Loveline

[Lunafilly]

Loveline
Does anybody else listen to this show?

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[Ravenloft]

Used to watch it on mtv, when I had cable...

Adam was fucking funny, crude, but funny.

Drew was pretty smart most of the time, but I think he was just a little over the top a few times...

 

[scylis]

yup. every now and then when i'm in my car that late at night.

 

[Lunafilly]

Yeah, I think it's really funny...but a little disheartning because it really illustrates how stupid these people are. =(

I was just listening tonight..

 

[Lunafilly]

So...I thought we could have our own little loveline deal here...

Here is the subject:

Monogomy

 

[Ravenloft]

Monogomy, its really an ideal thought, but where do you draw the line, do any of the people you cyber with count against it?

Or are you just talking physical acts here?

 

[perks]

monogamy... the act or condition of being married to only one person at one time.

I assume you're talking about sexual faithfullness and not just marriage.

I think the protocols and conditions of marriage are interpreted by the parties involved and not necessarily by public morality.

Marriage is judged by should "be"s and would "be"s. It shouldn't be judged by the people that aren't in it.

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

monogamy... the act or condition of being married to only one person at one time.

I assume you're talking about sexual faithfullness and not just marriage.

I think the protocols and conditions of marriage are interpreted by the parties involved and not necessarily by public morality.

Marriage is judged by should "be"s and would "be"s. It shouldn't be judged by the people that aren't in it.

Very well said.

 

[Cibo]

I used to listen to them until a new radio stationed opened up and plays 120 minutes of non stop music when love line is on...so I listen to the music instead.

 

[Lunafilly]

monogamy... the act or condition of being married to only one person at one time.

I assume you're talking about sexual faithfullness and not just marriage.

I think the protocols and conditions of marriage are interpreted by the parties involved and not necessarily by public morality.

Marriage is judged by should "be"s and would "be"s. It shouldn't be judged by the people that aren't in it.

Very True, very True.

I never did mean to imply marriage (that would be another topic entirely)

but yes, sexual faithfullness. I think that this would also be determined by the couple's agreement with each other.

But someone once told me that (and I heard this on loveline the other day) that Men cheat because/when they can just because - and that Women cheat when they feel something is lacking (love/attention/affection/listening/sexual dissatisfaction).

If this is true - doesn't this mean that men cannot be faithful to one woman no matter how satisfied they are by her?

 

[Aphrodisiac]

But someone once told me that (and I heard this on loveline the other day) that Men cheat because/when they can just because - and that Women cheat when they feel something is lacking (love/attention/affection/listening/sexual dissatisfaction).

If this is true - doesn't this mean that men cannot be faithful to one woman no matter how satisfied they are by her?

I don't know ... I have met men who the reason they stepped outside of their relationship was because some thing was lacking. They wanted attention, some one who understood their ups & downs, some one who understood their emotional wants ... a woman who could offer them what was lacking in their marriage/relationship.

 

[lovetoread]

Monogamy is what you expect in a relationship unless you have talked about it before hand.

You cannot come back after sleeping with someone and say that you "thought" you had that kind of relationship.

 

[bored1]

I don't know ... I have met men who the reason they stepped outside of their relationship was because some thing was lacking. They wanted attention, some one who understood their ups & downs, some one who understood their emotional wants ... a woman who could offer them what was lacking in their marriage/relationship.

As a reformed cheater<I dont like how that sounds>I now believe totally in monogomy whether Im married or just in a relationship, Unfaithfulness reflects character or lack of,In my case I wanted attention and the exciting sex that comes with a new partner,In retrospect these issues should have been discussed in an adult manner with my now xspouse.