Make a WOman Squirt

[twysted73]

Keep in mind you need 1.) Patience 2.) Willingness of Both Parties, 3.) Lotts of Lubrication, communication and enjoyment. Oh...4.) Lotts of Patience

Here's how I've approached it with success.

- Her possition: on her back, propped up a little if possible, a pillow under her ass for support.
- Her mental state: VERY arroused. You need her to be delerious with arrousal and a need to come. I suggest "mind fucking" her for the better part of the evening prior and the morning before the afternoon/evening of fun. Keep her juices (and imagination) flowing. Tap into those "really dirty, depraved and twysted" fantasies that she's spoken of shyly but desperately desires.
- Her Body: Vibrating with need. If you want to make it really fun, start teasing her and priming her a day or two before hand not letting her come until "the day". Antissipation really helps here.
That morning (if she's at work) have her take several trips into the bathroom to masturbate but not come. Then send her thoughts and plans of what you'd love to do to her or have her do for you. Include those afformentioned fantasies she's secretly craves.
(you've laid the ground work)
Now it's time to play and you have her there before you.
She had been playing with herself in the car on the way home, replaying those stories you sent her earlier in the day.
Delay it. Caress her skin. Avoid the lips, the clit and possibly even the nipples. Make every other nerve on her body feel sensation except the obvious.
(this will heighten the attention to those areas all the more since they were avoided)

She's on her back, pillow placed under her, legs apart, knees up. This possition helps to draw her muscles/tendons (and the nerves running over them) taut. ("tighter" for the laymen)
Give her plenty of oral but do not over-sensitize the clit and don't be rough (yet) on insertion. Get her close to coming but don't let her. Tell her if she does it all stops for an indefinite amount of time and there will be no rewards via sex later either. She must behave and tell you when she's close.
For god's sake make sure you clip and file your nails as well as shave your face smooth beforehand guys. Let's be smart about this. You don't need anything distracting her from this. And stubble/sharp nails really throw her.

When you slip your finger in tell her to clamp down on it and try to push it out as you finger her. Bend your index as if you're giving her the "come here" motion.
This is where you'll find her "G" (Graphenburg) spot. Most men couldn't find this with a road map so pay attention.
It will feel like a bean on your finger tip. Feel for the ridges. You're in the right area.
Finger her quickly to get her going. Perhaps a second finger (your middle is a good candidate) will help push her to the next level. *Alternating between the clit and the G is quite helpful if you posess the coordination*
As she's getting close to peaking hook your finger(s) as if you're pulling her towards you. The pressure will push her over. Short, hard, shaking pulls (an earthquake/shaking of your hand)towards you will do the trick.
Keep in mind, only a small percentage of women have that ability to tap the nerves/muscles that surround the uretheral sponge. So don't be discouraged if she doesn't turn into a fire hydrant the very first time.
Have a towel close by and reassure her/reward her with praise when she does. Let her know it's beautiful (because it is).
Best of Luck.

(tell me how this turns out for those of you who put it into practice. Add helpful hints)

 

[Yang4yin]

... and also many techniques and experiences in this thread:
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

 

[SweetErika]

Hints from my experience for those trying this:

Hint: Educate yourself on the REALITIES of female ejaculation because there are a lot of myths and misconceptions out there, from what I've seen. http://www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/ejacula.htm is one of the best sources around for interesting and factual information, and well worth the read. In fact, that entire site is awesome.

Hint: Don't go into it expecting to follow a "map" to success or feel bad if what has worked for others doesn't work for you/your partner. Sure, use "instructions" as a general guide to finding the right areas to stimulate and get ideas of possible techniques, but the main thing is to listen and respond to what feels good to your partner. She may need different types of stimulation, more gentle pressure/movement, consistent clit stimulation, etc. In my experience, good lovers don't buy into the idea that there are instructions for this kind of thing; they get a general idea of what might work and then find out what works for their partner on any given occasion (what works once or usually, probably won't always work).

Hint: Focus on making her feel good, not come or "squirt"/ejaculate. Goals like that tend to create pressure and distraction, which make orgasm and ejaculation difficult-impossible. Female ejaculation especially requires complete relaxation.

Hint: Have her empty her bladder and put towels and waterproof/water-resistant stuff down before you start, so she doesn't have to worry about peeing or soaking the bed at all. NeatSheets (reusable, but disposable, blue "sheets" often sold with picnic and outdoors supplies) are great for this. Put one on the bed, maybe folded in half or so, then cover with a couple of towels or something. Disposable, waterproof pads are sold at many pharmacies w/ home medical supplies and medical supply shops, and would also work as a "safety layer."



