Male sub roleplay

[College_geek]

I'm interested in doing a roleplay with my boyfriend where he's the sub and I'm the dom. This past weekend we did one where I was the sub, dressed as a maid, and he was the dom. Now my question is, are there any things that a male can dress up as for a sub roleplay? I was discussing it with him and all we could think of was him crossdressing (which he is willing to do, and I don't think I'd mind at all), but I was wondering if there was something a little less intense for a first time. Thanks!

 

[thickspear]

kend

 

[College_geek]

Thanks for the reply, thickspear. I like that idea, especially since some day I want to get a strap-on to use on him, so watching him perform oral on the dildo would be really nice (and such a turn on ).

 

[Zergplex]

Zergplex Says

Damnit Thickspear did you have to say that! I just got hard thinking about it you mean, horrible person.....

Just kidding, love the reply and the idea. I can't wait for when CG decides she's ready to use a strapon on me.... *blushes and shudders*. We already have the crossdressing idea down, mainly the question was what other outfits would work for a sub male other then crossdressing.

-Zergplex

 

[Netzach]

I like under the clothes stuff for the newbie guy. Like go out to dinner with lacy or frilly and silly panties under his suit or jeans, or even better pantyhose, should put him in the mood.

What turns you on visually? What do you like to see him in, what ideas do you generally get into? Whether it's a lab coat, leather shorts that lock into place, or John-Malkovich-in-Dangerous-Liaisons 1753 underwear...it's out there.

There's endless leather latex costuming and stuff to help you realize that single issue....what do I want?

 

[wolf2002]

A kitchen apron with nothing under it. I wonder if they sell aprons with the words 'I am a slut' printed...

 

[Kajira Callista]

A kitchen apron with nothing under it. I wonder if they sell aprons with the words 'I am a slut' printed...

they sell ones that say kiss the cook with an arrow pointing down

 

[ghosst_K&H]

Butler, suit and tie, or tux
Chauffer, suit, tie, and cap
Slave, nothing

 

[MercyMia]

how about a male chastity belt?

 

[College_geek]

Butler, suit and tie, or tux
Chauffer, suit, tie, and cap

I like those ideas. It would be fun to see him in a suit.

 

[Zergplex]

Zergplex Says

Slave, nothing

Well thats what I most often wear around here anyway. ^_^ and it wouldn't be much of a roleplay, not much of a deviation from my normal way of thought. I liked the Butler idea though...

-Zergplex

 

[asyouwish2]

Suggestions

asyouwish2

 

[ghosst_K&H]

i dont know your living arrangements, but i am a live in sub, and my Mistress's love when i cook wearing a long t shirt that barely covers my ass, and nothing else.

Perhaps you can cook her dinner, wait on her hand and foot, and after she eats give her a bubble bath, followed by a nice sensual massage. Of course you have to stand by to pour the wine, and wait on her, without sitting down and eating yourself.

Good luck with your relationship

 

[MissTaken]

Male sub: Naked with only a collar and/or belt on.

Female Dominant: Whatever she likes to wear. Sometimes, I shoot for hot and heels and other times prefer the comfort of sweat pants and t shirt.


(Hardly romantic, but in my house for the submissive, less is more!)

 

[College_geek]

i dont know your living arrangements, but i am a live in sub, and my Mistress's love when i cook wearing a long t shirt that barely covers my ass, and nothing else.

Perhaps you can cook her dinner, wait on her hand and foot, and after she eats give her a bubble bath, followed by a nice sensual massage. Of course you have to stand by to pour the wine, and wait on her, without sitting down and eating yourself.

Good luck with your relationship

Hee hee hee, I like that one.

We don't live together, as I'm at school and he's back in my hometown, but occassionally he comes up to visit me. There really isn't a way to cook in the hotel room, but the serving me my food and them giving me a bubble bath...hmmm....a sponge bath would be pretty erotic...

 

[SweetDommes]

I find myself agreeing with most of the other posters - what ever you are comfortable with and YOU want him to wear. You are the one in charge of this, so it's whatever you find him attractive in. We do happen to love the t-shirt thing. We also like jeans that fit perfectly, a towel wrapped around the boy's waist, and nothing but his collar, among other things.

As for things being how you normally are (with regards to Zergplex's post) it's not really about what you or he wears, it's the attitude when you tell him what to dress you in and what he is allowed to put on, as well as what goes on while you are in your roles.

Miss Karen

 

[dragonlace]

You could always have him get the room and call him about half an hour before you are to get there and have him wait on knees, naked, and blindfolded for your arrival......also having him leave the door unlocked or ajar.......its simple but leaves alot to the imagination and when you get there he won't really get to see you until you take off the blindfold so with the door ajar he might get the feeling like it could be anyone.

 

[paperdolly]

What about a savage Queen of the Amazon barbarian fantasy, fur pelts and loincloth style, or if you fancy being fed peeled grapes and fanned with a palm frond in the ancient Greek tradition - what is poking out from under that toga?

 

[sweetnpetite]

Just a thought:

Rather than having him dress 'submissive' have him dress 'dominant.' The whole point here being that you turn the tables or take away his power.

He could be anything- an executive, a cowboy a police officer, a college guy at hooters. Then you show up- "oh, you think your a tough guy huh? guess what- your nothin' but my bitch" (or whatever your fantasy might be.)

If your into humiliation, it might be *more* humiliating to have him start as the mocho guy.

Have fun!

 

[Miss LB's Bitch]

Some great ideas in this thread, i'll have to pass them along to Mistress.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=231620

Just a thought:

Rather than having him dress 'submissive' have him dress 'dominant.' The whole point here being that you turn the tables or take away his power.

He could be anything- an executive, a cowboy a police officer, a college guy at hooters. Then you show up- "oh, you think your a tough guy huh? guess what- your nothin' but my bitch" (or whatever your fantasy might be.)

If your into humiliation, it might be *more* humiliating to have him start as the mocho guy.

Have fun!

 

[Dane69]

male sub

Hope you don't mind a male switch butting in
The idea is to make it as intense as YOU wish. Find out his true limits, then test them. The CDing thing does work very well if you do it right.
Like the others said take him shopping [ if your shy go out of town to a flea market] Hold up panties to his body to see if they would fit, or a bra, stockings etc. Another idea is go to an adult TOY store, even if you don't purchase anything, You can openly ask him to pick out a dildo, or you pick one for him. Maybe some nipple toys.
Your mode of Dress should be as sexy as YOU like, but also something he likes to see you in. Why? He can look, get excited but not touch !! Never be at your eye level. Always have him looking UP at you.
Before you dress him and put make up on him Have him shave his cock and balls. Tell how small he looks, or young or what ever your fetish is at th time.
Verbale abuse really opens up a whole new world. Tell him if he does not preform well you will have Pierced. Nipples cock etc.
Even if you don't the threat is still in his mind.
Good luck and enjoy

 

[Miss LB's Bitch]

This is how Mistress wanted it last night.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=231620

Male sub: Naked with only a collar and/or belt on.

Female Dominant: Whatever she likes to wear. Sometimes, I shoot for hot and heels and other times prefer the comfort of sweat pants and t shirt.


(Hardly romantic, but in my house for the submissive, less is more!)