adamISOeve
Loves Spam
- Joined
- Apr 27, 2022
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I hope that recognizing my mis-fitting, will help get me out of my rut. Which I would define as you discovering my ad today, and as two misfits getting together. For offering each other a chance for feeling better than merely misfitting all by themselves. After all, your and my reasons for not fitting in might be very much alike.
One possible reason: our sex drives are plain different from those of our partners. But also your curiosity and mine might exceed theirs. And our thinking could differ, since it moved away ever more from the mainstream. Now that the mainstream has departed so much from what we value.
So our “mis-fitting” can be seen as an active refusal to adapt to nowaday’s norms. What can possibly be wrong with that? I ask you. And should we discover some significant resonance between the two of us, it might even happen that we see the rest of the world as more misfitting than the two of us.
I am certain, some more thinking along those lines would do much for me, and maybe for you as well? I hope so.
Even sex with our partners, which no longer happens, or which isn’t what it used to be, can be compensated for to a large extent, when we realize, we really miss erotic intimacy most. And such a void can be cured when we develop verbal intimacy together. Who knows, loving thru emails might turn out as rewarding, or even more so, than what we experienced with our regular partners.
One more suggestion now, dear woman not fitting in. Please check my profile for how much it resonates with you. And if you discover enough resonance in it for you, message me back in private. I would love to get to know you better, then.
One possible reason: our sex drives are plain different from those of our partners. But also your curiosity and mine might exceed theirs. And our thinking could differ, since it moved away ever more from the mainstream. Now that the mainstream has departed so much from what we value.
So our “mis-fitting” can be seen as an active refusal to adapt to nowaday’s norms. What can possibly be wrong with that? I ask you. And should we discover some significant resonance between the two of us, it might even happen that we see the rest of the world as more misfitting than the two of us.
I am certain, some more thinking along those lines would do much for me, and maybe for you as well? I hope so.
Even sex with our partners, which no longer happens, or which isn’t what it used to be, can be compensated for to a large extent, when we realize, we really miss erotic intimacy most. And such a void can be cured when we develop verbal intimacy together. Who knows, loving thru emails might turn out as rewarding, or even more so, than what we experienced with our regular partners.
One more suggestion now, dear woman not fitting in. Please check my profile for how much it resonates with you. And if you discover enough resonance in it for you, message me back in private. I would love to get to know you better, then.
