Making fantasies real....

[wonderland_a89]

In the last couple of weeks, me and my boyfriend have been open and had some chats about various fantasies or things we want to do. Unfortunately these chats seem to happen during our sexy time and feel like they are just used to turn us both on at that time.

My boyfriend had brought up the idea of driving us around, me naked in the front seat and is finding somewhere to shag. And played with the idea that people could watch. We brought it up a couple of days in a row but felt I had to say it was "just a fantasy, no need to do it". I said it because I felt like he didn't really mean it and it wasn't something he wanted to do.

I mean it's fine to have fantasies and talk about all the hot things that we could do. And even though a lot of these fantasies have been shared because he has asked me what I find hot, I feel like they are just going to stay as a fantasy.

Just for context, I left my boyfriend of 15 years to be with him after we met on fab so he knew how sexual and kinky I could be. And now I feel like I'm back stuck in a vanilla (ISH) relationship and I need to try some of the naughty things in my head.

 

[joclfc]

What kind of fantasy's do you have?

 

[wonderland_a89]

I really want to be shared by 5/6 men all at once.... Like at a party where I just go around kissing, playing, fucking the guys all night

 

[joclfc]

I really want to be shared by 5/6 men all at once.... Like at a party where I just go around kissing, playing, fucking the guys all night

That's quite specific and maybe a bit much for your first experience?

 

[Nellie60]

In the last couple of weeks, me and my boyfriend have been open and had some chats about various fantasies or things we want to do. Unfortunately these chats seem to happen during our sexy time and feel like they are just used to turn us both on at that time.

My boyfriend had brought up the idea of driving us around, me naked in the front seat and is finding somewhere to shag. And played with the idea that people could watch. We brought it up a couple of days in a row but felt I had to say it was "just a fantasy, no need to do it". I said it because I felt like he didn't really mean it and it wasn't something he wanted to do.

I mean it's fine to have fantasies and talk about all the hot things that we could do. And even though a lot of these fantasies have been shared because he has asked me what I find hot, I feel like they are just going to stay as a fantasy.

Just for context, I left my boyfriend of 15 years to be with him after we met on fab so he knew how sexual and kinky I could be. And now I feel like I'm back stuck in a vanilla (ISH) relationship and I need to try some of the naughty things in my head.

I agree with jocifc. Maybe chose another to warm up on.

I had a fantasy of watching my ex girlfriend years ago. After months of teasing I couldn't settle seeing her have sex with a stranger while I watched. Instead watched her give the hottest hand action to another man in my car.

Even after making that fantasy real we didn't go further, I wasn't comfortable losing her beyond what we did.