Male Multiple Orgasm

[Irish_Rover]

Hi there I was wondering if anyone has mastered the male multiple orgasm? I was browsing around on the internet when I came upon a site that showed how it was done. It involves controlling the actual physical ejaculation with your prostate muscle so you have a "dry orgasm," ie an orgasm without semen, which apperantly enables you to have multiple orgasms in the same session by controlling the ejaculate. I tried strengthening my muscle but to no avail. Has anyone ever actually succeeded or am i just deluding myself?

 

[Richard49]

Hi there I was wondering if anyone has mastered the male multiple orgasm? I was browsing around on the internet when I came upon a site that showed how it was done. It involves controlling the actual physical ejaculation with your prostate muscle so you have a "dry orgasm," ie an orgasm without semen, which apperantly enables you to have multiple orgasms in the same session by controlling the ejaculate. I tried strengthening my muscle but to no avail. Has anyone ever actually succeeded or am i just deluding myself?

I have never heard it called a dry orgasm......but I do it
Through tantric I learned that there is a difference between ejaculation and orgasm.........

I love it!!!!!

Richard

 

[Irish_Rover]

Richard

I have only a basic knowledge of tantric sex, care to elaborate?

 

[Monazwx]

Interesting

Please post a link to the site. I'd never heard it called a 'dry' orgasm before myself. My b/f and I would love to read more about it.

 

[Irish_Rover]

Mona

Ill have to look around for it but ill do my best.

 

[Richard49]

Re: Richard

I have only a basic knowledge of tantric sex, care to elaborate?

There is White,red and balck tantric.....I think that is all <smile>
White deals with love
red with sex

Many years ago I was some what involved with the American Seeks movment....just on the fringes of it.....

I took a number of workshops (not sure if that is the right word)
where we were taken by a "guru" through exercises/training in both

There are some good books out there but for the life of me I can not think of the names of any of them
(if anyone finds my brain...please send it home)

However if it were me ..... I would find a teacher and take some training

Richard

 

[Irish_Rover]

Molly

Couldnt for the life of me find the original site but ill keep looking. These are some sites which describe similiar processes, none are as detailed as the original though


http://www.sexuality.org/l/tantra/mmo.html
http://www.sextutor.com/prolongingsex.shtml (minus the drugs)
http://sextutorials.com/print.php?sid=13


POP GOES THE CHERRY!!! (can afford to wear shades now lol!!)

 

[huskie]

could you give us guys some quick helpful hints? Like maybe some kind of exercise we could do anytime???

 

[Irish_Rover]

i excercise my pc muscle daily, it can be done every day no matter where you are, ive found that it has led to more intense orgasms and longer lasting sex, still havent reached the holy grail yet but ill get there eventually.

The pc muscle is the one that controls the flow of urine out of the penis. it also makes the penis twitch when it is excercised. with practice it makes your erections stronger and orgasms more intense. proper use of the pc muscle can also stop you from "jumping the gun" as it were. i excercise the muscles daily, adopting a traditional excercise technique from the gym. i started off with 3 sets of ten reps, where i tense the pc muscle for 10 seconds then release. gradually increase the number of reps and the time as it becomes easier, as your body becomes used to the excercise and your pc muscle strengthens. youll begin to notice a difference after about a week, if not just increase the amount of excercise

 

[Monazwx]

Thanks for the links!!!

Thanks for the links, from me and my b/f. He is quite interested in exploring this further and I'm not gonna talk him out of it!!! (Big Grin)

 

[Irish_Rover]

I hope they are some use Mona, im big into "self improvement" wink wink, so if i see anything of interest ill post it here.

 

[dickE]

Might lead to trouble later

At 55, I now have problems getting off at all and I wonder if it might be from the fact that I was always able to postpone the first urge and sometimes a second hard urge so that I could go as long as my partner might want me....usually until she complained of being sore.

I could clamp off the first spurt, quickly switch my mind to something non-sexual for a few seconds...resume and not be 'bothered' with stopping further urges until I was ready to cum....which I did do OK up untill 4-5 years ago.

Now, however most of the time, at 55, if I don't cum quick....I don't cum at all. (Viagra keeps me hard but won't help me cum) Besides being less than enjoyable to me obviously, it's caused my now X wife (who wasn't any less attractive at all--I was always hard for her) to accuse me of not being turned on by her anymore 'cause I never came. 2+2= ? Go figure! {Shoulda been a hair-trigger and enjoyed it myself all these past 23 years }

 

[Irish_Rover]

hmm be a hair trigger while you can i suppose thats one way of looking at it lol!!!

 

[huskie]

i excercise my pc muscle daily, it can be done every day no matter where you are, ive found that it has led to more intense orgasms and longer lasting sex, still havent reached the holy grail yet but ill get there eventually.

The pc muscle is the one that controls the flow of urine out of the penis. it also makes the penis twitch when it is excercised. with practice it makes your erections stronger and orgasms more intense. proper use of the pc muscle can also stop you from "jumping the gun" as it were. i excercise the muscles daily, adopting a traditional excercise technique from the gym. i started off with 3 sets of ten reps, where i tense the pc muscle for 10 seconds then release. gradually increase the number of reps and the time as it becomes easier, as your body becomes used to the excercise and your pc muscle strengthens. youll begin to notice a difference after about a week, if not just increase the amount of excercise

I'm trying it. 10 sec. is harder than I thought???....... 3 sec is all i can manage, at a rep so to speek.

 

[Monazwx]

Thanks Irish Rover . . .

Will keep an eye out.

