissive unless you meet my definition of what a submissive is."
So ... your mileage may vary.
cookiecat
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haha! You know how some guys are! I'm a submissive man because it's all about meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
I was thinking about this sub guy thing. I'm a submissive woman but every so often I think about getting my top on.
I totally totally TOTALLY get there are all flavors of submissive men. And I think (I'm not 100% sure) that this thread was a bit tongue in cheek. All this being said, do you guys who responded here think you're pathetic, worthless and wimpy?
I like the thought of a pretty confident guy getting his service jones on with me. Sure, sure, I also like the idea of reducing him to a slobbery mess, crawling around begging to cum. But that's later in the game - not before.
There's a current thread here from a woman who says she's strong and confident in her day to day life but wants to absolve herself of decisions, be taken, so to speak.
Is that how you guys feel? You're not really worthless and wimpy, you're a functioning, confident person day to day but want to give that up at home? Or, is there an element of feeling pathetic and not worthy in your day to day life and submitting puts you in that headspace?
(Side note: My submission involves a lot of humiliation dealing with the idea I'm not worthy of orgasms, facing things that make me feel ashamed and turned on. So I think I have an idea of that worthless feeling)
HA!!! I feel this way about submissive women. They’re only submissive if the man meets their definition of a Dom and surprise surprise they are in fact quite dom
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sweettalk4u
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Eleanor Rosie Velvet? Nice to meet you
Bramblethorn
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+10 for historical lesbian pun.
It must be, they all start off sounding good and sub and then they dig their heels in and their would be stubbornness/bratty attitude is thinly veiled dom tendencies.Really?
Seems like your submissive picker is off.
twister947
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I am not pathetic, worthless, or wimpy; I simply prefer to let others be in charge. I only take charge if things are really going south. This obviously is not strictly a sexual thing.
sub2femdom
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I recall that thread you speak of. I totally got where she was coming from.
Yea, I'm a submissive man, but it's nothing to do with 'worthless, weak, etc..'.. It's simply that I've had to take charge my whole life.. Not just in the workplace, but since around the age of 18, I've managed to snag, every time without fail, a girl who didn't drive, didn't work, didn't cook, didn't clean, and ultimately only one of them ever came close to making up for it in the bedroom.
So over the years, after being married to the same (she worked when I married her, but quit right after).. I realized that every aspect of my life required me to take charge, be the man, blah blah blah.
The one girl who I mentioned made up for it in the bedroom, well she once convinced me to dress up in her lingerie, she put makeup and a wig on me, fully decked me out, because she wanted to roleplay her lesbian fantasy. I played along, and loved it. We did that a few more times before the relationship failed (she didn't work).
So fast forward to today.. I'm 'successful' at least by the standards I set for my life, and I finally after a long uphill battle, got my wife to get her drivers license and a job. It hasn't been pretty but it works.
My job is stressful. I make very large decisions almost daily, including negotiating and signing binding contracts with vendors and distributors. It's not a bad job, I actually like what I do, but it can be demanding.
So when I get home, I don't want to have to take charge in the bedroom.. I've done that my whole life, and frankly, when a woman just plays submissive, and puts the man in charge, guess who is to blame when anything goes wrong? And things do go wrong.. Decide to change-up positions at the wrong time, misread hard fucking instead of soft and slow.. and honestly, the signals are often mixed and difficult to read on the better nights.
So I started dressing up, and found that I still loved it. I don't always, and even had a fling not long ago as a submissive male, period. No crossdressing, no wimpy roleplay, just do as she says and serve her. That I can do. No decisions have to be made on my part, I just let go and followed her commands. It was bliss for me. I've also played the cuckold, and crossdressing sissy. I do get off on some humiliation, but it's very specific and not related to the wimpy stuff, more the feminine desires and stuff.
So maybe this will help you understand a little more about me, although I honestly don't think I'm typical of a sub male on any level and dislike most of the stereotypes.
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This is good to know! Thanks for replying.
cookiecat
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None of are probably typical anything. It's interesting how our kinkiness started, how we manifest those desires, how we compromise and communicate.
Thanks for sharing.
midlifecrisispanties
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I can become either, quickly, as the situation calls... Or, as ordered.
haha! You know how some guys are! I'm a submissive man because it's all about meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
I was thinking about this sub guy thing. I'm a submissive woman but every so often I think about getting my top on.
I totally totally TOTALLY get there are all flavors of submissive men. And I think (I'm not 100% sure) that this thread was a bit tongue in cheek. All this being said, do you guys who responded here think you're pathetic, worthless and wimpy?
I like the thought of a pretty confident guy getting his service jones on with me. Sure, sure, I also like the idea of reducing him to a slobbery mess, crawling around begging to cum. But that's later in the game - not before.
There's a current thread here from a woman who says she's strong and confident in her day to day life but wants to absolve herself of decisions, be taken, so to speak.
Is that how you guys feel? You're not really worthless and wimpy, you're a functioning, confident person day to day but want to give that up at home? Or, is there an element of feeling pathetic and not worthy in your day to day life and submitting puts you in that headspace?
(Side note: My submission involves a lot of humiliation dealing with the idea I'm not worthy of orgasms, facing things that make me feel ashamed and turned on. So I think I have an idea of that worthless feeling)
I'm a functioning, confident person by day. I want to get my wife to take the lead in the bedroom or wherever she decides to play. I don't feel pathetic or worthless. Submitting is a comforting release for me.
