Making the move

[OpenlyClosed]

So there are tons of threads (with great experiences) about people's first times, and there are tons of threads about people wanting first times.

What gets lost between those two is the how and the why that people finally cross from desire to reality. Why then? Why that person? Why not sooner? Later?

This has been on my mind a lot recently, especially since I think I have an opportunity to act on my fantasies finally, and yet still wonder if I will.

So tell me a bit about it, and maybe I will have my own addition soon.

 

[rm1969]

My friend and I have been close for over 20 years (since high school). He is in an unhappy marriage. The closer we got on our weekly guys night out the more we talked about sex. I knew he liked to masturbate and I knew his wife did not like to have sex or even discuss it.

I had never thought about being with another guy but one night he told me over dinner that he had watched a movie with a guy jacking off and he was turned on by it. We talked more about this over the upcoming weeks and started to discuss what else we liked to watch. I admitted to him that when I was younger I was able to suck myself off and often did that after watching porn.

That is when he told me that he had never received a blow job in his life and wanted to know what it felt like. Short of hiring a hooker he thought it would never happen. I went home and thought about it over the upcoming week and when we went out the following week I asked him to pick me up at my place. When he got there I told him I "forgot" to turn off my tv in the bedroom. He came in and I fumbled around looking for the remote while a dirty movie was playing. I looked down and his dick was so hard in his pants that I just decided to go for it.

I asked him if I could suck his cock and share the fun of getting a blow job. He didn't want to but after I reached down and stroked him through his pants he quickly gave in. The rest is history and has opened up a whole new world for both of us. And damn his cock tastes good, big and thick to fill up my mouth and his cum is wonderful.

 

[lifensf]

rm1969 That was a great story! I hope more people respond to this thread as I am in the same place as you OC. It would be great to read more stories about this.
Thanks for posting.

 

[woman_inside]

in my case i think it was a mixture of shame, shyness, etc why i didn't do it sooner. partly it was also that i wanted to be taken rather than making the moves. so for example one time a guy fondled me in public transportation - i was so aroused there's no question had he asked i would've gone with him to a hotel and done whatever he wanted.
later one time i nearly went to my uni's gay society's halloween party in drag, i chickened out. the plan was actually to get changed in drag in the locker room, had i gone thru with it i wonder if i would have gotten my first cock right there or someone would have taken me home.