If you want more info, hints, anecdotal experiences, wanking material, etc., here are about a gazillion threads for your reading pleasure.

 

[marriedbiguynw]

Im lucky, as long as my fingers on my her gspot my wife ALWAYS squirts when I play with her clit...MMMMM

 

[twysted73]

Someone's always hatin' on my posts with info posted elsewhere.

I'm talking experience here damnit! That's why I lacked the thread links.

'Sides...my info is written in simple to understand form which appeals to the masses as well as being right here without making you jump elsewhere thus pandering to the ever-present "immediate gratification" mindset.

*stix tongue out*

 

[Maxell46]

Makes you not want to post doesn't it?
Your not alone

Someone's always hatin' on my posts with info posted elsewhere.

I'm talking experience here damnit! That's why I lacked the thread links.

'Sides...my info is written in simple to understand form which appeals to the masses as well as being right here without making you jump elsewhere thus pandering to the ever-present "immediate gratification" mindset.

*stix tongue out*

 

[SweetErika]

Someone's always hatin' on my posts with info posted elsewhere.

I'm talking experience here damnit! That's why I lacked the thread links.

'Sides...my info is written in simple to understand form which appeals to the masses as well as being right here without making you jump elsewhere thus pandering to the ever-present "immediate gratification" mindset.

*stix tongue out*

Twysted, I'm sorry if you felt I was "hatin'" on your post. It was certainly not my intention to contradict you or make you feel bad in any way.

What I was trying to do was add some of the things I've learned from experience, like you. From what I understand, a fair number of women don't respond as well to the techniques that are often touted as sure-fire ways to get women to have g-spot orgasms and ejaculate. Many of us (and our partners) get frustrated, disappointed and wonder what's wrong with us or where we're going wrong when they follow the "instructions" but don't get the same results. In my experience, in that situation it can feel really good to hear there are no one-size-fits-all/most instructions for this kind of thing and there's nothing wrong with you if you don't like a certain type of stimulation/activity or something doesn't work for you.

Additionally, topics like female ejaculation tend to be awash with myths and lacking in the reality department. I try to share really good info when I come across it because it's helped me so much. The-clitoris.com is one site I've found to be really excellent, and its article on female ejaculation is factual, pretty comprehensive and helps debunk a lot of the myths and misconceptions many of us have picked up along the way. I didn't post it because I thought your info was bad; I just wanted to share something I've found to be a great resource and supplement to anecdotal experiences, like yours.

There ARE tons of threads on this very topic. I think they're another good resource for people who are interested, and you asked for info, so I linked to them. I did a lousy job of conveying my comment was meant in good humor, and I'm sorry about that. I'll go edit it now.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Twysted's approach is the same one that Master uses on me and I for one can say that it's very effective.

That said, I happen to be a deviant slave bitch who thrives on mindfucking and protracted anticipation. I'm also lucky in that I find it quite easy to come generally, whereas some women have difficulty in achieving one clitoral O.

So, for the right women, this will be dynamite.

 

[twysted73]

Twysted, I'm sorry if you felt I was "hatin'" on your post. It was certainly not my intention to contradict you or make you feel bad in any way.
.

Nah, you're fine.
I was in a mood and was actually wondering how long it would take for a link dropper to swoop in and steal me thunder.

*winks* Life is good. No worries.

 

[born2blossom]

I've achieved this but 9/10 I've been made to feel like a freak because if it

 

[twysted73]

I've achieved this but 9/10 I've been made to feel like a freak because if it

It would seem then that you've been telling/asking the wrong crowd. Do your best to avoid them.
Now WE, on the otherhand........

Nice corsette.

 

[Ganyeka]

OK. I read the "the-clitoris.com" link and browsed a few others.

It seems that some people get focussed on making the woman ejaculate, instead of making it the general goal of giving the woman many and/or deeply satisfying orgasms. I mean, what happens with her ejaculate during orgasm is a by-product isn't it, not the end game? It seems that focussing on this makes it the measure of the "success" of the encounter, rather than focussing on having a deeply enjoyable erotic experience.

Just another view on it I suppose.

I have seen porn with girls squirting, and it all looked rather fake to me, or like they were urinating - and I understand that is actually often the case with porn.

