Male orgasm control and denial

[swansong1]

I have this great urge to hand control of my orgasms to a lady who’d enjoy the idea of it and get pleasure from the frustration she’d cause me. The thought that I couldn’t cum unless given permission to, is a burning desire in me. Surely there are women out there who’d derive a great deal of enjoyment from it?

 

[Wonderer67]

My wife uses orgasm control on me, and it’s fantastic! Essentially, she gets as much pleasure as possible, while my orgasm is denied.

Sometime she teases me and gives me a long edging hand jobs, but doesn’t let me come. It’s so frustrating. She has me fuck get 3 to 4 times a week, but I’m not allowed to cum. It turns me on so much to see her orgasm, yet I cannot.

We used to use a Chasity device, but it really hurt my balls, so now we just use orgasm control. I’m having much more sex than when I was in Chasity, but I must admit I liked it better when I was locked up and owned. Psychology, that was more intense.

I am not complaining however!

 

[swansong1]

Oh, lucky you! How does she prevent you cumming? Just being ordered to control myself would excite me, making it harder to do. But I’d manage it, if ordered to.

 

[Wonderer67]

It takes me a while to cum so that works in my favor. Today for example, she wanted to frustrate me.

We’ve been at orgasm control for a few years so she knows how I work, what turns me on, what frustrates me, etc.

She began with a lot of light touching, getting me very hard for like 30 minutes. Then she gradually increased the speed and started stroking me. She got some lube out and started slowly stroking me. She masturbates me so slowly I knew I’d never even cum.

Then she gradually speeded up and changed up the speed, grip and stroke to get me to the edge. When I get close I let her know. Communication is critical. Then she starts up again when the feeling passes or I get a little softer. Then she Ramps up again till I get close. I let her know I’m close. Sometimes she plays with it getting me dangerously close to cumming. It was a long edging session. I was begging her to cum. She always sez “no”, “no cunning for you” or something else sexy.

Sometimes, I’ve even cried I wanted to cum so bad.

Then she will stop. “We have a lot to do today. Maybe you’ll cum later… maybe not.”

She let me cum about a week ago. Sometimes I’ve gone 6 weeks without cumming. Usually it’s 2-4 weeks. It’s her choice and I love it. I love her for it…

And to be fair, sometimes she goes too far and my orgasm is ruined or I mistakenly have a full orgasm. She punishes me in a sexy and provocative way - usually by go sing me more time between orgasms.

She likes to get fucked too and has good orgasms that way, so we do the same when having intercourse, I’ll try to bring her pleasure and back off when I get closer. Then resume, rinse and repeat. We’ve had intercourse for as long as 40-50 minutes this at w/o me cumming. It’s hot. And frustrating.

 

[trevorness]

I have been thinking about this lately and the idea is also very hot to me. Being denied. Focused on her pleasure.

 

[Goldenfinger]

My wife uses orgasm control on me, and it’s fantastic! Essentially, she gets as much pleasure as possible, while my orgasm is denied.

Sometime she teases me and gives me a long edging hand jobs, but doesn’t let me come. It’s so frustrating. She has me fuck get 3 to 4 times a week, but I’m not allowed to cum. It turns me on so much to see her orgasm, yet I cannot.

We used to use a Chasity device, but it really hurt my balls, so now we just use orgasm control. I’m having much more sex than when I was in Chasity, but I must admit I liked it better when I was locked up and owned. Psychology, that was more intense.

I am not complaining however!

I have given this control to my wife. We use a chastity cage, but not for denial but control. She derives great pleasure from it. Every erection I get is for her by her. It is a gift I willingly gave my wife and would not change a thing. Now she’s alway has control and they were always FOR her. the act of physical control is erotic.

 

[swansong1]

I have given this control to my wife. We use a chastity cage, but not for denial but control. She derives great pleasure from it. Every erection I get is for her by her. It is a gift I willingly gave my wife and would not change a thing. Now she’s alway had control and they were always FOR her but the act of physical control is erotic.

You are a very lucky man!

 

[twister947]

Tease and denial seems like a natural compliment to cuckolding.

 

[swansong1]

It takes me a while to cum so that works in my favor. Today for example, she wanted to frustrate me.

We’ve been at orgasm control for a few years so she knows how I work, what turns me on, what frustrates me, etc.

She began with a lot of light touching, getting me very hard for like 30 minutes. Then she gradually increased the speed and started stroking me. She got some lube out and started slowly stroking me. She masturbates me so slowly I knew I’d never even cum.

Then she gradually speeded up and changed up the speed, grip and stroke to get me to the edge. When I get close I let her know. Communication is critical. Then she starts up again when the feeling passes or I get a little softer. Then she Ramps up again till I get close. I let her know I’m close. Sometimes she plays with it getting me dangerously close to cumming. It was a long edging session. I was begging her to cum. She always sez “no”, “no cunning for you” or something else sexy.

Sometimes, I’ve even cried I wanted to cum so bad.

Then she will stop. “We have a lot to do today. Maybe you’ll cum later… maybe not.”

She let me cum about a week ago. Sometimes I’ve gone 6 weeks without cumming. Usually it’s 2-4 weeks. It’s her choice and I love it. I love her for it…

And to be fair, sometimes she goes too far and my orgasm is ruined or I mistakenly have a full orgasm. She punishes me in a sexy and provocative way - usually by go sing me more time between orgasms.

