Loving Wives/Exhibitionist & Voyeur scenarios ?

JohnAndJane

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Hi all,

Our particular kink is for me (John) to show off the wife (Jane) to other men. We've been into this for quite a couple of years now, and have tried a couple of different things, from posting her photo's on usenet and web sites to 'accidentally' letting friends see our private photo collection to (on half a dozen really memorable occasions) having foursomes with some really good friends.

In doing all of this, we've come to realise that for us, the most arousing scenario is one in which Jane is displayed to a close friend, in the flesh, so to speak, with him being able to look at and occasionally touch her, without it progressing to a full-blown threesome.

We've written about our experiences in the past, with the stories being very close to the real thing, but we'd like to write some new ones (and yes, get some ideas for future adventures) so would love to hear from others who have ideas for scenarios in which a husband can show off his wife to a friend or two without things progressing to the common threesome.

We've read through a lot of the stories posted, and have some vague ideas, but would like to avoid writing something that's already been done to death.

Any suggestions ?

John & Jane.
 
JohnAndJane said:
Hi all,

Our particular kink is for me (John) to show off the wife (Jane) to other men. We've been into this for quite a couple of years now, and have tried a couple of different things, from posting her photo's on usenet and web sites to 'accidentally' letting friends see our private photo collection to (on half a dozen really memorable occasions) having foursomes with some really good friends.

In doing all of this, we've come to realise that for us, the most arousing scenario is one in which Jane is displayed to a close friend, in the flesh, so to speak, with him being able to look at and occasionally touch her, without it progressing to a full-blown threesome.

We've written about our experiences in the past, with the stories being very close to the real thing, but we'd like to write some new ones (and yes, get some ideas for future adventures) so would love to hear from others who have ideas for scenarios in which a husband can show off his wife to a friend or two without things progressing to the common threesome.

We've read through a lot of the stories posted, and have some vague ideas, but would like to avoid writing something that's already been done to death.

Any suggestions ?

John & Jane.

Hi, a couple of scenarios come to mind, like
contacting ex boyfriends and/or ex girlfriends,
or if a friend that is particularly shy is staying overnite, and you leave a diary open or a vhs tape in the player where anyone can see your personal intimate vids or a tape in the camcorder. Hope that helps!
Raf
:cool:
PS Your wife does look quite adorable by the way!
 
If you are trying to get ideas to write as fiction, I have loads of them!
If you are trying to get ideas to satisfy your fetish, I do not want to encourage breaking the law any further.
Yes, unconsensual voyeurism (as well as public exhibitionism) is against the law, and I can't go against my own morals, however writing fiction of such things is what I live for!

I was brought up very sexually repressed, so that might have something to do with it.
When I talk of anything remotely to do with sex (even if it's not sex itself), I am looked at in disgust if not disappointment, but enough about me.

Find someone who doesn't know you or your fetishes.
Take some snapshots of your wife in various casual settings (in various stages of undress) without sexualizing her nakedness (unless lingerie is required).
Each week (every day is too suspicious), let him find a picture that just happens to be misplaced somewhere.

Don't let on you know what's going on, or he will feel too much pressure not to look.
Let this go on for months and it will drive him crazy, which should be more rewarding at the end of this teasing.
Finally ask him to come over for (insert excuse here) when your wife just happens to be changing.

When he asks to go to the bathroom (he can't know the layout of the house), send him to the wrong room or somewhere near an open door to where she is changing.
Instruct your wife to go to different locals in the house in more and more risque outfits, including some topless ones.

Have her do this each time he comes over, and at the last minute, when he finally confesses he has been doing this, that's when the subject of a threesome comes up.
 
JohnAndJane said:
In doing all of this, we've come to realise that for us, the most arousing scenario is one in which Jane is displayed to a close friend, in the flesh, so to speak, with him being able to look at and occasionally touch her, without it progressing to a full-blown threesome.

We've written about our experiences in the past, with the stories being very close to the real thing, but we'd like to write some new ones (and yes, get some ideas for future adventures) so would love to hear from others who have ideas for scenarios in which a husband can show off his wife to a friend or two without things progressing to the common threesome.

I find the best stories and story ideas come from real incidents and places. With my own experiences and those of (kinkier) friends I may have some ideas. Many taking place in NZ and in the kiwi way of things; beaches, boats, hot pools, camping, etc

I'm more into watching these days, although this wasn't necessarily the case in the past .

PM me

PS Love to see some of your stories
 
Thank you all for the great ideas - we're sure to be able to something with the ideas you've provided.

Fantasies_only said:
...snip...(as well as public exhibitionism) is against the law, ...snip...

