Male Chastity?

[jpschust]

I thought about where this would go best, but I decided that this isn't an exclusively BDSM issue- i think it can go well beyond that.

I'm looking to hear experiences from those who have been in or put others in chastity, specifically male chastity.

It's always been something I have wanted to engage in, and I've been challenging myself with self control, but to have someone else in complete control is obviously different.

Something about having another control your most basic urges is the biggest mental turn on to me.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Taking into account that I am not a male, the last line of your post really hits home for me.

The hygiene issues that come into play with a chastity device are a total turn off for me, but the desires to have my "most basic urges controlled" is a total home run here.

I can understand your feelings about this, completely.

 

[jpschust]

well i own a cb-3000 that is still in the box, and theoretically it is easy enough to clean with it on.

 

[A Desert Rose]

well i own a cb-3000 that is still in the box, and theoretically it is easy enough to clean with it on.

I'm sure that's true for a person who only has one orifice to keep clean. ;-D


Good luck in your responses. I'm off to bed.

 

[MissTaken]

I am considering purchasing a chastity device, a cb 2002, I believe.

(Recommended by our good friend, Ebony.)

However, I particularly enjoy the use of mental bondage for chastity. His sexuality is controlled by me which includes orgasm control and needing permission to touch or in any way achieve self arousal.

Of course, when we are together.....................


I enjoy keeping him aroused.

 

[Shadowsdream]

I have been using a stainless steel chastity belt on one of My slaves for almost 5 years. One of the minuses to consider is the "instant" availability for some forms of CBT and sexual uses can no longer be instant...which can translate into "no longer in the mood" for the spontaneous use by the time the device is removed.

 

[jpschust]

I have been using a stainless steel chastity belt on one of My slaves for almost 5 years. One of the minuses to consider is the "instant" availability for some forms of CBT and sexual uses can no longer be instant...which can translate into "no longer in the mood" for the spontaneous use by the time the device is removed.

interesting- do You think that if tease and denial was added into the mix of chastity that You'd see more immediate response when released?

 

[Shadowsdream]

interesting- do You think that if tease and denial was added into the mix of chastity that You'd see more immediate response when released?

Tease and denial? That is how he endures chastity 90% of the time...constant edge training until he is screaming in frustration. Denied orgasms over and over again. No...teasing and denial have nothing to do with what I said. his responses are instant and obedient. This slave can actually orgasm IN chastity on the command to fantasize until he comes...just due to such torments.

What I was saying is that the "physical time involved in removing the device" cools off My lust on occassion. Sometimes the mood just comes over Me to whip his cock for no reason at all and the belt denies Me the instantaneous pleasure of doing so ...There are positives and negatives.

 

[MissTaken]

I have heard about leather chastity devices that are lined with tiny prickly pin heads.

So, when the victim, errr sub, begins getting aroused, he feels instant pain.

However, I have searched and haven't been able to find them on line.

I also am enticed by the leather chastity belts that strap the cock down.

Does anyone have any experience with those?

 

[Shadowsdream]

I have heard about leather chastity devices that are lined with tiny prickly pin heads.

So, when the victim, errr sub, begins getting aroused, he feels instant pain.

However, I have searched and haven't been able to find them on line.

I also am enticed by the leather chastity belts that strap the cock down.

Does anyone have any experience with those?

I have not heard of the belts with prickly pinny thingys but I do have some incredible new enslavement rings that one of My slave is manufacturing for Me. Stainless steel, with small sharp teeth that certainly have him wishing he "wouldn't get hard"

Yesterday I had him place it at the base of the cock...ok ok ok he has been wearing it all day but not nights for 4 days...back to the story....

I had him phone Me when he was able to get away from work to masterbate and had him experiment with IF he could cum or not...his report back was pleasing!

 

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[Shadowsdream]

Right about now I'm very thankful I'm not a male sub

Guess what foxy one?

This particular slave also makes a very unique nipple clamp that is not only beautiful but torturous..he custom fits them jussssst to be sure they are evily correct. No one is safe!

~~smile~~

 

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[Shadowsdream]

*shudder*

At the risk of detracting from jpschust's thread, is it your opinion that female subs are more easily contolled by psychological means than by sexual denial?

I admit I would rather bask in the attention from a Dominant than have an orgasm most days.

Yes foxy it is My opinion that female subs are more easily and happily controlled by the psychological than by the sexual denial.

I also think that it has as much to do with physiology (sp?) as psychology. Men can be taken to the edge over and over again until he is screaming in frustration...generally women just get a negative/bored reaction from over stimulation..in My opinion.

 

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[JoseIsWild]

Restraints work the best...especially when there is teasing of other parts of the body.

 

[Netzach]

I concur that sexual control is more totemic and important a thing among most males than among most females (though you will always have your outlyers on the bell curves.)

I'm a fan of teasing, denial and mental control over phsyical devices over the long term. That thing about "not instant" that Shadows said? Well, there are some things I just get impatient about. Abusing a cock is one, and accessing a cock I want, that's 2.

 

[Shadowsdream]

I concur that sexual control is more totemic and important a thing among most males than among most females (though you will always have your outlyers on the bell curves.)

I'm a fan of teasing, denial and mental control over phsyical devices over the long term. That thing about "not instant" that Shadows said? Well, there are some things I just get impatient about. Abusing a cock is one, and accessing a cock I want, that's 2.

~~grin~~ I just knew You would agree with Me!

 

[asyouwish2]

what about sleeping with it on

i'm curious about the night time effects. i can imagine being locked up and denied, but have heard it awakens you often at night when your body tries to give you an erection. i think chastity might be easier than lack of sleep
Anyone only wear one during the day?

asyouwish2

 

[Shadowsdream]

Re: what about sleeping with it on

i'm curious about the night time effects. i can imagine being locked up and denied, but have heard it awakens you often at night when your body tries to give you an erection. i think chastity might be easier than lack of sleep
Anyone only wear one during the day?

asyouwish2

Actually it probably depends upon the belt that you are wearing My slave wears the Walter Carrera belt and he is not awakened at night by the body naturally trying to allow an erection. The tube allows enough room for the erection and points down. It did not take him long to get used to the semi discomfort and sleep through it all.

On rare occassions the slave has had a wet dream which is also possible but incredibly humiliating as there is no way to stop it nor to hide it.

 

[jpschust]

fyi, decided to fit it and start wearing it the other day. sleeping is light at times, but honestly im so tired from work it doesnt matter. ill take what i can for sleep. the struggle what at work is a significant struggle at times!

 

[chatbug]

I have heard about leather chastity devices that are lined with tiny prickly pin heads.

So, when the victim, errr sub, begins getting aroused, he feels instant pain.

However, I have searched and haven't been able to find them on line.

I also am enticed by the leather chastity belts that strap the cock down.

Does anyone have any experience with those?

You can see a pin prick cock sheath here http://www.kittenstoyroom.com/xcart...cock_sheath__pinprick_penis_sheath-p-441.html
I wish they had a picture of the sheath open, and no, I don't have any experience with either.

 

[anagram4wander]

neosteel make a great belt. They have started a new modular belt system; which is what my SO has been waiting for....

I am currently locked in my CB3000 since monday, I only got back from my business trip last night, and was told that the CB3000 stays on until the weekend at least

Look at the 'serious bondage' link in my sig if you want pictures of me in the cb3000.

Neosteel can be found at: http://www.neosteel.de/Nsepmain.htm

Be carefull what you ask for....