Make her moan more?

[SexualPeak19]

Hey everyone, first post here!

So I have been wondering...

I have had a girlfriend for almost a year now. She has been my first steady sexual partner. We usually have sex about 3 or 4 times a week but I have yet to make her orgasm. She does not let me perform oral sex on her and usually remains fairly quiet during sex except...

Laying on top of her, in the missionary position, pressing my hips directly on top of her and letting my weight rest on her, we can create an intense feeling. Her pussy feels much tighter and as I push in and out of her at a medium pace sometimes I can get her moaning and doing the "oh that feels so good."

Is my assumption wrong that I have found her g-spot? What other positions can we try to reach the same effect? Usually her moaning stops and the feeling passes, what can I do to prolong it for her?

If you help out I'll be sure to tell ALL the details...

 

[phoenix1224]

You're probably NOT hitting her g-spot.

It sounds like you're inadvertently doing the CAT (coital alignment technique)... You're actually hitting her clit while having sex the way that you described.

And I would have to ask... How old is she?

Believe it or not... A lot of women in their teens and twenties just CAN'T have an orgasm... It's usually because they don't 'explore' their bodies enough while they're alone to figure out what gets them off.

Does she masturbate?

And if so, can she get herself off?

If she can't... Then maybe you could suggest to her that she play with herself more often... Or maybe YOU could just play with her manually... Exploring together to see what movements and pressures are best for her.

Hope I've helped.

 

[SexualPeak19]

My girlfriend is 19, the same age as me. She tells me that she has never masturbated before. So I think your guess, phoenix, of not having the experience is probably correct.

During foreplay, I am usually the recipient. I wish that I could give her more satisfaction during it, but she usually just wants to skip fingering and go right to the intercourse.

 

[Bobmi357]

Well this is a two way street and if she doesn't know how to drive, how can you honestly expect her to tell you what her needs are?

This is one of those threads where you want to pull the two people involved aside and say "You! Girl, go into a corner and learn to masturbate, don't come out for 6 months! And you! Boy, go into the other corner and wait for her!".

The simple fact is, even with the lights on, you're groping in the dark because she hasn't read the owners manual. Some things will feel good, some things won't. Chances are she might even mistake the onset of an orgasm for pain, which some women do mistake it for. She needs to learn how to pleasure herself before she can tell you how to pleasure her and all your good intentions aren't going to do that for her.

You might even want to show her this thread. The last thing you want is her to get the idea that sex is all one sided, with the pleasure in your half of the court.

 

[fgarvb1]

Young man...it is time you learned to eat PUSSY.

 

[Bridget69]

I agree. She has to learn to recognize what she enjoys on her own before allowing someone else to please her.

 

[Phishy]

Young man...it is time you learned to eat PUSSY.

she wont let him though. which is sad. i know in my younger years i was shy of somebody going down on me. now though, boy oh boy i really wish i had done it sooner. hehe.
give her time. try and talk to her about it. go slowly.

wish you luck.

 

[SkyyAngel]

Ya know some women just don't moan...whether it feels good or not.

Too bad I don't have that problem...wonder if I annoy the neighbors though...oh well it's not like I've been moaning lately....

 

[77Cobra]

Lick and suck her clit and pussy for at least a half hour.Then roll her on her side and grab her upper leg and spread her wide and slam into her pussy as hard as you can,act like an animal and as you do this slide a couple fingers up her ass and fuck her ass with your fingers.If she don't moan then; Call 911,she may be dead!!

 

[vargas111]

This sounds so typical!

The girl won't masturbate, won't let the guy eat pussy. She needs a remedial course in sex before dating! Now that the problen exists, he needs to encourage her to learn to pleasure herself. Maybe she has a moe coued-in sister that can help her learn to masturbate, and ideally to enjoy having her pussy eaten.

Maybe he should just find someone else who learned how to masturbate when she was 12 like everybody else.

 

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