Mindfondler
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British M seeks F for intelligent conversations about sex (not Cybersex!)
UPDATE: Please see my follow-up at the end of this thread regarding conversations during the UK daytime -- thanks!
Hi!
I'd like to talk about sex with a lovely lady, but not in a seedy way. I believe that it can be healthy and beneficial for adults who aren't involved with each other to discuss sexual matters openly. Indeed, I'd suggest that it's often more comfortable to share intimate details between relative strangers. I'd rather not do this on an open forum, though!
If you're still reading this far, then I'm assuming that you're interested in finding out whether we might have something worth sharing. Here are some specifics about me and the type of person that I'm hoping to contact:
About me:
About you:
Are you interested? If so, then why not send me a private message? You don't need to say much at first -- just enough to prompt me to reply so that we can start a longer conversation and find out how we get on.
I'm crossing my fingers for a reply (or two!). Please think about it -- we might have a lot to offer each other.
UPDATE: Please see my follow-up at the end of this thread regarding conversations during the UK daytime -- thanks!
Hi!
I'd like to talk about sex with a lovely lady, but not in a seedy way. I believe that it can be healthy and beneficial for adults who aren't involved with each other to discuss sexual matters openly. Indeed, I'd suggest that it's often more comfortable to share intimate details between relative strangers. I'd rather not do this on an open forum, though!
If you're still reading this far, then I'm assuming that you're interested in finding out whether we might have something worth sharing. Here are some specifics about me and the type of person that I'm hoping to contact:
About me:
- I'm a professional guy in my late-forties, living in the UK. I'm happily married to my wife of many years and I have children. I'm well-educated, sociable and active. I don't normally spend much time posting on Internet forums!
- I'm NOT looking for Cybersex, or cheap thrills. I enjoy sex with my wife regularly, and it's been getting better and better over the years. I'm not looking for any more "on the side".
- My wife and I have only ever had each other and I have a longing to understand better what makes other ladies "tick". I'd love to gather some new ideas to take into the bedroom. I enjoy having deep conversations with my female friends, but I'd feel embarrassed about raising sexual topics with them, even though my wife imagines that I do some of my research that way.
- I'd enjoy offering my own perspective, experience and caring ear to a new friend. I've been told that I'm a good listener -- empathetic, open-minded and not judgemental -- and that I also have a wicked sense of humour once I'm comfortable with people.
- On the surface, I'm fairly vanilla in the bedroom, but I do have some naughtier twists and kinks (although nothing too extreme!) which I'm open to talking about. I'd like to figure out ways that I can indulge in them better with my wife, to our mutual benefit.
About you:
- You're not looking for a relationship (with me, at least!), but your sexual side is very much alive, and you have an urge to share your ideas and feelings with a thoughtful man who values women as individuals.
- Your location is not important, although it would be more convenient for conversations if you're in a similar time zone to the UK.
- Your age is not important to me (as long as you're an adult).
- Your level of sexual experience/confidence isn't important, as long as you have thoughts and feelings that you're willing to share. On the one hand, I may be able to offer you new ideas from my own perspective and, on the other, I'm open to having my boundaries stretched, as long as you're tolerant of me perhaps being a little naive at first.
- Maybe you're keen to write an erotic story yourself, but you'd like first to share your ideas and get feedback from someone with similar tastes. I'd enjoy helping you with that.
Are you interested? If so, then why not send me a private message? You don't need to say much at first -- just enough to prompt me to reply so that we can start a longer conversation and find out how we get on.
I'm crossing my fingers for a reply (or two!). Please think about it -- we might have a lot to offer each other.
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