I "get" that different things turn on different people. For me, if a girl squirted, that'd be fine, great even, so long as she had fun. I have been with women who get incredibly wet, my wife does, sometimes more than others, but personally I have never been with a full on "squirter".

Like anything, some people get so fixated on one thing, I guess I am saying to lets remember balance. Driving a sexual episode toward one narrow goal, ie squirting, seems to miss the more holistic and immersive point of making love.

 

[born2blossom]

It would seem then that you've been telling/asking the wrong crowd. Do your best to avoid them.
Now WE, on the otherhand........

Nice corsette.

I've never mentioned it before, its the people its happened with that find it wrong

thanks, its one of my faves

 

[Mr.G]

Geeez

twysted, if you think that was abuse and "stealing your thunda" you should try posting in the GENERAL board or some of the other similar sites around. Trust me. Post that information on MOST sites and it fills up with people who come right out and state that they've never found a Gspot and that proves your lyin and the GSPOT is a MYTH or a "plot" so some women can claim to have a better sex life than all the others. It DOESN'T MATTER that ladies are posting that it DOES work. The morons drown you and the thread in idiotic banter and "studies" that, if researched properly, entail checking CADAVERS for GSpots. I suppose a few read those posts, try something new and discover it works for them but over all THIS forum is one of the most tolerant and friendly and helpful that I've found ANYWHERE.

I started the TRY THIS thread a couple of years ago and right now it is on page 2 with 376,000 reads. Some know it works but the general theme is ""whatever works for you and your partner"" The positions vary. I suggest face down and the DOER using a thumb simply because of the fact that the musculature in your thumb - wrist - forearm - elbow and shoulder are ALL much stronger muscles than the wee muscles in your fingers and back of your wrist. If you find a woman who is in good shape and wants to have Gspot orgasms (G-Gasms) for an hour or more your positioning guarantees Karpal Tunnel Syndrome within the first 10 minutes.

If THATs how she likes it then fine. Change hands every time you feel your forearm is about to cramp and your fingers look like raisins. Again - whatever works for ya.

""It seems that some people get focussed on making the woman ejaculate, instead of making it the general goal of giving the woman many and/or deeply satisfying orgasms. I mean, what happens with her ejaculate during orgasm is a by-product isn't it, not the end game? It seems that focusing on this makes it the measure of the "success" of the encounter, rather than focusing on having a deeply enjoyable erotic experience.""

I've mentioned that over and over. Sad that couples feel that after doing whatever they're doing to produce G-gasm after G-gasm with a few (or many) clitoral orgasms thrown in for good luck, they feel like failures because she hasn't flooded the basement in the process! Silly.

As Erica stated the joy is in the doing. Especially early on you should never focus on just one thing anyway. The trip, the exploration, the intimacy, the discoveries - ALL contribute to a more loving and intimate love life. If your woman is a sweat covered, twitching out of breath PUDDLE (NOT necessarily literally, OK?) when you're done then she'll wake up with a smile and remember it all day long and dream of repeating it again the next night. You can keep her hormones raging like that for the rest of her life (some of my success emails are from couples in their mid 80's !!!!) and trust me - there is nothing sexier and more appreciative than a woman to whom you've blasted (and not in the Islamic sense) into Nirvana over and over. She will have the self confidence to want to do her best to return the favor(s) and you BOTH grow closer. With THAT in mind, soaking the bed and carpet is NOT that big a deal.

 

[lushlucid]

is it better than a clit orgasm?

 

[satindesire]

is it better than a clit orgasm?

Depends. That's like asking if strawberry ice cream tastes better than chocolate. Some people prefer one or the other, some people like both, and some like neither.

 

[Mr.G]

Read Some Of This

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

""is it better than a clit orgasm?""


Probably the biggest difference is the fact taht most women's clits become hypersensitive after orgasming so it gets TOOO sensitive to do anything with. The Gspot on the other hand can be pounded for hours.

There is much discussion from those who don't have a clue that they'd rather have QUALITY than quantity. They think many equates to tiny little ripply "ah that was nice dear." kind of orgasms. NOT SO!! Gspots from observations and testimonials are like getting hit by a train orgasms. She'll pass out. She won't be able to walk by herself for 10 or 20 minutes. She'll wake up with a huge smile on her face the next day.

Just because a few know how to trigger repeated massive orgasms using the GSPot just doesn't mean, as so many assume, that they are not very intense orgasms.