Lower back, upper ass

evesdream

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Lower back, upper ass (no pun intended ;) ) Why does it hurt so damned much to be stropped there?
 
evesdream said:
Lower back, upper ass (no pun intended ;) ) Why does it hurt so damned much to be stropped there?

What pun? :confused:

The experts will actually tell you this is a "no strop zone."

I can only assume your top is an abuser.
 
The nerves are close to the surface, there's no solid layer of muscle to cushion the blows, the kidneys, liver and spine (among other bits best left unpummelled) are right beneath.

Why on earth would someone hit you there? Why would you tolerate it?

Sheesh. :rolleyes:

When I opened this, I thought it was going to be a thread where I could wax poetic about my passion and lust for pelvic dimples. shucks. :(

ST
 
I can answer it for me if he goes above the halfway mark on my butt, but it wouldn't apply to everyone...it is because of breaking my tailbone shortly after moving here. Before then I could handle masses of thrashing on my butt, now any vibration or striking near that area can cause excruciating pain of the not good variety and often lasting a day or two. It is literally a pain in the butt because we can no longer play without either covering the area with padding which doesn't help a lot (and spoils the mood significantly), or being extra careful about how and where and no movement on my part at all. He has never gone into those off limits areas though even before this injury.

Catalina :rose:
 
Very very much a no hit zone. So much that when one of my friends lands a stray shot even close to that area, play is stopped and he checks me over very carefully making sure that I'm okay. You never want to let anyone hit you in such an area where the spine can so easily be damaged.

but that's just my 2 bits
 
if we want to talk about safe painful play - how about top of thighs lower ass? RRARRGH!
 
To be fair, evesdream did not actually say this area was the intended target. It is not unheard of for a flogger strand, or a whip to go off target. The upper butt I do not think of as off limits until it goes into the lower back area where there is risk to kidneys etc., just for me it causes too much bad lasting pain due to the injury.

Catalina :rose:
 
Oh my goodness yes!

Chicklet said:
if we want to talk about safe painful play - how about top of thighs lower ass? RRARRGH!


Which is why my Husband chooses to hit me the most in that exact area.
:D
 
Chicklet said:
if we want to talk about safe painful play - how about top of thighs lower ass? RRARRGH!

Can I join in on the RRARRGH and add inner thighs to that?

Pain, pain, pain
 
shy slave said:
Can I join in on the RRARRGH and add inner thighs to that?

Pain, pain, pain

Yes, yes, yes, on the inner thighs thing! I have visions of taking whatever implement he's using away from him and popping him a good one with it when he's concentrating on that area! Of course, I can only imagine how much he'd like it if I were to actually do it. :p
 
Oh my gosh, you poor thing. K missed and accidently got me there with his belt once. And I feel for you.
 
Definitely Off Limits

For him to intentionally hit you in those areas where so much physical damage can be done is totally irresponsible, and must not be tolerated. It really irritates me to hear about this type of treatment, it totally ruins the whole concept of what the intended results are supposed to be.

David
 
shy slave said:
Can I join in on the RRARRGH and add inner thighs to that?

Pain, pain, pain

It hurts like hell, but I love it there. That whole light, but constant tapping all along the insides of my thighs. It hits that point where I want it to stop, but still keep going.
 
graceanne said:
Oh my gosh, you poor thing. K missed and accidently got me there with his belt once. And I feel for you.


Ug it was dreadful, mine was a stray lash too. Although the reaction was 'exquisite' (among other things) it's good to know it's a danger area.

Thanks everyone who answered my question.

(for those of you who want to know what the corny pun is, read the last part of the thread title out loud.)
 
Softouch911 said:
The nerves are close to the surface, there's no solid layer of muscle to cushion the blows, the kidneys, liver and spine (among other bits best left unpummelled) are right beneath.

Why on earth would someone hit you there? Why would you tolerate it?

Sheesh. :rolleyes:

When I opened this, I thought it was going to be a thread where I could wax poetic about my passion and lust for pelvic dimples. shucks. :(

ST

Okay, okay, let's talk about pelvic and bottom dimples..
 
evesdream said:
(for those of you who want to know what the corny pun is, read the last part of the thread title out loud.)


Ahhh, that's subtle.
 
evesdream said:
Ug it was dreadful, mine was a stray lash too. Although the reaction was 'exquisite' (among other things) it's good to know it's a danger area.

Thanks everyone who answered my question.

(for those of you who want to know what the corny pun is, read the last part of the thread title out loud.)

The reaction wasn't exquisite for me. lol I totally REDed that time. K stopped, found out what happened, put some cold aloe vera gel on it, and hten stuck to the tops of my thighs today.
 
I have coaxed out mr. angry with overt attention to the tops of the ass cheeks with my cane, yes.

It was not smart, but it sure was fun.
 
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