Male subs poorly advertised

nubian717

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Because we live in a society that completely exploits women as objects all to often we see so many disguises of men dominanting the woman. Well, I know for a fact there are plenty of men who wish to be controlled and dominated, but even some of the best BDSM websites often show and depict the lifestyle as humorous. You see vivid images of the woman stomping on the man, when dominance and control is much more than actual pain. I mean eventually, if pain is all he gets he will get use to it and become bored. Proper dominance is training and developing the male sub emotionally and mentally. It is about trust and growing with one another. Pain is simply one of those ways. Even if you do it for fun.

Some men view femdoms as simply a scorned woman. When promoted properly he will see that a femdom is intelligent, delightful, and mysterious, because her very presence is eye catching- he will know when looking at her that she clearly knows herself and is in complete control. And of course there is punishment for misbehavior and mistakes, that comes with being a submissive, however, it is done for safety, correction, and growth and never out of anger. Any Mistress who punishes her sub for kicks only or outright anger needs to take some time to self reflect on why she is a Mistress.

Being a Mistress takes a lot of work. I find great compassion and respect to all those submissives. I also feel sadden by those subs who are treated like a mere object- believe me, if your Mistress sees you only as a object you should question why you are submitting.

Male submissives...your are lovely as you are...on the floor, kissing and licking my boots, and knowing that this Mistress wishes nothing but the best from you. Your servitude, trust, loyalty, and devotion.

Hope you enjoyed reading. Comments on this post is welcome. Salut
 
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Thank You, ...and welcome. Truly a wonderful first posting if ever there was one!
 
haha, curse you alt for stealing my comment again.
 
Aeroil said:
haha, curse you alt for stealing my comment again.

I'm cursing at you for making the response to Alt's quicker response to the response of poor male submission advertising and commentary.
 
Xelebes said:
I'm cursing at you for making the response to Alt's quicker response to the response of poor male submission advertising and commentary.
....indeed.....
*ahem* we should not be hijacking this thread, despite how good the two of us are at it.
 
nubian717 said:
there are plenty of men who wish to be controlled and dominated, but even some of the best BDSM websites often show and depict the lifestyle as humorous. You see vivid images of the woman stomping on the man, when dominance and control is much more than actual pain.

Yep, porn sites cater to male tastes - which often aren't very refined. Guys feel submissive but they don't understand their submission or how to relate to a domina. And the porn sites simply reinforce their ignorance.

Its very sad. But I am glad you joined us! :)
 
Your writing is very beautiful and very apt. I agree completely.

Thank you for sharing and welcome :)
 
nubian717 said:
It is about trust and growing with one another.

Any Mistress who punishes her sub for kicks only or outright anger needs to take some time to self reflect on why she is a Mistress.

Being a Mistress takes a lot of work. I find great compassion and respect to all those submissives. I also feel sadden by those subs who are treated like a mere object- believe me, if your Mistress sees you only as a object you should question why you are submitting.

...this Mistress wishes nothing but the best from you. Your servitude, trust, loyalty, and devotion.

Hope you don't mind, but I cut and pasted my favorite parts of your post. I'm a female submissive looking for a male Dom, rather the opposite orientation of femdom/malesub, and yet I can really enjoy your post and apply it to my own thoughts on what I want in a Dominant/submissive relationship. Welcome to the BDSM board, and what a wonderful first posting that was. :rose:
 
nubian717 said:
Male submissives...your are lovely as you are...on the floor, kissing and licking my boots, and knowing that this Mistress wishes nothing but the best from you. Your servitude, trust, loyalty, and devotion.

Hope you enjoyed reading. Comments on this post is welcome. Salut

Welcome Numbian717,

What a thoughtful post and so very true.

Though I like to picture my sweet Nat spread eagle, blindfolded, and decorated as I please... ;)

* daydreams about her sweet sub *

Riiight...where was I?...Ah yes, agreeing with you. :rose:

Ruby
 
nubian717 said:
Some men view femdoms as simply a scorned woman. When promoted properly he will see that a femdom is intelligent, delightful, and mysterious, because her very presence is eye catching.

Great first post, a completely inexperienced person here, but would just voice my thoughts. I think what I find interesting in the D/s relationship focus is the assertiveness/aggresiveness of a dominant female. She's smart and confident, aware of what she wants and isn't afraid to say so. just my naive views :p
 
Rubyb said:
Welcome Numbian717,

What a thoughtful post and so very true.

Though I like to picture my sweet Nat spread eagle, blindfolded, and decorated as I please... ;)

* daydreams about her sweet sub *

Riiight...where was I?...Ah yes, agreeing with you. :rose:

Ruby
*wonders where the hot Domme came from*
 
We should probably just thank our lucky stars for another One, Aeroil. Nice to meet you Nubian717. Awesome post. I think maybe almost all of our malesubs have checked in now. (We're missing dragon and ghost?)
 
bronntanas said:
We should probably just thank our lucky stars for another One, Aeroil. Nice to meet you Nubian717. Awesome post. I think maybe almost all of our malesubs have checked in now. (We're missing dragon and ghost?)

And Timberwolf too, but I think he is occupied right now.
 
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