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Many men love women to be sluts, like to watch them with other men or women. I been already thru this being my own fault. Does a married man or fiance really like to see this behavior in there wives or girlfriends? Curiosity struck me on this one.
 
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Many men love women to be sluts, like to watch them with other men or women. I been already thru this being my own fault. Does a married man or fiance really like to see this behavior in there wives or girlfriends? Curiosity struck me on this one.
I am only one little old lady. But my answer for my man and male friends is YES!
Our user name speaks for us. If you really love someone all things are possible.
 
Hi

Long gone are the days you love each other for who they are and not what you want them to be
 
Many men love women to be sluts, like to watch them with other men or women. I been already thru this being my own fault. Does a married man or fiance really like to see this behavior in there wives or girlfriends? Curiosity struck me on this one.

I don't know if I'd call it to be more of a slut than with me, but if it's something I can't provide or sant to do, I can encourage her to be with other men.
 
Many men love women to be sluts, like to watch them with other men or women. I been already thru this being my own fault. Does a married man or fiance really like to see this behavior in there wives or girlfriends? Curiosity struck me on this one.

Yes. When I was married and towards the end of our marriage before it was out in the open we were having problems she started to mess with woman which I enjoyed watching and sort of partaking. She has given me blowjobs and handjobs in the car while someone is in the car and many times when they are not. She has taken it in the ass. She has fucked a Corona bottle. The list just goes on. I didn't marry her for love; I married her for her BJ's were awesome.
 
Many men love women to be sluts, like to watch them with other men or women. I been already thru this being my own fault. Does a married man or fiance really like to see this behavior in there wives or girlfriends? Curiosity struck me on this one.

Absolutely, love watching her tease and flirt with other guys, seeing the look of desire and lust on their faces knowing they want her but more so seeing it in hers. I love seeing the confidence that comes out in her knowing she's desired by others and the look she gets when she's horny and in need of fulfillment. Been lucky enough to watch her give a few bjs but not yet take another man inside her which we both are hoping will change in the near future. Loved seeing her before, and every now and again, with other women. she's not shy to make out with a friend or stranger we might meet while out but it's been a while since she's brought another woman home to have fun with. I could easily just enjoy watching the two of them but been lucky enough to partake in the activities as well.
 
Wouldn't bother me in the least if my s/o sucked a different cock once in awhile.
If the opportunity arose and she felt safe,I'd be ok if she went for it. And she'd obviously have to tell me about it beforehand. And then fill me in on the details when she came home.

But only sucking. No fucking.
 
Wouldn't bother me in the least if my s/o sucked a different cock once in awhile.
If the opportunity arose and she felt safe,I'd be ok if she went for it. And she'd obviously have to tell me about it beforehand. And then fill me in on the details when she came home.

But only sucking. No fucking.

I set up a gang-bang with my GF at the time. The deal was she sucked me the entire time and they could only fuck her in the ass. She loved it!
 
Denny

Swapping or just either partner sharing with another can be dangerous. So many things can and do go wrong. We've seen couples married for years and wife swapping for years divorce and often remarry the swapped partner.
It's all a dangerous game of chance.
Somehow my wife chose me and she had already been trained to be a play toy. No intercourse, anal or oral. Just a play toy like one of those rubber dolls.
After many long years of trickery, begging, and even setting up partners something snapped and I created an old female nympho. Thanks to her mom and sister being nymphos many years ago.

We both encourage others to just try some of the things they dream up. Yet I'd never actually recommend it to a friend in case something backfires.
 
My personal experience has been that the men who want women to be sluts want that because then they feel free to not be nice to those women. :( But people are so varied, I doubt that's true of everyone.
 
I can see the draw of wanting hat one can't have... On the other hand, though, I for one would not want the proverbial village bike, & may 1 of few straight guys not guaranteed to have the same reaction every time I see 2 women together.
 
Many men love women to be sluts, like to watch them with other men or women. I been already thru this being my own fault. Does a married man or fiance really like to see this behavior in there wives or girlfriends? Curiosity struck me on this one.

Wif ean I have discussed it before... And we get hot over the idea of sharing ourselves with others..however, we still have yet to take the plunge,. The thought is hot as hell, the reality gets a bit scary.... But it's not like we haven't dismissed it.
 
Wif ean I have discussed it before... And we get hot over the idea of sharing ourselves with others..however, we still have yet to take the plunge,. The thought is hot as hell, the reality gets a bit scary.... But it's not like we haven't dismissed it.

Not sure I see a draw... Much as I have read-about/viewed it, seems to me odd-quantities have someone getting less if not totally left out, & even ones have everyone too busy with others to watch spouse or sig-other with whoever they're with.
 
I set up a gang-bang with my GF at the time. The deal was she sucked me the entire time and they could only fuck her in the ass. She loved it!

That's probably something I would never do.

The craziest thing I might do is let my s/o visit a glory hole.

Btw,how many cocks did your GF take up the ass?
 
Many men love women to be sluts, like to watch them with other men or women. I been already thru this being my own fault. Does a married man or fiance really like to see this behavior in there wives or girlfriends? Curiosity struck me on this one.

I think a vast majority have thought about it, even fantasized about it. I'm sure very few would actually want it to happen. For me I've fantasized about it for years. My wife is having a sexual affair with another man with my full knowledge and approval. It turns me on to no end. I'm more than ready to watch my wife get fucked!
 
I think that you're going to get a different answer depending on who (and where) you ask. As for me, I want my wife to embrace and love her sexuality. We share common values, one of which is that we believe that the marriage bed is reserved for only the two of us. That pretty much means that we get to embrace and love sex together, with just the two of us, because it's what we both want. I have never once fantasized about her with another man.

Some people find that limiting. We find it liberating. To each their own, I guess. I accept her for who she is and nurture our love relationship together. This enables her to be vulnerable to me, which is (in my experience) incredibly erotic and more electrifying than watching her with another person could ever be. It goes so much deeper than the physical act of sex.

Anyway, I think on F&S in particular you will find mostly people who are 'pro'. Maybe on HT you'll find more nays. Either way, if you are looking for validation of your own personal feelings, values, and sexuality then I suggest you embrace who you are first and foremost but also consider the kind of people that you want to share yourself with. If it's random strangers, then a mate who wants to share you with random strangers is probably your speed. That's not my thing, and I think that there are certain unacceptable risks that go along with it, but that's just me.
 
Many men love women to be sluts, like to watch them with other men or women. I been already thru this being my own fault. Does a married man or fiance really like to see this behavior in there wives or girlfriends? Curiosity struck me on this one.

It's a taste that us not for everybody
 
Many men love women to be sluts, like to watch them with other men or women. I been already thru this being my own fault. Does a married man or fiance really like to see this behavior in there wives or girlfriends? Curiosity struck me on this one.
I don't. I'm not COMPLETELY against polygamy, but I would take lots of convincing to let my wife sleep with another man. As for sleeping with women, I can allow it a bit more easily, because after all that's an experience I cannot provide to her myself, so if she has those urges - I would consider letting her, provided I know her girlfriend.
 
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