 

[coolr]

when just starting off on PC muscle exercises, they can be very hard, but instead of starting off with 10 second ones, here's the routine i adapted, and just do as many as you can of each set,
1st, you do you 20 reps of holding it for 2 seonds then relaxing for one, then after you're done with those, tighten it and hold it for 15 seconds, relax for 5, do 3 sets like that, then the long haul, the last one, tighten it and hold for 60 seconds, or as long as you can, u'll eventually work
up to that, but you need to do it EVERY day

 

[NoRegrets]

Originally posted by YabYumFun
You might wish to try Doug Abrams and Mantak Chia's book "The Multi-Orgasmic Man".

Good luck.
Y.

I have been looking around trying to learn more
about this as well. The above book was suggested
but I have not seen it yet. Can anyone recommend
this book or another? I would be very interested in
others thoughts and experiences.

Here are a few more links to check out:

http://www.tantra-sex.com/tantramag/index.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/sacredsex.html
http://www.cygnus.uwa.edu.au/~gaianet/wluc/kali+.html
http://www.sexuality.org/seasex4.html

I have yet to see any specific way to learn the
technique of approaching ejaculation and
distinguishing a separate orgasm and stopping.
People do this several times, days, weeks, …
Can any harm come from this? I was especially
concerned about blue balls (testicular vaso-congestion)
I don’t think it’s dangerous but it happened to me
and it’s not fun.

So I wonder:
Are there any precautions or warnings?
Where do we start?


.

 

[Irish_Rover]

hey huskie,
just keep at it, each person is different, find what you are comfortable doing and just build on it from there, it gets easier as you practise, dont let it get too easy tho, or else you wont excercise the pc muscle enough

 

[Irish_Rover]

thats an interesting point Noregrets, i wonder if there are any health issues involved, does anyone out there know of any, or had any bad experiences??

 

[windycityman]

mastered the male org.....omg has that ever been done....i dont thing so....so keep trying ladies....



WCM

 

[Romanticstone]

Different types of multiples:

There are different types of multiple orgasms:

Serial: build-up....climax....denoumont, build-up....climax...denoumont, etc. Kind of like reading a collection of short stories, each with it's own begining and ending, even though each story may be more exciting than the last.

Wave: overall sensation of orgasm doesn't cease, but rather builds, plateaues, then continues to build,...and so on until a final massive peak (or until someone passes out or just can't take any more), kind of like ocean waves building on each other....perhapse mounting to a massive breaker before reaching shore.

From what I've read, male multiple orgasms are generally of the 'serial' type, and I have experienced these sort of orgasms using the previously mentioned tantric techniques.

Though I have read of some men experiencing 'wave' type orgasms from similar practice, I have never had this happen myself.

I have, however, experienced 'wave' type multiples through other means:

1. Through non-genital stimulation...included in another thread.

2. Through a specific type of penile stimmulation,
which I will try to explain...

I had a g/f many years ago who introduced me to the wonders of what I'll call 'total-glans' stimmulation. Using the palm of her hand, and with gentle pressure, she began rubbing in circles on the head of my penis - with a little saliva on the palm for lubrication. [Picture the head of your penis like a giant clit, and the palm of your lover's hand like a giant fingertip]
She continued varying the speed and force, until finding the right combination to make me SCREAM in orgasmic delight.
She didn't stop with my screaming, and persisted with this stimmulation, until the sensation became so INTENSE that I began writhing around uncontrollably, and finally jerked away from her. The orgasmic sensation continued for a few seconds even then, and as I began to catch my breath, I was laughing. (If you ever have a laughing orgasm, you'll never forget it)

Since then, I've shown other women how to do this, though I've never been able match the heights of this sensation by masturbating (the sensations always become too intense for me to continue).
I've never actually ejaculated during one of these type sessions either, though these orgasms are probably the MOST intense of any I've ever had.

 

[lawaris]

tried it ....continuously the max. is 4 and then the last one jus' gives out feelings nothing much more ..........

the second one is the best !

 

[SlyFox]

Multiple Orgasms

I learned this technique many years ago in my first marriage. My wife simply could not have an orgasm if she knew or suspected that I had cum. As a result, I taught myself to hold ejaculating but still experience an orgasm. Over time, I learned to enjoy several orgasms in quick succession, similar to what a woman can experience - sometimes with ejaculation and sometimes without.
I honestly think that that helped that marriage last for 20 years.

Unlike Dicke, I have never had any difficulties like he mentioned and I am somewhat older than he is. Nor am I aware of any helth problems that can be attributed to this technique.

SlyFox

 

[cactiphile]

Emmm. I'm not sure about dry orgasms but I am definately a
multiply primed male.

Either serially, but continuing after each cum no down time,
building up a few minutes later. Or as a chain of orgasms,
eg one right after the other with barely any time gap to
differentiate them. But either way I cum each time.
Ive come over 10 times in one hour in the first way or
6 times in about 5 minutes the second way before.
Its easier by mastubation, (either myself or partner helping)
but I can do it during sex as well.

I started this after a) doing the PC muscle exercises,
and then b) stopping as you start to cum, having a mini
orgasm eg just a squrt or two and clamping down on it.
If you practice enough you can get really good control
and find you want to cum again and again and again.

c.

 

[sweetlittleass]

Romantic stone...

Just curious... that total-glans stimulation you posted, I want to try that out, but need to know if I'm holding the penis straight up in the air and my hand just rubs the top, or is it just laying on his tummy and I rub it from there?

Any extra details you could post about how to do this, I certainly would appreciate! Actually, I think the hubby would appreciate more! lol

Waiting in anticipation to try,
Baby