Strangely enough, in NZ, they aren't too fussed about women going topless. In fact, there's an annual 'Boobs on Bikes' parade in Auckland, celebrating that very thing, as part of the Erotica Expo. Go figure. :D

To clarify the scenario, in case people are wary of giving us advice that may be construed as promoting illegal activity, all activity is consensual and carried out with the full knowledge of all parties involved.

arfamo, you're right, stories based on incidents that have happened are usually the best, and in the past we've used events that have really happened as our starting point. However, we're not the sort to be constantly engaged in these activities, and coming up with storylines that are believable can be challenging, so any input you may have in terms of doing this the 'Kiwi' way would be most welcome.

formula61, thank you for the kind words. :)

J & J
 
JohnAndJane said:
Thank you all for the great ideas - we're sure to be able to something with the ideas you've provided.



Strangely enough, in NZ, they aren't too fussed about women going topless. In fact, there's an annual 'Boobs on Bikes' parade in Auckland, celebrating that very thing, as part of the Erotica Expo. Go figure. :D

To clarify the scenario, in case people are wary of giving us advice that may be construed as promoting illegal activity, all activity is consensual and carried out with the full knowledge of all parties involved.

arfamo, you're right, stories based on incidents that have happened are usually the best, and in the past we've used events that have really happened as our starting point. However, we're not the sort to be constantly engaged in these activities, and coming up with storylines that are believable can be challenging, so any input you may have in terms of doing this the 'Kiwi' way would be most welcome.

formula61, thank you for the kind words. :)

J & J
I'm sorry for being so preechy, I just wasn't sure the type of ideas I'd be giving you.
Yes, people do go topless in the US as well (Google Topfreedom), they just don't want you looking, and there are a few places public nudity is tolerated.
 
Fantasies_only said:
I'm sorry for being so preechy, I just wasn't sure the type of ideas I'd be giving you.
Yes, people do go topless in the US as well (Google Topfreedom), they just don't want you looking, and there are a few places public nudity is tolerated.

No problem at all, FO. That topfree site was most informative, btw, thanks for suggesting it. In fact, it's given us a rather nice idea for our next story. :D
 
Hi

My wife and i are very much into the same scene as yourself, i like showing her off and she is a born exhibitionist. Some of the scenarios we have found ourselves in are listed below.

Two of my friends and i used to go to a snooker/pool club once a week. One week my wife came along as well, she knew both guys well and had teased them remorslessly for years. She wore a short skirt and very low cut top. She actually plays a great game but for some reason this week she beat us all.

Having a large bust she loved it when men looked at her and never wore a bra, she had a very thin skimpy bikini and loved swimming in the sea, sometimes as she walked out of the water the top would pull to one side exposing her breast. Depending on who we were with would dictate how quickly she noticed it.

She loved being driven down the motorway (uk) topless, in the summer she would always want the car top down, even when she was fully dressed.

Sometimes at parties or clubs if a guy was eyeing her up she would deliberately go up to him and let him know that she wasn't wearing a bra or panties, then she would dance with him, always making sure i was around.

There were many other's if you want to know some more mail me.
 
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JohnAndJane said:
No problem at all, FO. That topfree site was most informative, btw, thanks for suggesting it. In fact, it's given us a rather nice idea for our next story. :D
I suggest you don't do this purely for a sexual thrill.
Topfreedom is not meant as sexual, and if it's made so, you are undermining everything it stands for.
What you can do is start your own group for voyeurism rights, that is consensual voyeurism.

Although consensual voyeurism is already legal (in America), it is still looked down upon as something dirty (both Peeping Tom fetish and video voyeurism).

This should also be part of the topfree movement.
A man with his shirt off wouldn't mind you looking at, admiring, or staring at his chest.
In fact, muscular or well toned abs (pecs included) is a subject of pride, and possibly status.
Why isn't this so on women?

When talking of breast onlookers, women will compare it with a man's groin.
This is an unfair comparison unless the woman's pussy is at her cleavage.

That would be a good story as well!
A woman who looses her vagina and it appears between her breasts.
 
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JohnAndJane said:
Hi all,

Our particular kink is for me (John) to show off the wife (Jane) to other men. We've been into this for quite a couple of years now, and have tried a couple of different things, from posting her photo's on usenet and web sites to 'accidentally' letting friends see our private photo collection to (on half a dozen really memorable occasions) having foursomes with some really good friends.

In doing all of this, we've come to realise that for us, the most arousing scenario is one in which Jane is displayed to a close friend, in the flesh, so to speak, with him being able to look at and occasionally touch her, without it progressing to a full-blown threesome.

We've written about our experiences in the past, with the stories being very close to the real thing, but we'd like to write some new ones (and yes, get some ideas for future adventures) so would love to hear from others who have ideas for scenarios in which a husband can show off his wife to a friend or two without things progressing to the common threesome.

We've read through a lot of the stories posted, and have some vague ideas, but would like to avoid writing something that's already been done to death.

Any suggestions ?

John & Jane.


