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FurryFury
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I do this constantly but no one leaves. I only do it with people though, NOT cats.
I believe it's pretty true. I don't want to keep someone in my life that doesn't want to be with me. OTOH, these people are not telling me they want to leave me to fuck someone else or anything . . .
Fury
I believe it's pretty true. I don't want to keep someone in my life that doesn't want to be with me. OTOH, these people are not telling me they want to leave me to fuck someone else or anything . . .
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BedtimeStories77
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Auraka6669
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I'm in the middle of something like this at the moment.
It's only as true as the people involved. If they know how you feel, then it's as true as it can be. At that point it is their call to love you back, and return.
I wish you well in this journey.
It's only as true as the people involved. If they know how you feel, then it's as true as it can be. At that point it is their call to love you back, and return.
I wish you well in this journey.
eastern sun
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. . .
Almost everyone I've Let Go has come back, only to leave again.
It seems to be the thing that they do - come and go.
(Or maybe it's me.)
I feel lucky to be married to a guy who stays.
Almost everyone I've Let Go has come back, only to leave again.
It seems to be the thing that they do - come and go.
(Or maybe it's me.)
I feel lucky to be married to a guy who stays.
babiesmiles
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Even if I don't completely agree with the sentence " if you love someone set it free" (WTF if you stay with me you stay with ME... damn it! ) I do believe in returns .
Life is a circle ....πάντα ρει....(everything flows ) nothing is lost forever . Never .
Occasions come back , people come back ; you never can say when or where and even how, but in my experience they do . The best we can do is to keep our heart and soul open and be able to recognize the fate when it bumps against us.
Blindness ( or pretended one ) is the main trap we close ourselves in .
We surely won't live forever but it is up to us to live it intense .
Life is a circle ....πάντα ρει....(everything flows ) nothing is lost forever . Never .
Occasions come back , people come back ; you never can say when or where and even how, but in my experience they do . The best we can do is to keep our heart and soul open and be able to recognize the fate when it bumps against us.
Blindness ( or pretended one ) is the main trap we close ourselves in .
We surely won't live forever but it is up to us to live it intense .
marieR19
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I've taken that advice to heart many times, and every time they've left and not come back. *frowns* So, yeah. I'd rather they don't come back if they don't actually want to be with me, but... then I think "well if I hadn't been so willing to let them go, would they have stayed?"
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I let my ex-boyfriend go. He came back. I realized that I was healthier and happier without him and let him go again, this time for good.
Not saying it's easy or that it always turns out neatly, but I definitely believe in it.
Not saying it's easy or that it always turns out neatly, but I definitely believe in it.
minx1
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Netzach said:
Netzach took the words right out of my mouth. I left my husband a couple of years ago...it took a lot out of me to do it, but I was no longer the person I used to be...I had lost my spark. I set myself free and 'me' came back
I don't believe the statement necessarily means that you have to make a sacrifice and let that person go, physically. I think it can also mean if you love someone, cherish them, support them, empower them to be what they want to be....in my mind thats equally setting something free.
Brandii
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I had to take a step back from my trusted mentor because somewhere amid our 'playtime sessions' the whole thing became real for me and when he used the word "my" as in "you are my little slut, aren't you? etc" I began to believe we were becoming a couple. We weren't.
I spent yesterday in tears and half of today, and then I picked myself up and began to look at my options. I could either give up completely and return to the recluse I was before or I could take all the gifts he gave me and use them to move forward... and that is what I have chosen to do. I'm not going to just lay down and die [so to speak] as then everything he taught me and all the time he spent with me would have been for naught.
I know he never meant to hurt me and that always had my best interests at heart. I just miss him.
I spent yesterday in tears and half of today, and then I picked myself up and began to look at my options. I could either give up completely and return to the recluse I was before or I could take all the gifts he gave me and use them to move forward... and that is what I have chosen to do. I'm not going to just lay down and die [so to speak] as then everything he taught me and all the time he spent with me would have been for naught.
I know he never meant to hurt me and that always had my best interests at heart. I just miss him.
