Made to Cry, how you prefer it?

[Vessira]

I'm someone who always fights back the tears (unless I'm watching some sappy movie by myself). I can't stand letting go and having someone else see my cry and letting it all out. I'm sure I'm not the only one from the posts I've seen on here. So for you slaves/subs, what's your favorite way to be made to cry? And for the Dom/mes, what's your favorite way to make your sub cry when you know they need it?

 

[Gisevius]

I'm someone who always fights back the tears (unless I'm watching some sappy movie by myself). I can't stand letting go and having someone else see my cry and letting it all out. I'm sure I'm not the only one from the posts I've seen on here. So for you slaves/subs, what's your favorite way to be made to cry? And for the Dom/mes, what's your favorite way to make your sub cry when you know they need it?

Anyone can beat the crap out of someone; however, saying just the right words that pierce the soul, that leads to sweet weeping, can be so horrifyingly beautiful.

Either to experience or witness.

 

[trojan_man_co]

caution

when dealing with essentially breaking someone so they can finally release the pent up emotion you have to be careful not to damage them psychologically. people are sad for reasons so while using pain and other methods help temporarily it doesn’t help stop whats really bothering your sub. while a good cry is always nice if there is something bothering you, you need to work it out not wait till your sub makes you release...

 

[myinnerslut]

i dont really enjoy being made to cry, but Sir enjoys my tears sometimes... i guess out of the ways hes brought on tears, being fucked hard, long, rough, and repeatedly in the ass was my favorite.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

And for the Dom/mes, what's your favorite way to make your sub cry when you know they need it?

As a dacryphiliac, sadist or dominant?

 

[catalina_francisco]

I used to be one of the ones who never cried, and he used to be one of the ones who didn't want it......then he reached a point with me which opened the floodgates and he found it was a huge turn on for him, and over time knowing this as well as trusting him with my all, I have found it easier and easier to let go of those emotions through tears. I have also found it is a wonderful release for me...not the same as pain is, but just as good in a different way. As to how I prefer to have it happen, I haven't given it a lot of thought as it is primarily more about him and how it works for him. Basically he has reached a point where it doesn't matter what does it, it still affects him the same way...he is caring and compassionate if it is because of something serious, but he cannot stop his physical reactions to it. I don't think it actually matters to me how it happens because the release coupled with the pleasure it gives him makes it something to treasure. http://www.fullsmilies.com/q/Smiley/uzgun/sad52.gif

Catalina http://www.fullsmilies.com/q/Smiley/dans-eden/smilie_tanz_037.gif

 

[Betticus]

As a dacryphiliac, sadist or dominant?

How about all three?

 

[AngelicAssassin]

How about all three?

• dacryphiliac: so the tears don't drip away before i'm done enjoying them.
• sadist: played like a harp up and down the pain scale.
• dominant: Do you still have your secret decoder ring?

 

[the captians wench]

It's funny because I'm not one to hide my emotions. If I'm happy every one around me knows, if I'm pissed they know sooner and if i'm sad they'll see a tear or two. But when it comes to scenes, I have a hard time crying. One friend bragged for 3 days because he got my eyes to water. It's just something that doesn't come easily for me, and something that I really wish would some times.

I love how cleansing it feel to be beaten to the point where I'm in tears, and then listen to His voice wrap around me like a warm blanket. I crave those scenes more than any other, but tears just don't tend to come.

He can make me cry. The only sure way we've found for me is my tack board. It's an 8"x10" board with thumb tacks glued to it that I'm made to sit on for periods of time. That will eventually bring on the tears, tho how long it will take varies.

I think that's his favorite way to make me cry. I personally would love to be whipped to tears.

 

[Kajira Callista]

I'm someone who always fights back the tears (unless I'm watching some sappy movie by myself). I can't stand letting go and having someone else see my cry and letting it all out. I'm sure I'm not the only one from the posts I've seen on here. So for you slaves/subs, what's your favorite way to be made to cry? And for the Dom/mes, what's your favorite way to make your sub cry when you know they need it?

I don't make subs cry but my fav way to be made to cry (and prolly the only way) is frustration.

 

[lne_iii]

I don't make subs cry but my fav way to be made to cry (and prolly the only way) is frustration.

Wow...that sounds hot.
*goes to scribbling on his to-do-list*

 

[JupitersGirl]

I have only been made to cry in one way, so it isn't a preference, but ....

It's his voice.

When he speaks to me in that soft, warm, confident tone telling me exactly the steps he expects me to take to present myself to him ... knowing that I will embarrass myself to please him ... and knowing that he knows that I struggle with it, but both knowing that I will do as he dictates no matter how hard the struggle ...

At first, I would try to hold back the tears, but soon he made clear to me that he enjoyed them as part of my service to him. It made it easier to let go and the letting go is like an emotional orgasm.

 

[eastern sun]

. . .

My favorite cries are when he points out my bullshit in the middle of a scene and I am suddenly struck by the fact that he can see me more clearly than I can see myself. I can feel the walls falling and sense the freshness of that newly opened space. It always makes me cry.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

i am with KC on this one..frustration, usually born from the fact that He denies me orgasm after begging, and then makes me beg again, only to deny me again,over and over until i lose control....and it hurts...and the tears start to fall....though i do try to hide the fact i'm crying, i'm not sure i do such a good job of that.......

 

[Netzach]

I am VERY selective about catharsis. I've been known to pull up and back at the last momegnt - - engaging in something more frustrating than any orgasm denial by just holding H on the edge of breaking down and crying. For a long time.

Tears are good, honest frustration and agony is even better.

 

[FurryFury]

I don't like to be made to cry.