Dear Jane/John;

I don't know where you two live but,we have some of the same ideas too.
My hubby (tony) likes me to dress up when we go out for fun like you two and we go to the larger citys near by so we don't run into anyone we know or work with.
I enjoy this kind of fun too and tony likes me to dress up in my open heel & toe hi heels and always wear either my full fashion havana seamed stockings or my reinforced heel & toe stockings and usually in a chocolate,or taupe shade.Men seem to notice when your wearing gartered stockings and not pantyhose.Especially when your hi heels reveil the reinforcments,in your heels and toes.
We always patronise the proper dress lounges/nightclubs near the large airport area we go for fun.Theres a lot of hotel lounges and clubs that attract traveling men as well as couples that like to play.
When we sit in a lounge or nightclub,tony usually finds a table where everyone can see my legs,and nylon tops when I'm seated.This usually puts you in contact with a lot of men and women.
I hope what ever you look for,you do it safe and with your dear husband.
Sex is always good after a good night of being shown off.
helen(nylontops)
 
nylontops said:
Dear Jane/John;

I don't know where you two live but,we have some of the same ideas too.
My hubby (tony) likes me to dress up when we go out for fun like you two and we go to the larger citys near by so we don't run into anyone we know or work with.
I enjoy this kind of fun too and tony likes me to dress up in my open heel & toe hi heels and always wear either my full fashion havana seamed stockings or my reinforced heel & toe stockings and usually in a chocolate,or taupe shade.Men seem to notice when your wearing gartered stockings and not pantyhose.Especially when your hi heels reveil the reinforcments,in your heels and toes.
We always patronise the proper dress lounges/nightclubs near the large airport area we go for fun.Theres a lot of hotel lounges and clubs that attract traveling men as well as couples that like to play.
When we sit in a lounge or nightclub,tony usually finds a table where everyone can see my legs,and nylon tops when I'm seated.This usually puts you in contact with a lot of men and women.
I hope what ever you look for,you do it safe and with your dear husband.
Sex is always good after a good night of being shown off.
helen(nylontops)
It sounds like you would be right at home with cosplayers.
I haven't seen them, but I know there has to be some costume play convetions somewhere.
For more info and costumes, click here.

This site has costumes (both Japanese and American) from comic books, TV shows, movies, animated programs, video games, and erotica/porn.
You can also get your own DIY ideas from a MIX & MATCH section.
 
We share your excitement in this activity. I have been an active exhibitionist for years. We like to attend sporting events with stadium or grandstand seating. This allows opportunity for me to expose my legs or stockings and also upskirt glimpses. It is beyone exciting.!!!
 
One of my partners was a photography major and often put together erotic photo collections of various women of like sexuality and would have exhibitions where all the subjects were invited.

It was extremely arousing and interesting to meet with someone and to have seen them naked in multiple photographs. Your thoughts would either meander based on the contrast between the photography and reality or based on the similarity between the two.

From your standpoint, you could develop it as a hobby- buy a nice digi cam and go to work. New Zealand has beautiful landscape and natural features. Start it out as a public hobby and work on your lighting spacing, angles, etc, all the while practicing a more personable and erotic form at home.

Get good and start putting your pictures up in the house. My sister has a large (24 x 36) photograph of herself reclining in a day bed with just a white transparent linen drape laid across her in her living room. If you give it more than a passing glance you can notice all the features of her body. Many of her guests pace back and forth in front of it trying to get a better grasp on the image.
 
Athena_e19 said:
From your standpoint, you could develop it as a hobby- buy a nice digi cam and go to work. New Zealand has beautiful landscape and natural features. Start it out as a public hobby and work on your lighting spacing, angles, etc, all the while practicing a more personable and erotic form at home.

Done that already, actually. ;) You could say it's a public hobby, seeing as Jane's often pictured undressed in the local landscape.
 
JohnAndJane said:
Strangely enough, in NZ, they aren't too fussed about women going topless. In fact, there's an annual 'Boobs on Bikes' parade in Auckland, celebrating that very thing, as part of the Erotica Expo. Go figure. :D

We Americans are too stuffy! :rolleyes:


Not to take away from your actual story idea you have going on here, I love the "boobs on bikes" theme. ;) I'm thinking, even with our public indecency laws here, some biker chicks would make the Sturgis run topless. :)
 
Hallowed Eve said:
We Americans are too stuffy! :rolleyes:


Not to take away from your actual story idea you have going on here, I love the "boobs on bikes" theme. ;) I'm thinking, even with our public indecency laws here, some biker chicks would make the Sturgis run topless. :)

I stand corrected. It's not only Auckland that has it. Christchurch has also jumped on the bandwagon, so to speak, and has its own event celebrating....boobs on bikes! Yay!!!

Boobs on bikes video clip

Gotta love this place. :)
 
I've never been to the land 'o Kiwis, but I have to chuckle a bit for a town named Christchurch getting in on this fun. ;)
 
Hallowed Eve said:
I've never been to the land 'o Kiwis, but I have to chuckle a bit for a town named Christchurch getting in on this fun. ;)

It is kinda funny, isn't it ? :)
Us Kiwis have an odd sense of humour, methinks.
 
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