She likes to get fucked too and has good orgasms that way, so we do the same when having intercourse, I’ll try to bring her pleasure and back off when I get closer. Then resume, rinse and repeat. We’ve had intercourse for as long as 40-50 minutes this at w/o me cumming. It’s hot. And frustrating.

It’s the frustration that I enjoy, too! Constant yearning and need. But it us worth it. And like you, I take a long time to cum, so perfect for prolonged teasing! But I do envy you and your lovely wife!

 

[swansong1]

Any women who enjoy this?

 

[littlecordelera]

Any women who enjoy this?

I do, and I use it often for no other reason than to just enjoy showing him who owns who.

 

[swansong1]

You wonderful lady! How long do you keep him denied, and how do you do it? By stopping? Verbally? Or do you use a device? And when denied, is he allowed to penetrate you?

I’m very envious!

 

[swansong1]

For me, being subjected to orgasm denial, and having my ability to cum owned by a woman, for her to grant or deny it according to her whim, is a deep need. Hers are unquestioned, mine subject to her capriciousness. To be denied and frustrated by her is something i yearn for, even if done remotely by someone online who I don’t know, but who derives pleasure from knowing she is controlling it and causing deep frustration to me.

 

[MadisonK]

My hubby did not bring firewood home. I am denying him an orgasm until such time as i am warm. It's only fair. The other night he got me really, really, really juicy for the first time in ages and then suggested to me that no matter how close i got i wouldn't be able to cum. It was only a fucking suggestion! An open suggestion. Not even veiled in hypnotic suggestion or anything like he was actually trying to fuck with me and it worked. The fucking arsehole! I got right to the edge over and over while he got his fucking jollys twice and every fucking time i heard his words and it was like snakes and ladders. Woosh to the top then, pissh to the bottom. Did i mention fucking arsehole!
So tonight i'm going to suck his cock until he's almost there and tell him i've a weird pain in my jaw that's giving me a headache.
Bring me firewood, bitch!

 

[Wonderer67]

My hubby did not bring firewood home. I am denying him an orgasm until such time as i am warm. It's only fair. The other night he got me really, really, really juicy for the first time in ages and then suggested to me that no matter how close i got i wouldn't be able to cum. It was only a fucking suggestion! An open suggestion. Not even veiled in hypnotic suggestion or anything like he was actually trying to fuck with me and it worked. The fucking arsehole! I got right to the edge over and over while he got his fucking jollys twice and every fucking time i heard his words and it was like snakes and ladders. Woosh to the top then, pissh to the bottom. Did i mention fucking arsehole!
So tonight i'm going to suck his cock until he's almost there and tell him i've a weird pain in my jaw that's giving me a headache.
Bring me firewood, bitch!

I own a firewood “farm” and would gladly bring you firewood!

But may like being teased and denied my orgasm more!

 

[Wonderer67]

When my wife denies me for really long periods like more than 3-4 weeks she is just fucking with my entire masculinity.

It seems like it’s a man’s physical, spiritual, emotional and even biological need to cum. And she denies me for weeks at a time. I love it!!

 

[ShaneoD]

My hubby did not bring firewood home. I am denying him an orgasm until such time as i am warm. It's only fair. The other night he got me really, really, really juicy for the first time in ages and then suggested to me that no matter how close i got i wouldn't be able to cum. It was only a fucking suggestion! An open suggestion. Not even veiled in hypnotic suggestion or anything like he was actually trying to fuck with me and it worked. The fucking arsehole! I got right to the edge over and over while he got his fucking jollys twice and every fucking time i heard his words and it was like snakes and ladders. Woosh to the top then, pissh to the bottom. Did i mention fucking arsehole!
So tonight i'm going to suck his cock until he's almost there and tell him i've a weird pain in my jaw that's giving me a headache.
Bring me firewood, bitch!

I'm selling him down the river here, but be prepared for when he asks if you can use your hand instead.

 

[cubbyfire04]

I have this great urge to hand control of my orgasms to a lady who’d enjoy the idea of it and get pleasure from the frustration she’d cause me. The thought that I couldn’t cum unless given permission to, is a burning desire in me. Surely there are women out there who’d derive a great deal of enjoyment from it?

One of my wife's primary forms of domination. She's masterful at it, and her wicked smile during our sessions tells me everything I need to know about her enjoyment.

 

[mssweetangelina]

I have this great urge to hand control of my orgasms to a lady who’d enjoy the idea of it and get pleasure from the frustration she’d cause me. The thought that I couldn’t cum unless given permission to, is a burning desire in me. Surely there are women out there who’d derive a great deal of enjoyment from it?

Plenty of us out here

 

[swansong1]

Plenty of us out here

Really? If you really mean it, then I’m definitely willing!!!!

 

[swansong1]

Bump…

 

[swansong1]

Any ladies interested in controlling a man’s orgasm online? It is a desperate need in me!

 

[NancyPan]

Just a guess, but I think you’ll have better luck if you establish a relationship first. Meaningful orgasm management takes time and is best done by a Domme who knows, understands, and cares about the submissive.

 

[Bellinah]

My husband is a cuck and I decide when he cums. He says he only wants to reach orgasm when I let him. He can somtimes go multiple weeks without receiving release. I give him milking sessions when I don’t feel like sex and ruin his orgasm with my hand.

 

[Goldenfinger]