That's not something my husband aims for thank goodness.

I find myself crying far too often lately. I'm crying over anything and everything. I don't know why. It's pissing me off at times. I've always disliked the weak woman crying template.

Other times I'm like, yeah, I'm crying, do you have a problem with it, well too bad, they are beautiful tributes and I'm comfortable with them? Those times have to do with art forms that touch me profoundly. At such times it seem right to me. I don't even wipe them away. I just let them come.

So, I don't mind crying when it feels safe or appropriate due to art touching me on an emotion deep level.

Fury

 

[catalina_francisco]

So, I don't mind crying when it feels safe or appropriate due to art touching me on an emotion deep level.

Fury

LOL, this takes me back....and is my biggest problem where I continually have to fight tears when anyone else is around. When I was a toodler, my mother says she had started singing to me and soon stopped because everytime she did I would end up sobbing my heart out...she has a lovely voice and had life been kinder she was told she could have had a professional career. We had one of those huge old wireless' in our living room, and it wasn't until she walked in one day to find me leaning against it sobbing while Elvis played through the speakers that she realised my tears were not because I was upset, but because I was moved by something I found beautiful. Since then I have always fought tears at the sight or sound of anything artistic I loved, or the beauty of nature, or people who touched me in some way.

Catalina

 

[callinectes]

My favorite way to be made to cry is to be pushed into a huge orgasm that is as emotional as it is physical. Daddy has a way of saying just the right things as he takes me to the point that I am teetering on the edge of an orgasm and puts me over the with just the right touch and tone of voice.
I don't think he enjoys the tears particularly, he enjoys the fact that I feel safe with him and have opened myself up in ways I never thought I would.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

I don't fight tears being one who chose very young to experience and express ALL that is put before me.

...but on the other hand I can say that no other individual has ever made me cry. I release tears at my whim not that of another. No one makes me do anything. I have chosen the life of a submissive and by that token have agreed to do the bidding of another. These acts delight me and yes at times illicit such a wealth of emotion that tears do fall but believe me when I say, I savor every one of them and understand that I have allowed myself to cry not someone else.


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I'm someone who always fights back the tears (unless I'm watching some sappy movie by myself). I can't stand letting go and having someone else see my cry and letting it all out. I'm sure I'm not the only one from the posts I've seen on here. So for you slaves/subs, what's your favorite way to be made to cry? And for the Dom/mes, what's your favorite way to make your sub cry when you know they need it?

 

[Yasashii_Kaze]

I cry relatively easily, although it's usually something I fight. I might let a few tears leak, but that's about it. I've been through some tough things recently, so I find myself crying enough as it is.

A few days ago, however, Snooze broke through a mental barrier I've had since childhood. I sobbed like I haven't in ages. It felt so good to just let go. Where I don't believe He has ever intentionally tried to make me cry, He knows that I am a deeply emotional person and I needed that release.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

As a sadist, I enjoy inflicting pain to the point of tears. Trust me, I WILL find that one toy in the toy bag that will push you over the edge if you want to fight it...

As a Dominant, I will find that issue/stressor/breaking point/past problem that will push you over the edge and into tears.

I will play someone to tears or push them emotionally to tears if they want it (negotiated) or if they've been suppressing the tears and need the release.

How I get the tears to come will vary from person to person, scene to scene. I'm flexible about how I get there, I revel in them when they arrive.

 

[bustyblondebombshell]

I wouldn't necessarily say I enjoyed Woodenspatulas making me cry, but it has happened on more than one occassion. sometimes through pain, sometimes through frustration... BUT when I do cry, its like a release - or an emotional orgasm as mentioned above. I also find it seems to make me more perceptive to anything that is going on in scene. The tears almost always represent a boundary being pushed and my acceptance of that.

The other thing that chokes me is the tenderness in his eyes when he removes the blindfold to feel the damp fabric and see my eyes, wiping the tears and kissing my eyelids.... makes me cry even more.....

 

[ownedsubgal]

i don't particularly enjoy crying, unless i'm reading a great book or watching some great film that has really moved me. but crying for myself? i hate that, because it means i'm in pain, i'm suffering, and it is not pleasant to me to suffer.

my Master has made me cry countless times, through countless means, but that's never his goal. more an inevitable side-effect. i often cry during a beating, just from the physical pain of it as i have a fairly low tolerance level. i make no sounds but the tears will fall in abundance. sometimes i cry due to fear or a feeling of isolation. sometimes the tears come because a little bit of me has broken inside...just being overwhelmed with sadness and despair.

 

[shy slave]

I don't have a favourite way to cry.

I really don't enjoy his seeing me red eyed and full of snot from crying.

My most memorable crying session was when we had not known each other long. I had cried and was starting to calm down. He knelt in front of the bed and lifted my face to make me look at him. He really studied my face and then said 'I have hurt you, and I am going to hurt you some more.' Wow, despite the pain I was instantly his, mentally and physically.

I struggle to cry with self pity and actually damaged my jaw because I held back tears when I was grieving. The pain was worse than any toy could give. It took six months for the pain to go completely.
My way around that was to pick a fight with him and then cry when he was angry. A dumb idea. It took me months to work out what I was doing but at least we both know I do that and I make a very real effort not to go there.

It is hard to cry without feeling selfish or guilty about it.

A scene allows all that emotion to pour out.

But I still maintain red eyes and snot ain't sexy LOL

 

[graceanne]

I don't cry. Well, rarely. But the other night I got drunk, and started bawling. I guess I needed to. The last time I cried was several years ago when Ella died, and I was drugged out of my mind before I could do that.